长相普通的女生如何吸引男神？

　　jingshenchuguidenanrennengwanhuima？zheishihenduorendexinliyihuo。zaiyigeguanxizhong，jingshenchuguikenengdailaitongchuyubuxinren，dantongshiyecunyouwanhuidegailv。zhongdianzaiyulejiechuguideyuanyinjixiufuxinrenjianchibuxiedenuli。genjuzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu、kaizhanfufuyizhi、zhongxinjianlizhiduhejiexian，jiqizijintourushijianjingli，wanhuidejihuihenyoukenengbianchengxianshi。danshi，chenggongwanhuibixubicizhijiandejuexinhexiangyao，jiqizhenzhengdegaibianyuchengzhang。zuizhuyaodeshi，xinrendegaizaoshiyigemanzhangmanzhangdeguocheng，bixureqinghejiandingdexinzhi。

　　永不放弃的好机会：复建关系的概率

　　zaiaiqingdeshijieli，jingshenchuguishiyizhongchangjiandeshanghaipanbian。henduorenyudaozheiyangdeqingkuangshidouzaiwentongyigewenti：jingshenchuguidenanrennengwanhuima？jinguanzheizhongqingkuangmeiyouyigemingquedehuida，danyouxiezhengzhaoxianshizhefujianguanxidegailv。

　　深层次缘故：了解出轨动机

　　zuixian，womenyinggaiyanjiujingshenchuguidegenbenyuanyinhedongyin。jingshenchuguitongchangshiduimuqianguanxiqiangliebumanhuogerenneixinshenchudexunzhao。zheizhongchuguibingbudengyuduilingyibandezhenshipanbian，fanershiduizishenshenfenchengjiugandexiangwang。yiner，zhangwochuguidongjinenggouweiwomentigongfujianguanxideqianti。

　　复建信任：重新建立根基

　　fujianxinrenshiwanhuideguanjiansuozai。bicibixuyichengxiangdai，jinxingquanfangweidejiaoliu。chengxinyingduichuguideshishibingzhanxianzhenchenghuigaixintaishiguanjiandeyibu。chucizhiwai，fufuyizhihuohunyinfudaohaikeyitigongyigeanquanziranhuanjing，xiezhufuqiliangrenyiqimianduiwentiyuxunzhaoduice。genjuzhongxinjianligenji，baohanzhidinggengjiaqingxiguizehejiexian，jiqijianlixinderichanghudongheqingxulianluo，nenggoumanmanfujianshoudaopohuaidexinren。

　　自我改变：成长与个人价值

　　chukaibicizhijiandeqinfenwai，jingshenchuguiyigenanrendechengzhangyubenrengenggaidoushiwanhuiguanxidezhongyaoyinsu。taxuyaozhenzhenzhengzhengshenshizijigerenxingwei，tanxungenbenyuanyin，ranhoujinxingjijizhudongdetisheng。zheijiangbaokuoxunzhaozhuanyexinlizixun、canyugerentishengkechengneironghuonianshudeng。tongguozheigeqinfen，jingshenchuguinanshengkeyizhanxiantadexinxinbingbiaoxianzijikaishibiandegengchengshuhechengdan。

　　循序渐进的过程：复建信任需要一段时间

　　danshi，fujianxinrenshiyigemanzhangmanzhangdeguocheng，xuyaoyiduanshijiannaixin。beichuguishanghaiairenbixujiyuyujieshouzheshizhanglaichulizijidexinqinghexiufuneixinshenchudetongku。yucitongshi，fujianxinrenbixulianggerenyiqidefuchuhenuli。zheijiuxuyaozaigegeyuenaizhihenzhangdeshijiannei，buduanqinfenhechengzhang。

　　不成功和希望：一切在于状况

　　zuizhong，yaoqingxidiyishidaobingbushisuoyoudeguanxidounenggoushunlidiwanhui。youshi，jibianshuangfangnuliqianxing，rengranbaituobulecongqiandeshanghaibuxinren。keshi，buyaofangqixiwang，erqiemeigezhuangkuangdoushiduyiwuerde。chenggongwanhuizaiyufuqilianggerenxinxin、tourujiqizhenzhengdegaibian。youyixieguanxizuihoukeyizaijinglitongkuyujiannanyihougengweiwanqiangzhangqiwending，eryouxiezeshiyiliangrengongtongdejuecewanbi。

　　jingshenchuguidenanrennengwanhuima，dangmianduijingshenchuguidenanshengshi，shifounengwanhuiguanxibingbuzhishizaiyuchuguizishen，ershiyaobicizhijiandegongtongfendouhefangqi，yijiduiyuguanxidezhenshijiazhiyuyixiangdelejie。zhiyouzaishuangfangzhenxinyuanyimianduiguoqucuowu，bingqiezaiweilaizhilushanggongtongqianxingshi，wanhuiguanxicaikenenghuichengweishiji。