圣诞节挽回男友全攻略

　　chuguinanrenzuipashenmejiaoxun？gujijiushineileibukewanhuihouhuimojigan。yidantamenbeipanlebanlvdexinren，shiqujiazhongdeyitihua，tajiangwufahuibizijidewentibingchengdanfalvzerenbuliangyingxiang。zhuihuimojidejiaoxunnengrangtamenyishidao，yishideaiyuhemengpianshenhousuodedaodedeyiqiedoushibumingzhide，bulunshisangshihunyinguanxi、liekaijiating，huoshiyaobaibudingzijidezuorendedixian。yiner，chuguinanrenzuiweikongjudeyidingshineiyifenshenshendi、bukewanhuiaohui。

　　教训一：背叛带来很大的毁坏

　　chuguinanrenzuipashenmejiaoxun，beipanshiyizhongduibanlvdewangenfuyi，zheizhongzuofabudanpohuaixianghuzhijiandexinren，haihuijixuposuijiazhongdeyitihua。chuguinanrentongchanghuifajue，tamendexingweijifumudailailehendadepohuaihesunhai。bulunshibanlvdekuchuchouqi，haishihaizinanyilijiedexinhan，doujiangchengweitamenxinzhongyongyuandetong。tamengaoqingchu，beipansuochanshengdehuihuaishiwufawanjiude，zheiyijiaoxunhuiyongyuanmingjizaitadeneixinzuishenchu，tixingtamenqianwanbuyaozaiduzuochuzheiyangdecuowu。

　　教训二：道德与伦理道德的斥责

　　chuguinanrenzuidanxindejiaoxunzhiyishidaodeyulunlidaodedechize。tamenweifanlehunyinshenghuochengnuo，weibeiledaodehefalvguize，budanshanghaidaolingyiban，yeweibeilezijideliangxin。zheileichizenengrangtamengandaoshifenkuijiuyuyali，shidetamenyishidaotamendexingweishibudaodedexingwei，bingyinfashenkeziwofansi。tamenyishidaodaodeyulunlidaodedebiyaoxing，gaoqingchudaoyaoweihubaoyangaiqinghehunyindezizun，bixujianshoudaodedixian。

　　教训三：丧失宝贵的爱与信任

　　zaoshoubeipandebanlvnenggouganshoudaohendadetongkuyusunhai，erzheijiujichuguinanrenzengtianlesangshibaoguideaiyuxinrendejiaoxun。banlvdeaishiwujiazhibaode，eryinwaiyuershiquzheizhongai，jiangrangtamenshenkeganshoudaozhenaidebaogui。yucitongshi，banlvdexinrendoushichuguinanrenzhiguanzhongyaodecaiyun。shiqubanlvdexinrendaibiaozhebeidichu、beibeipandekuchujiangbansuitamenyisheng。zheizhongjiaoxunrangtamengaoqingchu，aigenxinrenshijianliyuweichifuqiguanxidegenji，juebukeqingyibeipan。

　　教训四：追悔莫及遗憾

　　zhuihuimojishichuguinanrenzuipadejiaoxunzhiyi。yidantamenbeipanlebanlvdexinren，tamenzhongjianghuizaoyuneixindejianaohebukewanhuiquehan。huiyiqicengjingdelianrenhexingfudeshiguang，tajiangshenxianshenshendizizeaohuidangzhong。tamenhuihencongqiandequeding，zhuihuimoji，danshiquemeifadaohuishizhang，meifajiangshiqinghuidaoqidian。neiyangyihanhuiyongyuanbansuitamen，chengweiwomenshengmingzhongnanyimomiedetongku。

　　教训五：损害自身形象和人际关系

　　chuguibudanhuisunshangdaobanlvyujiating，yeduichuguinanrenzishenxingxiangherenjiguanxizaochengjidadesunhai。yidanshierpuchu，tamenkenengmianlinshehuiyulunpipingheyiyangdeyanguang。tamenmingshenghexinyudukenenghuishoudaojudadebuliangyingxiang，yanshenzhigongzuoyujiaojiquan。zheizhongjiaoxunrangtamenyishidaobeipandedaijiayuanyuanchaoguoletamenzuichuxiangxiang，yushiwubu。

　　chuguinanrenzuipashenmejiaoxun，bulunshibeipandailailejudadehuihuai、daodelunlidechize，haishishiqubaoguideaiyuxinren，chuguinanrenzuipadejiaoxunquanshirangtamenzhuihuimoji。tamenshenshendiganshoudao，beipandaijiayuanyuanchaoguoleyishideyuwangbulizhi。zheizhongjiaoxunxiwangkeyirangneixierengzaimimangliderenjianyi，aixiyanqiandexingfu，bieyinyishideganjueerpohuaiwufawanhuidehunyinguanxiyujiatingxiangxi。