如何运用同理心挽回老公？

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　　急功近利的感情：男人的持续出轨

　　yiduanzhangqixingchuguidenanrentongyigerendegushi，haoxiangbianchengledangjinshehuizhongyulaiyubijiaochangjiandezhutifengge。nanrenzhangqichuguitongyigeren，shenhouyunzangzhefanzafenluandeqinggan，qianshedaochongdong、yilai、zerenyusuiyidenggegefangmian。rangwomenyitongshenruyanjiuzheizhongqingkuangdezhuyaoyuanyinyuweihai，bingshizhelijiezaiqizhongdexintaiyuqingganyaosu。

　　笑面人的视角：大众对男人出轨的迷茫和抨击

　　guanchazheileizhangqixingchuguidejudong，waibujingchangkunhuobuyifennu，weishenmeyigenanrenhuiduiyigerenzheibanqingqing，quebuyuanyizhongzhiwaiyudebufa？nandaoshuotamenbingbuqingchuzijidesuozuosuoweiduibierendaozhileduodashanghaitongkuma？pengjizhiyinciqibifu，danshiduiyuzaiqizhongdeshijidongyin，womenyinggaizourutadeneixinquanqiu，qulijierangtamenzheibanzuoshidedongli。

　　内心的欲望无止尽：成就感与乐趣的追求

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　　依赖陷阱：从出轨对象所获得的宽慰与达到

　　zainanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerendegushili，zheiyiduixianghenyoukenengbianchengletadeqingganyilai。bulunshiyouyuhunhouchuguizhepeiban、lijie，huoshizaitadeshenshangsuohuodededadaoyukuanwei，zheiyiqingganyilaiduinanrenlaijianghenyoukenengyuelaiyuewukequdai。tamenduiyuzheileiyilaidezhuiqiu，yexuyuanyuduineixinderenkeyaoqiuhuozhenduishijiguanlianqiangliebuman。

　　道德与义务：道德观念与情感的冲突

　　zainanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerenbeihou，tongchangcunzaidaodeyuyiwudekunrao。tamengaoqingchuzheizhongzuofaduijiatingyubanlvdailaideshanghai，erwangwangbuganmianduizheileimaodun。yifangmian，tamenaizhejiazhongyubanlv，dantongshiyekangjubulehunhouchuguisuochanshengdeyinyou。zaidaodeguannianyuqingganjiandexuanze，tamenpanghuangyujintuiliangnanzhongjian。

　　分析长期性守望先锋：被出轨对象的心态和情绪变化

　　suoyibeinanrenzhangqixingchuguideduixiang，tamenjingchangchengshoulefeichangdadeshenglixinlijingshenyali。tamenyexujiujiezuochudexuanze，huoshishenxianxiaojidegerenpingjiahemeiyouanquangan。tamenmangranyushifougaizaicikeshouzheiduanganqing，yejiangqikanzuoyizhongyilaierbunengziba。tamendeneixinshenchuzhidewomenguanzhuyulijie。

　　zainanrenzhangqichuguitongyigerendegushili，qinggandeduoyuanxingjingchangyuanchaowomendexiangxiang。womenyinggaiqudaiguandian，qulijiehetiyantadeqingganbodong，tongshihaixuyaoguanxinbeichuguiduixiangdeneixinshenchu。genjusikaohetaolun，yexuwomenkeyijiazhongduiyurenleiqingganlianxidelijie，weitamenderenjiguanxijibenjianshetigongyixiesikaoyuqifa。