婚姻情感心态咨询：如何挽回婚姻？

 xuduorenhuiganjuehenguaiyi，weiheyouderendehunyinshenghuonenggouneimaxingfukuaile，erzishendehunyinshenghuoyizhiguodehenchade。tamenyeyuanyizhaohunyinqingganxinlizixunshikaizhanqingganzixun，zhangwohunyindezhendi，quezaicaimiyouyanjiangcuchadelingsuirichangshenghuomitu，zuizhonghunyinshenghuodouliekaile。

 zenyangwanjiuyiduanhunyinshenghuobianchengletamenjiqieyuanyichulidenanti。zaihunyinqingganzixunzhong，hunyinqingganxinlizixunshijianggaozhidahuoerzenyangcainengwanjiuyiduanhunyinshenghuo。

一、接纳犯错误的人

 jinguanbujienatafancuowudegerenxingwei，danjiarutayouchengrencuowudeguannian，neimenihebushizhequlejiehejienatafancuowudeyuangu：shibeihulve、bubeizhongshilemeiyou?shigongzuozhongbugaoxingma?

二、试着去宽容另一方

 dangniqueshixiangwanhuilaogong，nijiuwubidongdekuanrong。tangruotaganjuehuijiazhihuibeinizhize，neimatashibutaikenenghuihuitoulude。

三、不必死缠

 aiqiuwenzi、sichanlanda，zhihuijiasunidehunyinshenghuodewanbibufa。shidudejilingyifangxiqideshineikongjian，youshishuyuanbicishiyizhongfazhan，caikeyirangtayoulitiganzaoshounidehao。

四、释然看待，认可另一方的情绪

 danglingyifangtiliyideshiduanbuyuwangbufanzaobuzhenglunbianbobujiqieranglingyifangkuanrongni。lizaitadejiaodian，zhangwotadexintaizhuangtaihexiangfa。yiqiqingjingbiaoshunidexiangfa，danyejingzhongtadexiangfa。

 neimetacaihuizhaobuzheyanyubuduangennizhenglunbianbo，yehuiziwofansidaozishenshifoucunyouyiwen。yinci，danglingyifangtiliyideshiduan，ninengneimehuiying，hao，wofuyijiehua，danshizheiyidewenyixiaxiaohaidedingjian/guoleyigeyueyishimamadeguoshengri，bideshangjizuoshengrizhihouzailima?”。

五、让自身有风采

 xuduoneishihouhunyinshenghuoganqingchuxianwentiyouyuxianghujiantaishuxi，fandaoshaolexuduohuxiangxiyinzhudefengcai。xiangfangfafengfuzishen，rangwomendeshenti、zhishanghuoqinggandouyuelaiyueyouyouhuoli，jianjiandidetahuijuededaonidezhuanbian。

 hunyinshenghuoqingganxintaizixunjuedekuozhangzishendeweixinpengyouquanshishifenyoulideyijianshier。duojieshiyixiexinpenyou，xuexipeixuntamenshoushangdeyoushi，neiyangzaifensanhuaqingganjizhongzhuyilidelingwaihaitigaolebenrenfengcai。

六、把疑问摆放在桌面上上去

 jiranyiwenyijingzhanxian，jiumeibanfaduobitadecunyou。jiadingwobutonggaonidelingyibanjiujingshishenmeyiwengannaozheni,nijiubiexiwangnenggaishandajiazhongjiandelianluo。

 chengzhidebiaoshunideyaoqiuhezaodongbuan,bunengyongweixieyexuchizedeyudiao,neimenidelingyibanjiuburongyisuobixinxian。yingyong“wo”deshuohuafangfaerbingbushi“ni”deshuohuafangfa。nenggoushuo“wohenfan”,erbubishuo“nirangwohenfan”。

 zheigennixunzhaohunyinqingganzixunshidexiezhushiyiyangde，zaixianghuchuxianfenqideneishihou，dakaixinfei，gaozhilingyifang，yiqizhaoxunchulidenanti。

七、维持开朗心态

 hunyinshenghuoqingganxintaizixunnenggouhenhaowuyiwendishuo，meiyouyigerenxiangyaomeirichongzheyigexiaojibeiguanderen，dangnimeirizhihuichixumaiyuan、falaosao，neitazhihuiliniyuelaiyueyuan。chulaiyunidenantongpenyouyiqi，wulunshiguangjiegouwu，huanshikandianshiju、tingyinlehui，zhinengyigemudi，neibianshirangzishengaoxing!

 xiubuhunyinshenghuoliefengshiyijianbixuyiliyuhengxindeshier，yidiandiandishiqixianghusangshideganqing，jinerqudechenggongdiwanhuilaogong。ruoqueshibuqingchuwanhuilaogonggaizenyangzheshou，neimaneishihouyaozhaoxunhunyinqingganzixunshiqiuzhule，biezaiyouyu，yaoyingyongdijizijidexingfuhunyinchengdan。