韩庚卢靖姗完婚：对的时间遇到对的人有多爽！

 12yue31ri，hangenghelujingshanzailvzhoushaichujiehunzhaoguanxuanjiehunxixun，bingpeiwen：“nihao，wodeairen”，huyinggongbulianqingshide“nihao，wodenanhai”“nihao，wodenvhai”。hangenglujingshanwanhun：duideshijianyudaoduiderenyouduoshuang！

zuijin，resoushang hangenglujingshanjiehundexiaoxi，zaisuoshengwujide2019xiangyiketiantiandetang，xianshachiguaqunzhong。

 liangrenshizai2017dejinyingjiangxiangshi，yinxialoutishihangengde“shenshiyifu”，jilujingshanliuxialehenhaodeyinxiang，getianliangrenzaiweiboshanghuxiangbiaoshikuazan。

 er2018niande2yue9ri，liangrenzhengshiguanxuanhou，hangengchenghulujingshanwei“wodenvhai”，nvfangyedafanghuiying“wodenanhai”。

liangrencongxiangshidaolianai，zaidaojiehundeaiqingjiezousihushiyiludaishandian。

 danweiboshang，shuangfangjiarentongkuang、liangrentongxingchumenmaicaidengzhaopian，douchongmanleshenghuoqixi，jiuxiangxiangailehenjiudelianrenneiyang，youzhexiangruyimodeweidao。

卢靖姗的一条微博中是这样说的：

 woaizheigewuyanliusedehuahuashijie，yeaichongmanmeihaoheaidegezhongshenghuo；shiermangliubenbo，shierfangkongxiaoqi，zaikuaihemansiyizhuanhuandejiezoulibianhuanzhebutongdeshenfen，zheibangeyuedezijishibeixingfubaoguozhede，youjiaowogongfudaiwoyundongdelaoba，youzhannizhewopeiwochengzhangdemeimei，youyuandaoerlaideguimi，youweiwocaolaopansuandetongshi，youhuitoutouguanxinwodeshanhu，youzhidaojianshenjiwojianyidejiaolian，gengyouyijiumeihaokeyibingjianqianxingdeta。yiqiedeyiqiedouzhidezhenxi，rangwomeiyouliyoubuchengweigenghaodeziji，zheibushijitang，shizhendeshenghuoganwu。ganenyiqie，woaidezheigeshijie。

huazhongdian：gengyouyijiumeihaokeyibingjianqianxingdeta。

queshi，liangrenzaiyiqishenghuokeqidezheizhongganjue，zhengshilianaimaijinhunyinyigebukehuoquedeyinsu。

 rulujingshansuoshuo，liangrenyouhenduoxiangsidedifang，douxihuanhuwaiyundong，doushijijiyangguangdenianqingren，lianggerensanguanyehenshigongtong，kanqilaizhenshiyipaijihe。

jinguanlianggerenyingongzuojushaoliduo，lianqingquefeichangdetianmihewending。

lianggerendexiangyu，haoxiangbuzaobuwan，zaiheshideshihouyudaoleduideren。

duiyuzheiyangtiantianyoubuzaobuwandelianai，henduorenyaowenle：“haolaogongjiujingshiruhexunzhaodeni？”

01

不要试图去寻找一个完美的恋人

 youduanhuashizheiyangshuode：“lianaijiushigudushiyourenpeiban，xiayushiyourenchengsan”。tiantiandeaiqingwomendoukewangyongyou，danjiujingzenyangshimeihaodeaiqingni？

woxiangfenxiangyigexiaogushi：

“wotingshuoyouyigerenhenihenxiang，tayishengdouzaixunzhaoyigewanmeidenvren。”aduibshuo。

bwen：“shima？neitayouzhaodaotama？”

ashuo：“neigerenkanqilaihenbeishang。shide，tazhaodaole。”

bwen：“ranhouzenmeyang？taweishenmeneimebeishang？”

ashuo：“danshitayezaixunzhaoyigewanmeidenanren。”

womenchangshuo，aiqingshifengmande，xianshishigugande。zheiyangdeyizhongfancha，qishishifangxiangcuole。

aiqingshimeihaode，zaishige、yingshizuopinjunshiruci，danshijindingzhemeihaodeneiyibufen，jiangneishizuoquanbu。

changchangjiuhuizaocheng，“aiqingshifengmande，xianshishigugande”zheizhongfancha。

chuxianzheiyangdefancha，qishishifangxiangdewenti。

 womendeaiqingshimeihao，danshitabingbushiquanbu。bingfeishiyingcanzhaozheyichenburandemeihaolaishenghuo，ershiyaohuozaizhenshidecunzaizhong，zaikeyijiechudaodeshenghuozhizhong，ganzhidaoaiqingdemeihao。

 nishuo：“wohualeyishengdeshijianquzhaodaoyigezhenzhengaiwo，tongshijieshouwoaideren。”dannihuifaxianzheizhongxunzhao，huibianchengyizhonghenbeishangdeshi。

duiyuwanmeixingbanlvdechangxiang，changchanghuizaibanlvzhijianchanshengtiaoti。

02

在对的时间遇到对的人

 buzhidaodajiayoumeiyouguozheiyangdeganjue，jiushihaoxiangrendaolemougenianlingduan，jiuhuifaxian，haoxiangzijiyuelaiyuenankeyiyudaoneigexiangyaoyizhizaiyiqiderenle，bushishuowomenbuxiangxinaiqingle，ershitainanle。

ranhouyouxiangxiangsuibianjiuhaole，jiangjiuyixiaba。

 yourenshuo，hangenghelujingshanbicidouyijingsanshiduosuile，neimedanianlingyegaijiehunle，buranjiuhuilaole，huishigaolingchanfule。

kezaiwokanlai，tamenshizaiduideshijianliyushangleduideren，zheiyangdenianlinghuoxushigangganghaoni？

womendouzaoyiguoleertingaiqingdenianji，chengshudeaiqingduiyuwomenlaijianghuoxujiushizuimeihaode。

 henduorenhuishuo，debudaodeyongyuandoushihuizuimeide，yinweiwomenbucengdedao，neimetazaiwomenxinzhongjiuhuibaochizuimeihaodeyangzi。

keshi，yaozhidaoshijianshangsuoyoudeshidoukeyiqujiu，weiduganqingbunengjiangjiu。

 woxianghangenghelujingshanbianshizheiyangba，tamenrenshideshijianyebingbuzhang，daoxianzaiyejiuliangniandeshijian。zaizheiliangniandeshijianlecongkuaisugongkailianqingdaowendingdezoujinhunyin，dourangwomenkandaole，renshengdechuchangshunxushiduomezhongyao。

zaiheshideshijianyudaoduideren，yinggaijiushizheibeizidexingyunba。

03

棋逢对手，旗鼓相当

 womenyaozhidao，shenghuolimeiyouneimeduohuiguniangjiajibaimawangzidegushi，yinweibuzaitongyigeshijie，neishitonghuagushisuzaochulaidechongjing。

erhangenghelujingshandeganqingjiushijianlizaiqifengduishou、qiguxiangdang、shijunlididejichushang。

haodeganqing，shibicilianggerendouzaiweiyigemubiaogongtongfendouzhe，erbushiyirenzaiganyirenzaideng。

 zuirangwoxianmubuyideganqinghaishiqianzhongshuheyangjiang，ertamenzhisuoyounenggouxiangaiduonianbulibuqi，chuleliangrenpinxingyouliang，woxiangzuiguanjiandeyuanyin，shiliangrenjiashixiangdang，tongyangshishuxiangshijia，mendanghudui，yejieheleshuangfangjiazhangdehuanxi。

 caixuebuxiangshangxia，zhongshuzishimanfujinglun，yangjiangyeshijingtongwaiwenqiewenzijuejia。zuinandedeshixinggeyouqiahaohubu，qianzhongshushihaizixinxing，wanquanbudongshisu，pianpianyangjiangkenzhaogutadeshenghuo，titachulishishi。

woxiang，zuiwanmeidejiehemoguoyurucileba？mendanghudui，xingquxiangtou，xinggehubu，shuodelaihua，guodelerizi。

 suoyouhaodeganqing，zaishijianshangmeiyouyigebiaozhun，bierendexingfushenghuodouzhishiwomencankaodefanben，weibihuishiyongyuwomen，dankeyicongzhongzhaodaowomendeyingzi。

zuihou，zhuyuansuoyourendounengzhaodaoneigeduideren。

文| 曾婷婷