如何判断男友的行为是跪舔还是真爱？

　　benwenjiangtaolunnanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerendeqingkuang，tongguoduibiqibeihoudedongjishenglixinli，yijiduishouhairenhewaibudeweihai，jieluchuzheiyiwentidebuliangyingxiangyuduoyuanxing。yucitongshi，womenjiangjixuduizheiyixianxiangkaizhankeguanjiangjie，tanxunjiejuezhidao，yituidonggerenguanliandeyouliangfazhanyushehuiandingdedajian。

　　zhangqixingbeipan：yinninanshijizhongzhengduo

　　背叛陷阱

　　nanrenzhangqichuguitongyigeren，shiyizhongbeipanzhuangkuang，shenhouyunzangzhezhuduozhengduo。zheiyangdeshiqingjuefeiouranchansheng，ershijianggezhongxingzhuangdexintaihehuanjingyaosusuoposhi。beipanxianjingzainanrenxinlizhongyinni，poshiqizaicibeipanaiqingdepingwen。

　　性和情感上的争夺

　　nanrenzaimanzhangdechuguidangzhongzaoshouzhexingheqingxujiandezhengduo。huxiangxinshanghemanzuchongdongyifangmianshiqimaikaibeipandebufa，lingyifangmiandanyejinerzaijilidezhaohuanhexinshengfenqi。zheiyizhengduocushinanrenmianlinneixinshenchudejiujieyufanza。

　　自我满足诱惑

　　zhangqixingchuguitongyigerenhenyoukenenglaiyuanyunanrenduiziwomanzuyouhuo。beizhuiqiuhezhanjukuaigan，shinanrenxianruyizhongnanyizibadechujing。tamenchennizaizheileiziwomanzudechongdongzhong，erduilingyibandezhongshiganyousuojianruo。

　　难题市场需求的达到

　　zhangqixingchuguitongyigerenyeshuominglenanrenwentiyaoqiu。tamenyexuzairichangshenghuozhongbeiganyalihebumanyi，xiwangyongtansuoxindeaiqingdadaoqumibuzijineixinquekou。zheizhongxuqiudedadao，weinanrentigongleyizhongtuolixianshihexunzhaoqingxumanzujiyu。

　　受害人的痛楚

　　nanrenzhangqixingduitongyigerenbeipan，jishouhairenzengtianleshenshendisunhai。beibeipandeairenhenyoukenengshenxianzizetongkuzhong，duidaiganqingderenkezaoshoucuihui，neixinheshenxindouchengshouzhejidadekuchu。zheileibeipanyehuidaozhijiatingchengyuanguanxideliekaijiqiexunhuandexingcheng。

　　道德观念和社会效应

　　nanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerenqianshedaodaodeguannianheshehuixiaoyingdenggefangmiandefangmian。budanzhenduiziwodedaodeguanniantichutiaozhan，yezhenduizhenggeshehuilunlidaodezhanxianlekunhuo。zheizhongqingkuangdechuxian，huiyouqishiduifuqiguanxihejiatingjiazhiguanjinxingshenrusikao。

　　解决之道

　　zenyangjiejuenanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerenwenti？chukaiqianghuajiaoyuhedaodeguanniandezhidao，gegefangmiangongtongfendouyefeichangzhongyao。chuangjianjiankangxiangshangdejiaoliufangshi，tigaoqingganyufuqishenghuodedadao，jiqitigaojiatingyushehuizhenduibicilianxideshiyong，doushiyouyongdejiejuezhidao。

　　为以后基本建设

　　nanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerendeqingkuangjitixianchugetixinlideduoyuanxing，yezhaohuanshehuifazhanzhenduihunlianguanxidegaoduguanzhu。zaiweilaifazhanzhong，womenyinggaigenjugongtongdeqinfen，weigerenlianxidejianshehekaichuangmeihaoweilaiernulifendou。weiyouruci，dajiacainengdadaoqingganshangdepingwenyijishehuihemu。