我的男友出轨了，还能挽回吗？

　　zenmebaofuchuguinanrendefangfa，zenmekandaichuguinanrendejudongchengweihenduofushangnvrendeguanzhujiaodian。dangmianduizheizhongtongshi，womenyinggaidajianyizhongjijidexintaihexiufuzizunxindexingshi。benwenjidajiatigongyixiejiejuechuguinanrendebanfa，baohanxinliliaoyu、fangfanyishi、goutongdejiqiaodeng。tongguoyunyongzheigefangfa，womenkeyizhongshineixinpingheng，jiejuefushangdejiongjing，jinerxiangqiantuijin。bulunshenmeshihou，doubiewangjiaizishenjiazhi，zheijiangshidajiabaofuchuguinanrenzuiwanqiangwuqizhuangbei。

　　zenmebaofuchuguinanrendefangfa

　　zaicijianlizishen：congneixinzhujianzhiyu

　　曝露内心伤疤

　　zaiwomenzaoshouwaiyudesunhaishi，neixinhenyoukenengchongchizhenaonu、dujiheduibierendemeiyouxinren。keshi，weilenengfujianzishen，womenyinggaiyonggandequmianduizheizhongxiaojiqingxu。xunzhaoqingtudebanfa，nenggoushiheqinmiwujianguimiliaotian、xiechuzijidexiangfa，shenzhixunzhaoxinlizhuangtaizhuanyerenyuandezhichi。puluneixinshangba，nengbangzhuwomenshifangchulaijidianqingxu，manmanwanchengxinlingshenchudezhiyu。

　　面对现实并学会放下

　　baofudexiangfayexuhuizaiwomenxinliliaorao，danshiwomenwubixuehuimianduichuguinanrendejudong，ranhoubayiwangxuehuifangxia。guoduojiujieyubaofuzhihuirangniwufaziba。fanguolai，shizhongbaochilengjingfenxi，duizijishuowulunzenyangdebaofudougaibianbuleyiwang。yuanliangtahexuehuifangxia，fangkongziji，caikeyizaizhishanghuanjiezhongmaijingenghaodemingtian。

　　再次审视自我使用价值

　　chuguitongchangrangshouhairenzhiyizijiyingxiangliheshiyongjiazhi。danshi，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoqingchuwaiyubingbushidajiazijidecuo。womenbunengrangbierendecuowuzuofajiedingwomenzijideshiyongjiazhi。yaozhongxinsikaogerenyoudianyuguoququdedechengjiu，jianlizixinxin，zhaodaozizunxin。jianxinzijipeideshanggengqiangdeaiyuguanxin。

　　fangfanyishi：baozhengshenxinjiankanganquan

　　建立自我边界

　　zaihechuguinanrenxiangchushi，womenyinggaijianliquelidejiexian，baohuzijideshentijiankang。zheijiuyiweizhedongdeshuo“bu”，bubiweibierenxishengziwoshijianhejingli。keshouzuorendedixian，buxubierenqinfangerenzunyanliyi。jianliziwobianjiebujinkeyibaohuziji，haikeyitishichuguinanrenrenshidaozijidecuowuzuofa。

　　离去有危害自然环境

　　youshihou，baofuchuguinanrenzuihaodebanfajiushiyuanlita。jiaruguanlianzaoyiwufawanjiuhuoduizanmenshenxinjiankangdaozhilesunhai，womenyaoguoduanliqu。zaicizhaodaoshuyuzijidedulihesuiyi，jianlijiankangdeshenghuofangshiziranhuanjing，nuliquzhengqugenghaodemingtian。

　　goutongyugerenxingweiduice：yiconghuihaiji

　　自立自强管理决策

　　baofubingbushimeiyigerentiaoxuan，womenkeyigenjuquanxindexingweilaixianshizijideduliheduli。jiejuechuguinanrenyinying，zuochujijizhudongjuece，zhuiqiudemengxianghemubiao。zheibudanhuijiyuduifangnengliang，hainengrangchuguinanrenguanniantashiquyigezhenzhengyoujiazhideren。

　　呈现自信与幸福快乐

　　jijizhudonggenggaizijidejuexinherongmao，zhanshichuneixindexinxinhemeihao。jizijizhaodaoyifennenggoufengfuzijidegongzuozhong，toushennixihuandegerenaihao，bingyuqinrenpengyoubaochilianghaoguanlian。genjubiaoxianzijidexingfukuaile，dajiabujinkeyizhonggouzishenxingxiang，hainengrangchuguinanrenjuedeyihanhehouhui。

　　探寻心灵的宁静

　　genjumingxiangxunlian、yujiajianshen、chuangzuohuocanjiachengzhangjiaoyuxunliandengfangfa，tanxunxinlingdeningjinghepinghengxiediao。zheibudannengbangzhuwomenshifangyalihebuan，haikeyirangwomenjianqiangdimianduichuguizaochengdeshanghai。zaineixintanxunpinghedenengliang，zaicirongguanghuanfarichangshenghuodeshengmingli。

　　zenmebaofuchuguinanrendefangfa，dangmianduichuguinanrendebeishangshi，dajiaxuyaocaiqujijizhudongdexingwei，bingfeipianmianxingdichenmiyubaofudeniantou。genjuzaicijianlizishen，fangfanyishihecaiyongyouzhihuidegoutongyugerenxingweiduice，womenkeyibaituokunjing，zaiciyongbaokuaileheanwendeshenghuo。jilao，bijiaohaodebaofushirangzijihuodebizheigegengqiang！