女人如何提升自己才能更受欢迎？

 nvrenruhetishengzijicainenggengshouhuanying？xiangyaotishengziji，zuoyigerangnanrenzhuiruaihedemirennvren，bunengguangkaodanchundewaibiaojiunengdedao。xiamianshizenmezuode。

认清自己。

 shouxian，nvrenyidingyaojizijiyigezhunquededingwei，kanqingziji，yongyuanbuyaogaoguhuozhediguziji。ruguobuqueding，bufangzixiwenwenziji:“woxuyaoshenme?wonengzuodaoma?”diyigehuidanideyidingshinixinlizuizhenshideshengyin。wenwenziji，yaochengshi，buyaoqipianziji，nizonghuidedaozuimanyidedaan。

远离是非。

 suhuashuo“sangenvrendeshenghuo”，shijiedemingliwangwangyinweinvrenercunzai。bishangnidezui，zuohaonidegongzuo，yongyuanbuyaoshangyaoyandehunshui，chaoranwuwai。dangran，buyaoqingyibazijideyinsigaosubieren，zuihaobaochishenmi，buyaobeibierencaice。yexu，nihuigengyoumeili，gengyoumeili。

支配自己。

 nvrenyudaocuozhe，zuirongyizhaodaoyikao，zuirongyitaobixianshi。zheizhongruodiansihushinvrendetianxing。danshishenghuoshipingdengde，meigerenzaishenghuozhongdouhuiyudaocuozhehedaji，zhangqiyilaihuirangrenpibeibukan。suoyi，yuqiyilaibieren，buruzijizhanchulai。qiangruoshiyimianjingzi。renshengdejiazhiyounilaijueding，zhuzaizijicaishirenshengdeyingjia。

经济独立。

 nvxingyaoxiangdedaozunzhong，jiubixuduli。youzijidezichanhezhuanqianqudao，bimianqucongyutaren。chuantongguannianli，nanrenyangnvrenshitianjingdiyide，danshijishang，kaonanrenyangdenvrenshimeiyouzizunde。huayoushuohuilai，nvrenzhiyaosizhijianquan，yongzijidelaodongzhenglaideqian，duitalaishuoyebusuantainan。genghekuang，xiangzhanghaidizheiyangdecanjirenshishoudaodazhongzunzhongde。fangyanshijie，zongyoushihezijiqiangxiangdegongzuo。zaicijichushang，xuehuilicai，buduanchongshi“gerenyinxing”，neimenijiuyoulerenshengdezhuxingu。

举止优雅。

 suirandadalielie，youxierenjuedehenkeai，henfangzong，danshiyigechengshudenvrenyinggaigengyounvrenwei，jiushijuzhiyouya，tantudeti。ruguonihainianqing，haibeiyunxu“keai”，keyilijie;danyaoxiangzhanxianzijidepinzhiheneihan，xuyaozhuyizijidexingxiang。zheiliyaoqiangdiaoshidangdeyouya。guoyujinchijiaoqinghuishideqifan，fanerhuixiandezuozuo。

多交朋友。

 “xianghaorenxuexi，xuehuiyunvwugongwu”。jiaopengyou，congmingdenvrenyaoqingchudepanduannijiaodeshihuaipengyouhaishihaopengyou。shenghuozhongyigehaodelaoshihepengyouhuibangzhunibuduanjinbu，huodeguliheyongqi。guliniduoluoderen，yinggaijingeryuanzhi。bangpai，hunzaiyiqidepengyou，bufuqian。

控制情绪。

 doushuonanrenshilixingde，nvrenshiganxingde，nvrendeyanleiheduochoushangansihurangtakanqilaihenjingzhi。qishiburan，nvrenbinanrengengxuyaolizhi。yigefangsongfangsongdenvren，youyizhongdaqidemei。“linmeimei”zaixiandaishehuimeiyoushichang。jishiganqingchongdong，yeyaozangzaixinli。bushihebashiqingdequanbushuochulai。

积极乐观。

 shikeguanzhuzijideshenghuozhuangtai，shibushizaizhengchangdeguidaoshangpaobu?ruguonibatuifeiduoluodangchengqianweishishang，jiuyaofangzhizijixianrujingshenhexianshideshenyuan。jizijidingyigejihua，dingyigemubiao，zaizijidenenglifanweineiyibuyibuxiangqian。buyaoyongjiekouheliyouanweiziji。qishizhishilaneryi。buyaozhiwangyongdanchunheyouzhilaitaobizeren，nibixuweizijiderenshengzuochuzijidejueding。