挽回爱情为什么要断联?

　　fenshounvpengyoubutongyizenmeban，dangmianlinfenshouquezaoyunvpengyouhuijue，dajiashenxianmimanghewukenaihedangzhong。zaizheiyishike，womenyinggaishencengcilejietadezhenzhenzhengzhengniantou，hetakaizhanzhenchengdegoutong。zhongshitaqueding，bingshizhexunzhaofenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，shuangfangxufuzhunuliqujiejuewenti。jiarufenshoushizaisuonanmiande，neimejiujingcaiyonglixingdexintai，bingjiduifangshijianhekongjianlaizhishangyuchengzhang。zuizhuyaodeshi，womenyaoxuehuimianduifenshouzheiyishishi，jianjiandixuehuifangxia，jizijixunzhaoxindeqidian。buguanjieguoruhe，womenyaoyizhongshigengjiachengshudetaiduquyingdui，jixuqianxing。

　　理解和尊重彼此之间的体验

　　fenshounvpengyoubutongyizenmeban，fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkuyufansuodeshiqing，zaiwomenzaoyuzheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，shouxianyaozuodeshilijiehezunzhongbicizhijiandetiyan。suiranwomenhenyoukenengqidaifenshouzhengzhihezhengchaonengjishijiejue，danshiwomenbunengbipolingyifangjieshouwomendequeding。dajiayinggaizunzhongtajianyihetihui，bingyuyitazugoudeshijianyushijianquchulizijidexinqinghetihui。

　　聆听和关爱她的感受

　　yufenshounvyoukaizhanzhenchengdeduitanzhiguanzhongyao。womenyaolingtingtadeganshouhedanxin，changshidongtazenmebuxiangyaofenshou。zheizhonghuihuabujinnengrangdajiagenglejieduifang，yeyouliyuxunzhaojiejuewentidefangshi。womenyaobiaoxianchulezhenzhideguanzhuyuzunzhong，jitatigongyigeanquandeshenghuohuanjing，tahuizaizheilizhenqiedibiaodaguandianhetihui。

　　寻找解决问题的方式

　　zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，womenkeyishizhexunzhaojiejuewentidefangshi。zheijiangbaokuoxunqiuzhuanyedezixunxiezhu，canyutanlianaizhidao，huozhegongtongxunzhaojiejuefangfa。zhongyaodeshiyaozhanshichudajiadechengyiyunuli，rangqikandaokeyiweileliangrendeguanxizuochudiaozhenghetuoxie。danshi，womenhaixuyaoyishidao，youdewentihenyoukenengnanyijiejue，fenshouhenyoukenengshizaisuonanmiande。

　　给与时间和空间

　　buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang，womendouyinggaijiduifangshijianhekongjianlaizhishangyuchengzhang。fenshoushiyizhongsangshixingshanghai，zaizheiguochengzhong，womenyinggaijiejuezijidexinqinghemianduixianshi。yiyang，womenhaixuyaozhongshitayaoqiu，jitachongzudeshijianhekongjianquchulizijidexinqinghezhongshizishen。zheishiyigezhongyaodequanguocheng，zheijiangnengbangzhuwomenzaiweilainenggougenghaodifujianzijishenghuo。

　　应对和接受分手这一事实

　　zuihou，womenyinggaixuehuimianduifenshouzheiyishishi。youshi，buguanwomenduomedeqinfenquwanliu，liangrenguanxizaoyiwufawanjiu。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenyinggaiyizouxiangchengshulixingdexintaijieshouxianshi，jienafenshouzheiyishishi。bingbuyiweizhewomenyaosheqizhuiqiuxingfudezhipeiquan，ershiyinggaigaoqingchu，youshifenshoujiushiweiledajiagenghaodemingtian。

　　迈进新的起点

　　bulunshifenshouhouxunzhaoyigexindeairen，huoshiyigerendeshenghuo，womendouyaojizijixunzhaoxindeqidian。womenkeyigenjuzhiliyuziwotisheng、fazhanqushizijideaihaohegongzuo，jiqiyuqinpenghaoyoudeguanlianlaizhongsuzijideshenghuozhuangtai。zuizhongyaodeshiyaojianxin，jinguanfenshoushitongkude，dantayeshiyizhongjiyu，shiwomenzhongxinshenshizijidexuqiuhexinyuan，jiwomenzijichuangzaoyigegengmeihaodemingtian。

　　fenshounvpengyoubutongyizenmeban，buguanwomenmianlinshenmeyuanyin，zaifenshounvyoubutongyidejiongjingzhong，womenyaoyilejie、zhongshigengjiachengshudetaiduquyingdui。womenkeyiqinfenqusikaowenti，danshiyeyaojienafenshoudegailv。zuihou，womenxiwangxunzhaozijideaiqing，weizijiderenshengpuzhuangyitiaojijizhudongqianjindelumian。