冷爱：不排斥相亲的我觉得婚姻可有可无怎么办

　　fenshouleyoubanijiahuilaibutihehaoshenmeyisi，zaineiduanjianshuzhong，womenjiangyaotaolunyigebiciqianshedanyouwufahuajiedeqinggandanxin。dangbicizhijianyiqianfenshouzhihou，quezaiyicifanhuitarendeshenghuozhong，zheizhongxingweihaoxiangchuandachuyizhongmohubuqingdexinxineirong。neiyang，weishenmejiahuilaiquebutanhehaodezhenshiyongyishishenmeyangdeni？zheileifanzadeqingganqingkuangjilingrenkunhuo，youqiandonglegengduoxinxuheqingganjiuchanbuqing，womenhuizaihoumianzhongkeshukongshenrufenxi。

　　fenshouzhihouyoubalingyifangjiahuilai，quebingmeiyoutijihehao，zheidaodiyiweishenme？zheishiyizhongqingganyihuo，anzangzhefanzadeshenglixinliqinggandongyin。xialiejiangzaisangebutongshijiaoshenrutantao，tanxunzheiyixingweidekenengxinghanyi。

　　情感恩怨：一种难以释怀的依赖

　　fenshouleyoubanijiahuilaibutihehaoshenmeyisi，wanhuideyuwangbuyuantijihehaodexintai，henyoukenenglaiyuanyufenshouzhihouyirancunzaideqingganenyuan。jinguanbicizhijianyiqianqujueyufenkai，danshineixinrengduilingyibanhuaiyouduteqinggan，xiwangkeyizaicihuidaobicideshenghuozhong，yuqishuozaiciqudelianxi。danshi，youyinsunhai、caiyi、meiyouxinrendengduozhongyinsu，yifangtiaoxuanlinshihushihehaozheiyihuati，buganmaoxianmianduifuzadeqingganenyuan。

　　心理安全：寻找躲避保护的形式

　　zaifenshouzhihouyoujiahuilailingyifangdanbutanhehaodeqingxingxia，kenengshiyizhongxunzhaoxinlizhuangtaianquanfangfa。zheizhongzuofakenengshiyifangqidainengbaochibicizhijiandeguanlian，tongshiyexiangfangzhizaidushoushanghai。jiahuilailingyifang，jikeyibaochiyizhongmohubuqingdeyilaixing，younenggoujianshaowuliganhekebianxing，danshitongshibutijihehao，daibiaozhelingyifangbingmeiyouhuodezhenzhengyiyishangderentonghechedidijieshou。zheishiyizhongziwobaohudexintai，henyoukenenglaiyuanyudanxinzaidushoushangxinlizhuangtai。

　　情感操控：一种测试和主导用意

　　fenshouzhihoubaduifangjiahuilaidanshibutijihehao，kenengshiyizhongceshihezhudaoyongyi。zheizhongzuofakenengshiyifangchangshicaokongqingganlianxidejiezoumaixiang。genjubutijihehao，yifangnenggoucaokongbicizhijianzhijiandegoutongyujiaoliu，yiciqushilingyifangzuochuteshudehuifuhuobiaotaifayan。zheishiyizhongceshilingyifangzhenzhengqingganyulichangdefangfa，yeshiyizhongchangshicaozongjushidexinlizhuangtaiduice。

　　fenshouleyoubanijiahuilaibutihehaoshenmeyisi，zongeryanzhi，fenshouzhihouyoubalingyifangjiahuilai，danbutijihehaodejudongshenhouhenyoukenengyunzangzhenanyishihuaideqingganenyuan、xunzhaoxinlianquanjiqiceshihezhudaoyongyi。zheileifanzadeshenglixinliqinggandongyinxuyaoshuangfangshenrujiaoliuyulijie，cainengzuodaozhenzhengjiechuyihuo，xunzhaochushihebicijiejuefangan。