分手后主动复联后该如何挽回爱情?

　　fenshouleyoubanijiahuilaibutihehaoshenmeyisi，dangmourenhenifenshouzhihou，queturanbanijiahuilai，zeduihehaozheijianshiqingzhuanglongzuoyashi，budeburangrenkunhuobuyi。zheizhongzuofashifouyiweizhetamenduiyufenkairengyouyidingdelianlianbushe？huoshi，zhishichuyuyishideguduhuowuquerzuodejueding？buguangenbenyuanyinzenyang，fuheleshibushigengyouyiyibuqueding，erxuyaoshuangfangshencengcigoutongyulejie。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，yexuyinggaikaolvshibushizhendezhidejianchixiaqu。

　　困惑与心理游戏

　　fenshouleyoubanijiahuilaibutihehaoshenmeyisi，dangfenshouzhihou，qiaoqiaodejiahuilingyifang，quebierbujianhehaodeyongyi，zheizhongzuofadaozhilezhuduocaixiangyukunhuo。neiyangburenzhenzhijiandehudong，youkenengshiyizhongxinliyouxi，huozhelingyifangchangshijiancenideqingxu。

　　探寻宽慰与躲避

　　youshihou，fenshouzhihourenyaohuranjiahuilingyifang，butanhehao，kenengjiushiyinweitamengandaogudanhuoshizhengmianlinzheyiduanqinggandekumenqi。tamenyexuzaishituzhaodaoyizhongkuanwei，yizhongqianzangzaijiahuixingweibeihoudeyikao。

　　对分手之后缺憾与迟疑

　　lianggerenfenshouchuxianle，duifangkenengyiranyoudianyihan，bunengwanquanxuehuifangxia。jiahuiduifanggerenxingweihenyoukenengyuanyuneixindechiyihexiwangcongtoukaishi。danshi，yinweijingshenshangdehaipahuoqitaxianding，tamenbingbuxianglijitanjihehaodexinyuan。

　　迷途与矛盾

　　fenkaileyoujiahuilingyifang，quebutanhehao，zheihaoxiangtixianleduifangmituyumaodun。tamenyexuxianjieduanqianqueqingxidemubiaohuoxinlidezhizheyixiang。zheileimangranqingkuangkenengzaochenglingyifangduiaiqingdetaiduyuxingweizhanqianguhou。

　　表述难点与沟通窘境

　　lingyifangtiaoxuanjiahuini，danbuzhudongyaoqiuhehao，yeyoukenengshiduishufaqingganyudaokunnan。tamenyexudanxinmianduicongqiandebuzhengquehetongku，yexuyouxiehuatamenbuzhidaogairuhezhangkoubiaodachulai。zheileigoutongdejiongjingcushixianghuzhijiandehehaofuzahuaerjiannan。

　　考虑到到底值不值得再次

　　mianduizheileijiahuiquebutanhehaodeqingkuang，huoxunibixushensishulvshibushizheizhonghudongjiaoliuduiyunilaishuofeichangzhidejianchixiaqu。zheizhongwangfushiguanlianshifounengdailaixingfuyuwending？daodizhibuzhidejixutourushijianyujingli，quzhuixunhenmingquedeguanxifazhanhehehaodegailv？

　　深层次沟通与了解

　　buguanduifangdejudongyoushenmeyongyi，mianduizheileijiahuibutanhehaodexianxiang，zuizhuyaodeshijinxingshenrudegoutongyulejie。nikeyizhudongzhankaiduihua，biaodazijideganshouyuqiwang，tongshihaiyaolingtingduifangdexinshenghejieshi。weiyoutongguozhenshierzhenchengdegoutong，caikeyishulilianggerendeguanxiyiyuanhekechixufazhandegailv。

　　重新审视自己的要求

　　zheizhongxiweihudongjiaoliuzaicitixingzhezhongxinshenshizijideyaoqiuyuqidai。shibushihezheizhongwuxingzhongqifuguanliangongchujiushinizuixiangyaodedongxi？shibushixuyaoyilailingyifanggengjiaqingxidebiaotai，bianyuzuochugengmingzhidexuanze？duizijidexiangfaweichibijiaomingan，bingjiandingbuyidejizijishezhishiyizijidedixian。

　　寻找外部的支持和提议

　　ruguonizaimianduizheileifuzaguanxiqingkuangshi，keyixunqiuwaibudezhichihetiyi。yuhaoyou、jiarenhuojishuzhuanyexinlixuezixunshigoutongjiaoliu，zhengqiutadeyijianhejianyi，nenggoubangzhunigengquanmiandikandaishiwu，zuochugenglizhideguanlijuece。

　　确定迈向未来之路

　　fenshouleyoubanijiahuilaibutihehaoshenmeyisi，zuihou，womenxuyaozizhujuedingweilaizhilu。zaimianduineiyangfuzaguanxihudongshi，xuzaizhenshideganshouyubaohuhaozijideyucitongshi，yidingyaobaochiduibierendelejiehekuanrong。bulunshishizhongjianchihuoshixuanzefenshou，douyaozaixinlixunzhaojiandingbuyidehuida，xiangzhezishenzhenzhengdekuaileqianxing。