不秒回你信息的男人未必不爱你 可能是这个原因

 henduonvshengzaiaimeiyijilianaijieduandouyaoqiunanshengnenggoumiaohuizijidexinxi，nanrenxihuanniqueshihuijishihuifuni，keshibumiaohuiniweixinxinxijiushuomingtabuainima?neibuyiding!

不秒回=不爱你?

weilegaoqingchuzheigewenti，wojihuwenbianleshenbiandenanxingpengyou。tamenshizheimegaosuwode：

“yitianyaowen800cizaiganma，nengbunengliaodianbiede?”

“qishiwozaojiukandaoleweixin，jiushibuzhidaogaihuifushenme。”

“yiyanbuhejiubeifouding，gancuiwandianhuihuozhebuhui，miandechaoqilai。”

 henduonvrenhuiyong“shifoumiaohuiweixin”zheigedanyidebiaozhun，cubaodihengliangyigerenshifouaini，quemeiyoufaxianbenzhidewenti：yigebumiaohuiniweixinderenkenengbingbushitabuaini，ershinibuhuiliaotian，rangtajuedemeifajiehua。

 genbuhuiliaotianderengoutong，jiuhaoxiangmeicixiangjianfei，zongyourengenniliaomeishi。yexiangmeicidaguonianqinqijinihongbaohaiyaowenyiju：kaoshikaodezenmeyangya? zheizhongbuhuizhaohuatihetiaochanghedeliaotian，dourangrenxianglahei。neime，zenmecainengchengweizhenzhenghuiliaotianderen，rangtabujinmiaohuiweixin，haixihuanshanggenniliaotiandeganjueni?

“会聊天的人，不会踩这些坑”

yigezhenzhenghuiliaotiandecongmingnvren，yidingdongdeguibizheixieliaotianzhongchangfandecuowu。

1、zihaishiliaotian，genbenbuzaihubierenjiangshenme

nishenbianyidingshaobulezheizhongpengyou，tabuguangensheiliaoweixin，zongshisanjuhuabuliziji，haitebierongyidaduanbieren。

 nizhishigentashuoyiju：“zuijingennanpengyoudeganqingyoudiandanle。”tajiukaishitaotaobujuedijiangshuzijideqingshi，genbenbujidenigentajiangleshenme。

 yichanggaozhiliangdetanhua，zhishaoyouyigerengaodudiguanzhuleduifangdexuqiu。zheizhongcongbubabierendehuafangxinshang，zhiguzhebiaodazijideren，bushiyigehegedeliaotianduixiang。

2、yiyanbuhejiutaigang，xiguanxingfoudingbieren

有一些女生真的是 杠精 benjingmeicuole，zongshiyiyanbuhejiutaigang。nanpengyougentashuo：wobanlezhangjianshenka，zhunbeilianchubakuaifuji。

tahuimashangfouding：meiyongde，nijianchibuxialai。

gentabiaodayigezijideguandian，tahuishuo：bushizheiyangde，nibudong。

 qishi，liaotianbushibianlun，meibiyaoquzhengshuying，gengmeibiyaoweilechengyishikoushezhikuai，yiweifoudingbieren。yinglehuati，shuyuanleguanxi;yingledaoli，diudiaoleaiqing，zenmekandoubuhuasuan。

3、suisuibianbianjibierenxiajielun

 dangwozaiwenshenbiandenanxingpengyou，shenmeqingkuangrangtabuyuanyimiaohuideshihou。qizhongyigepengyougenwobaoyuan，tazuijinjialegejialijieshaodemeizi，kanzhaopianrenhaibucuo，danshihailiaobudao10jujiuliaobuxiaqule。yinweineigenvhaiwenta：nizuijinkanlenabudianyinga。

 tashuo：zhiqianshuapengyouquan，haoduorendoukan《dewomen》，woyekanleyixia。neigenvhaihuileju：neinihenjiaoqinga。wopengyouguqiedangchengshikaiwanxiao，youliaolexiaqu。neimeiziyouwenleyiju：nipingchangmeishidouganshenmeya。wopengyoushuo，“tingtingge，kankandianyingba。”neinvhaiyoushuo：neinihenxiana。benlaiwozheiweinanxingpengyouhaishiduizheigenvhaibaozhehendaqidaide，xianzaigenbenbuxianghuitaweixinle。

 guigenjiedi，zheizhongxihuansuisuibianjibierenxiajielunderen，benzhishangzhixiangkuaisudechuyigeduizijiyoulidejielun，bingbuzaiyitarendeganshou，genzheizhongrenliaotianfenfenzhongbeiqisijibaihui。

“让对方不知不觉跟你深聊”

 rangyigenanrenmiaohuiweixindeqiantishi：rangduifangyouhuakehui，bingqieyuanyigenniliaoxiaqu。yaozuodaozheiyidian，keyichangshizheconglianggefangmianzuoqi：

1、jinliangrangduifangjinxing“kaifangxing”dehuida

 henduorenzailiaotianshizonghuiyouyouyiwuyidicaiyong“panduanshi”dewenti，birushuonikenenghuiwenta：kannipengyouquanfadeneirong，jintianxinqingbucuoba?zheizhongjiushidianxingde“panduanshi”dehuida，duifangzhinenghuida：shihuozhebushi。

dangtahuidawanzhihou，liaotianjiujieshule。

 caiyong“kaifangxing”dewenti：“kannipengyouquanfadeneirong，jintianyoushenmehaoshiya?”neimetakenenghuishuo：jintianwanchengleyigexiangmu、youshoulejijindengdeng，niyoukeyitongguotadehuidayanzhanhuati。

zailiaotianshi，changshijiangsuoyou“panduanshi”wentihuancheng“kaifangshi”wenti，huirangnimendehuatichixuzhankai，gengyoudeliao。

2、babierendehuafangzaixinshang，biezishuozihua

 huiliaotianderen，yidinghuijiduifangliuxiazugoudebiaodakongjian，erbushizishuozihua。zhengrucaikangyongsuoshuode：liaotiandeshihou，meigerendoushizhen。meigerendouzhixiangliaoziji。danshi，ruguoninenggouzaijiangwanzijidejinglihuozhekanfahou，zaijiage“nini，nijuedezenmeyang。”shidangdibahuatipaojiduifang，tayidinghuijuedenihentitie。

 dongdeliaotianderen，huirangtajuedehenqinqie，henshufu，beishuozhongxinshi，beinilijie，genniyougongtonghuayu，shenzhibanifangzaixinli。