henduorendouhuijuedehenqiguai,weishenmeyouxierendehunyinkeyineimexingfu,erzijidehunyinzongshiguodewuyanzhangqide。tamenyexiangyaozhaohunyinqingganxintaizixunshijinxingqingganzixun,lejiehunyindezhendi,quezaicaimiyouyanjiangcuchadesuosuishenghuozhongmishi,zuihouhunyindoupoliele。
ruhewanhuiyiduanhunyinchengweiletamenpoqiexiangyaojiejuedewenti。zaihunyinqingganzixunzhong,hunyinqingganxintaizixunshijianggaosudajiaruhecainengwanhuiyiduanhunyin。
一、接受犯错的人
suiranbujieshoutafancuodexingwei,danruguotayourencuodeyishi,neinibufangshizhequlijiehejieshoutafancuodeyuanyin:shibeihushi、bubeizunzhonglema?shigongzuobukaixinma?
二、试着去原谅对方
ruguonizhendexiangwanhuihunyin,neijiubixuxuehuiyuanliang。jiaruotajuedehuilaizhihuibeinizeguai,neimetashibudakenenghuihuitoude。
三、不要纠缠
qiqiu、sichanlanda,zhihuijiakuainidehunyindejieshujiaobu。shidangdejiduifanghuxidekongjian,youshihoushulishiyizhongjinbu,cainengrangtayoukongjianganshoudaonidehao。
四、坦然对待,认同对方的心情
dangduifangtilihundeshifenbuchongdongbujizaobuzhengbianfanbobujiyurangduifangkuanshuni。zhanzaitadeshidian,lejietadexintaihezhuyi。yiqianjingbiaodanidezhuyi,danyezunjingtadezhuyi。
zheimetacaihuizhaobudaoyancichixugennizhengbianfanbo,yehuifanshengdaobenshenshibushicunzaiyiwen。suoyi,dangduifangtilihundeshifen,nikeyizheimedafu,hao,wofuhe,keshizheigedewenxiahaizidedingjian/zaiguoyigeyuejishimuqindeshengri,nengbijiguoshengriyihouzailima?”。
五、让自己有魅力
henduoshihouhunyinganqingchuxianwentishiyinweibicizhijiantaishuxi,fanershaolehenduoxianghuxiyindemeili。xiangbanfachongshiziji,rangnideshenti、zhilihuoqinggandoubiandeyouxiyinli,manmandetahuiganjuedaonidebianhua。
hunyinqingganxintaizixunrenweikuodazijidepengyouquanshifeichangyouyideyijianshiqing。duojiejiaoyixiexinpengyou,xuexitamenshenshangdeyoudian,zheiyangzaifensanqingganzhuyilidetongshihaitishenglegerenmeili。
六、把疑问摆到桌面上来
jiranyiwenxianyichengxian,jiuhennantaobitadecunzai。jiashenibutongzhinidelingyibandaodishishayiwenganraozheni,neijiubiepanwangnenggaijinnimenzhijiandelianxi。
zhenzhidebiaodanidexuqiuhebuan,buyaoyongweixiehuoxuzhizedeyuqi,zheimenidelingyibanjiubuhuibisuoxinfei。shiyong“wo”deshuohuabanfaerbushi“ni”deshuohuabanfa。keyishuo“wohenfan”,erbuyaoshuo“nirangwohenfan”。
zheigennixunqiuhunyinqingganzixunshidebangzhushiyiyangde,zaibicichuxianmaodundeshihou,changkaixinfei,gaosuduifang,yiqixunzhaojiejuedewenti。
七、保持乐观情绪
hunyinqingganxintaizixunkeyihenkendingdishuo,meiyouyigerenyuanyimeitianduizheyigeyizhixiaochenderen,ruguonimeitianzhihuibuduanbaoyuan、falaosao,neitazhihuiliniyuelaiyueyuan。chuquhenidetongxingpengyouyiqi,buguanshiguangjie,haishikandianying、tingyinlehui,zhiyouyigemude,neijiushirangzijikaixin!
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