nvrendouxiangzaiaiqinglibeinanrenzhenxitengai,kezaiganqingdeshijieli,shushishufeibingfeisanyanliangyujiunengjiangqing。paokaiganxingyonglixingdesiweixiangyixiang,nanrenzuibuhuizhenxide,shinajizhongleixingdenvren?
过度奉献和牺牲、对男人言听计从的女人
xiaomeishenaizhetadezhangfu。liangrenlianaisannian,xiaomeiweitafangqilegongzuo,fangqileshenghuoquanzi,zuihoujiaqutasuozaidechengshi,kehunhoutaguodebingbuhao。
tajiaoshengguanyangdexianggehaizi,fanshidouyaotacaoxin。jingchangshi,fanzuohaoleyaoduanjitachi,yifuwaziconglaibuxi,gengbieshuoshizaitaleidezhibuqiyaolaishibangtadabashoule。
tayecengqingshengxiyudigentashuoguozijidenanchu,ketajibianshidangshidayingle,guohouyehuiwangdeyiganerjing。
jicixialai,tabianlandezaiquqiangdiaoshenmele。taxuanzeleren。kerennaibingweihuanlaitaiping。zhangfuyufadehushita,jingbeizhetazaishejiaoruanjianshangyubiedenvrenaimei。
takanjianle,qizaixinli,queshizhongbuganbaofa。tashuo,tapatahuibuyaota。
“meileta,wojiuzhendeshenmeyemeiyoule。”
kandaozheili,niyidingjuedexiaomeisha。keshenghuozhong,zheiyangdeshanvrenhaishaoma?weilenanren,shuyuanpengyou、fangqikuxinjileideyiqie,mingmingzaitamianqianshoujinweiqu,quehaiyaoqiangyanhuanxiao,shengpatahuilikai。
zuihoudejieju,bushishounanrenlengluo,jiushibeinanrenbeipan。
qishi,nilaishunshouzhihuishizijibiandelianjia,xishenghefengxiandouyaoyougedu。fouze,suoyoudefuchudouzhihuibeidangzuoshilisuodangran。
(最不被男人珍惜的是着三种女人!)
过分依赖、不懂得经营和提升自己的女人
jiaojiaohenanyouzaiyiqizhiqian,shixuexiaowudaoduidelingwu,kanchengtamenduilidewuhun。cengduocidaibiaoxuexiaoqushenglicanjiabisai,meicidounengqudeyouyidechengji。
keziconghexiaofengzaiyiqihou,tahuazaiwudaopailianshangdeshijianjiuyufadeshaole。jingchangchidaozaotui,youshishenzhizhijiewanxiaoshi。jiuerjiuzhi,wujishengshu,canjiabisaishipinpinshiwu,zuihoudaozhilingwudeweizhiyebeixinrendingti。
zuizaogaodeshi,tafaxiannanyoujingbuxiangcongqianneibanduitahaole。yuanxian,tajitafaxiaoxitadoushimiaohui,xianzaini,tafashitiaoguoqutakenengzhihuiyiju,erqiezishujianduan,kanzhelengbingbingde。
youyujieshoubuleqianhoujudadeluocha,jiaojiaohaishirenbuzhupiqi,paoquhexiaofengdachaoleyijia。yuanbenshixiwangdedaoxiaofengdelijieheanwei,sheizhi,xiaofengquexiangjiaojiaotichulefenshou。
“guoquwoxihuanni,shiyinweinitiaoqiwulaideyangzitebiemiren,erqienizixin、duli,jirenyizhongguangmangwanzhangdeganjue。kexianzaini?niqiaoqiaoni,meitianchulezhanzhewo、huaiyiwo,nihaiyouqitashikezuome?”
yuanlai,zaijiaojiaofangqitiaowudeneiyike,daizaitatoudingshangdeguanghuanyesuizhixiaoshile。tayiweikeyipingjieguoqudedaobanlvyongjiudechongai,shubuzhi,zheishishangchulefumumeiyourenhuiwutiaojiandichongaini。
恋爱谈久了,许多女生其实都忘了一点:想要得到对方的宠爱,首先要好好经营自己。 俘获男神
委曲求全地讨好、迷失自我的女人
mengmenganliangebibandewhenjiule。guimijitazhileyizhao,shuoshenme“nanzhuinvgezuoshan,nvzhuinangecengsha”,xihuanjiuyaoyonggan,bieyanzhengzhengkanzhetabeibierenqiangzou。
yushi,mengmengguzuleyongqijiadaolewdeweixin,zaitashenbianqianfulezhengzhengsangeyue。qijian,jitaxiyidashuimailingshi,huafeilebushaojinglijinqianheshijiancaishunlibatazhuidaoshou。
kejibiantaduitataoxintaofei,duifangrengshitakeyoukewu,zaiweixinshanggezhonggoudameizi,shibushidiyuemeizichifanguangjie,wanquanyudanshenwuyi。
mengmengduicigandaoshifenshoushang,jiuxiaoxinyiyidipaoquwenwdaodibatadangshenme。jieguo,wfeidanmeiyouhuiguozhiyi,kouqihaixiangdangdeyizhengyanci。
“nibushixihuanwoma,xihuanwojiuyaojieshouwodeyiqiea。wobujiushihemeizichuquyuegehuima,youshenmejieshoubulede?”
mengmengdeguimidoukanbuxiaqule,rangmengmenglizheiyangderenyuanyidian。kemengmengquebuzhengqideyierzaizaiersandixuanzeleyuanliang,bingqiejixuxinganqingyuandiweitazuozheizuonei。
最后的结局是,W对萌萌实施了 冷暴力 ,逼得萌萌自己说分手。而事实上,他早就已经在分手前就 劈腿 和别人在一起了。
niyexuhuidamawzhanan,danshishiqueshi,meigezhanandebeihoudouyouyigeganyuanweizhanandenvren。
haowubaoliudefuchu,rangnvrenbiandemeiyoudixian。zheiyezhengshinvrenbuxingdekaishi。
zhenxindixiwang,zheisangegushinengdaijinijingshi。
bulunnishifouyecengshimengmeng、jiaojiaoyihuoshixiaomei,doubiewangle,hulvezishenganshoudeaiqing,doushiyinzhenzhike。
renzhichu,xingbenjian。xinshounianlaidedongxiwangwangbuhuizhenxi,qidaiyijiudeshiwucaihuibeiganzhenxi。
suoyi,zuoweinvren,niyinggaiyaozhidaozijidedixianshishenme,bieqingyixiangsheidixianigaoguidetoulu,youqishizaiyigebudongdezhenxi、budongdeganendenanrenmianqian。
buyaoqiqiuyongnidedizitaiquhuanqutaduinidechuilian,neibushiai,shilianmin。
nanrenbuhuiyinweinideweiquqiuquanerzunzhongni,zhihuicongguzilikanqingni。
nanrenbuhuiyinweinideweiquqiuquanerzunzhongni,zhihuicongguzilikanqingni。
suoyi,nishouxianyaoxuehuizunzhongziji。zunzhongzijideganshou,zunzhongzijidelaodongchengguo,zunzhongzijidejiazhi。
niyaorangzijibiandehen“gui”。youneierwaisanfachuyizhongqizhi,yizhong“nibuzhenxiwo,wojiuhuizou”deqizhi,erbushi“niyueshihushiwo,wojiuyueshiyaoxiangfangshefadirangnizaiyiwo”。
nanrenyongyuanbuhuizhenxishangganzheduitamenhaodenvren。
真正能吸引他们的,是你内在的价值。你有多少价值,就有多少 吸引力 。
qubianchenggenghaodezijiba,bieyinweiyiduanzaogaodelianqingdiuleziji。
记住:别爱得太满,别睡得太晚。 (本文作者:宿雨)
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