花镇咨询投诉：出轨男人应该怎么办

 suishisuidishehuifazhandefazhanqushi，dajiajichurichangshenghuoyaoqiuhuodelekaolv。waiyu、hunhouchugui、disanzhe、lianren……zheizhongcijuzhujiandecongshengshubianchengledahuoersuolejiedebuzhouyu。huazhenzixuntousuzheizhongzhuduo，mobutixianleshixiashehuifazhandajiazhenduihunyinshenghuo、xingshenghuodeduiwaikaifang。zhongshihaoxiangzaoyibianchengguoqushi，naizhidajiachangyeyudishuo“zhongshinengdangfanchima?”。

 meiyicitingjianyixiepenyoushuochajuezijidedelaogongbushoufudao，chuguinanrenle，yinggaizenmebanni?wodoushihuishenshenduitamenbiaotongqing。shubuzhi，zaizheigequanshijie，youjigenanshengmeiyoushenbeizishendexifuzaiwaimianyoushihoufangzongguoyixiaoxiani?yaoshinanshengyouyidiandiankushuai，huoshinvxingyouyidiandianfengzi，doufeichangrongyibeilingyifangsuoxiyinzhu。

 ernanhaihenvhaibuyiyangdediqu，bianshinvxingguoqulejinzinianji，jiushiqunianqingshidaidefengcai，fanguolaizuoweinansheng，zixiaodao16suiyizhilaotao60sui，doushihuibeipiaoliangdenvrenxiyinzhu，tashiyijianguangweirenzhideshier。

 nayigenvxingbuqidaizishendezhangfubeibierenkua，nayigenanrenaiqidaizishendemeinvbeitarenkanni，zheileixiweidexinlizhuangtai，zhongjiulewaiyuzheiyijianshierdecunyou，tashikeguanshishi，wukefeiyi。

 dangchuguinanrenzhaohunhouchuguideqingkuangxia，xianglaijuedaduoshunvxingdouhuikaolvdaoyigenanti：zheiyichuguinanrenhaizhibuzhiwanliuni?

1、外遇男眼前需理智

 zailejiezishenchuguinanrenzhihou，juedaduoshunvxinghuiyizhibuzhuxinlidebulizhiyunaonu，tamenhuiyoukuyounao、nuhou、yurenkoushi，shenzhiyoulihunle，zaikanbudaozheiyibeipanzhe。keshexiang，nidebulizhi，nidejianchiliyibugengshijiledisanzheyigezhuanzhengdingjidejiyuma?yingduiwaiyunan，nvxingyidingyaolizhi。

 hebulizhidicongbenshenkaolv，xiangyixiangnanrenweishenmeyaowaiyuni?dangyigenanrenxiangyaoquyigenvrenhuijialedeqingkuangxia，wanbanxiaiyutengxi，danshijiaowangjiulemianbuleyiranhuiyouyixiehenni，naizhilianmldoushiquyiwangdereqing，dabufen7nianzhiyangweijiyejiushunlichengzhangdechuxian，nanshengdegongzuopingwen，jielehundenvrendaiwabianchengrenlaozhuhuang，fajuerenshengdaoludezhuiqiuwanmeizaina?

 yincinanshengbiangangkaishizhaoxunxindecijixingjinerzhengshizishenhuanshiyoufengcaide，shirengrannianqingde。zuoweinansheng，yibanheshenpangdedixiongxianliaodeqingkuangxia，dabufendoushiyouguohunhouchugui，meiyoudeyefeichangshaoqueyexiangguo。

 xuduonanshengjuedechuguinanrenyouhunhouchuguizugouzhengshizishenfengcairengran，yiner，huazhenzixuntousunanshenghunhouchuguibuyidingdoushinanrendezeren，yeshiyoukenengshinvxingzaoyisuiyueyiburangqisangshixingquaihaole。duoshengchanzhizaoyixiexiaojingxi，rangpingfandeshenghuoyibukuzao，jianxinhunhoushenghuohuigengxingfu。

2、外遇男只想出轨，不愿离异

 yiqianjingliyigediaoyan，juedaduoshunanshengjingliwaiyudelijing，danshitamenquebuyuanyiliyi。youyuhenduorendoulejie，meirenkeyitidaixifuzheiyiyingxiangli，conghuidenanshengdoulejie，hunhouchuguijinjinrichangshenghuodeyigediaoji，shiyongyuwanshua，erxifushiyongyuguoshenghuode，ruguoyoumaodunyebukeyisheqizheiyijiazhong。

 churuzhichangzhong，nanshengmianbuleyaojiaoji，xuduonanshenghuiniqingwoyuan，waiyuyewukebimian，youyixienanshengshijishangbingbuyuanyipanbianlaopopanbianjiazhong。zaichuguiyihou，tamenxinliyeshifendekuijiu。kanjiantarenwaiyufangfohenfengliukuaihuo，danshizhenshidaozishenchuguile，yiqiequebuxiangxiangxiangzhongneiyangxingfu。yineryeshiyouxuduochuguinanrenhouzhuihuimojide，tamenbuyuanyizaicifasheng。