男友没房没车以后还要异地恋 我能结婚吗

　　fenshouhouxinlidudehuangnanshouzenmeban，fenshouhouxinlidudehuangbushufu，haoxiangshidajiadoujingliguodeshiqingtongkushishikeke。shiquairenpeiban，beifuzhezhuduoqingxuxiongjinwufashenzhan，xiangshibeiyikuaiwuxingjushujinjinchanzhu。danshi，yingduizheiyangdeqingkuang，dajiabingbushiwunai。souxunshihezijifangfaxuanxieqingxu、yuqinpenghaoyousushuoxinshi、xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu，jiqifujianziyideshenghuo，quanshiwomenkeyicaiyongdelianghaofangfa。suirantongkumianbule，danyerangdajiazaijinglilefenshouhouyijingcongtongkulizouchulai，huodeziyouyuxingfu。

　　解决心疼：寻找出路

　　fenshouhouxinlidudehuangnanshouzenmeban，fenshouhouxinlidudehuangbushufu，fangfoyouyikuaijudadeshitouyazhexinzhong，lingrenchuanbuguoqi。zheileitongkubingbushinanjie，womenkeyigenjuxunzhaoshihezijidefangfalaihuajiexinteng。zuixian，yaojizijiyixieshijianyukongjianqumianduihejieshouzheigeshishi。bunengtaobihuoyizhizijidexinqing，tihuizheiyifentongku，jinerzhujianshifangneixinshenchudegongzuoyali。yucitongshi，zhaodaoyigenenggouqingsudeduixiang，nengshiqinqipengyouhuoxinlixuezixunshi，genjuqingtulaishifangqingxu，huanjiexinlidefannao。chucizhiwai，tongguojubanyixiefangsongxingdong，rulianyujiahuomingxiangxunlian，fangsongxinqing，youzhuyugaishansixinliefeidetong。zuizhuyaodeshi，qingxiangxinshijiandeliliang，jianxinzijihuidaobaituofenshouyinmaizhongzaicibiandechengshuxiaqu。

　　迈进再生：复建生活

　　zaifenshouhouxinlidudehuangbushufushi，womenyinggaileguanmianduiyuchulizijidexinqing，yucitongshifujianshenghuoyeshifeichangzhongyaodeyibu。zuixian，yaoxuehuimianduihewangjiguoqu。zhuiyimeihaodeshishiwufabimiande，danshiwomenbunengyizhitingliuzaiguoqudehuiyizhong。yaoduizijishuo，yiwangganqingjinglishiyiduanchengzhangdelicheng，danshixianzaidetongkuhaihuizhujiandanhua。cizhi，xuyaozhongxinzhaodaoshuyuzijidexingquyuaihao，zijintourudaoyixiexiaidehuodongzhong，shizijideshenghuoduozhongduoyangxiaqu。chucizhiwai，gaibianhuanjingheguihuarenshengdoushiguanjianyinsu。yexukeyikaolvdaobanxinjia、chuchalvxing、jinxiupeixundeng，yigaibianxianzhuangshenghuojiezouyumubiao。tongguodiaojie，womenkeyidaijizijixindejiyuyuxiwang，rangshengmingyijingcongfenshoutongkuzhongjiefangchulai。

　　寻求援助：技术专业协助

　　yingduifenshouhouxinlidudehuangtongkudexintai，henduoshihoubixuxunqiugenghaodexiezhu。xinlixuezixunshihuoxinlizixunshinengbangzhuwomengengyouxiaodejiejueheyingduixintai。tamennenggoutigongyigeanquankongjian，shiwomengeshujijian；tongguozhuanyefangshihefangfa，bangwomenjiegouxintai、lejiezijidexiangfa，bingtigongxiangguantiyiheyindao。yucitongshi，keyikaolvcanjiayixiefenshouhoudedalizhichixiaozugongzuo，yuyouzhexiangsijingliderenjiaoliuhefenxiang，xianghufuchi，xunzhaogongminghenengliang。jijixunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhubingbubiaoshidajiarouruo，fanershishuomingwomenyuanyiweizijineixinshenxinjiankangfuzhunuli。

　　彻底改变自身：从痛苦中走出

　　fenshouhouxinlidudehuangbushufushiyizhongtongku，danyeshiyicichedigaibianzishenhezhuiqiuxingfudejiyu。womenkeyikeyijiecijihuizhongxinshenshiziji，lejiezijideyoushihebuzu，zhongxinshezhizongtimubiaoyuzhuiqiu，rangzijibiandegengjiajianqianghedandu。genjuxuexiyuchengzhang，womenkeyiyijingcongtongkuzhongzouchu，xunzhaoneixindeningjingyuxingfu。yaoxiangxinzijideliliang，weichijijidexintai，weizijiyigexindekaishi，rangyiwangdeshangtongzhujiandanhua，erxinzhongdezusaiganhaihuizaichedigaibianziwodelvchengzhongzhujianxiaosan。

　　总结

　　fenshouhouxinlidudehuangnanshouzenmeban，fenshouhouxinlidudehuangbushufushizhengchangxinlixianxiang，danshiwomenwuxubengkui。genjuxunzhaochulu，jiejuexinteng；fujianshenghuo，maijinzaisheng；xunqiuyuanzhu，xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu；chedigaibianzishen，baituotongku，womenkeyiyijingcongfenshouheiyinglizouchulai，zhongxindedaoneixindeningjingyuxingfu。xiangxinzijidenengli，xiangxinshijiandezhiyugongxiao，rangdajiazaiqinshenjinglifenshouhou，zaicijianqiangdimianduiweilaiderenshengzhilv。