男友爱约炮又不提结婚，他是短择吗

　　chuguidenanrenhaihuiaizijidelaopoma，zaiwomentaolunwaiyudenanrenshi，yigechangjiandexianxiangshi，tashifouyiranduizishendelaopoyouqingyi。chuguiyibanhuiranghunyinzaochengjidadeshanghailiekai，jirendailaihuaiyi。danshi，zhenxiangbingbushikending。youyixienanrenkenenghuizaiwaiyudeyucitongshiyiranaizhetadeqizi，eryouxienaishichuziyuqitawentierchuxianchugui，danshibingbudaibiaotamenbuhuizaiaizijidelaopole。renzhihejiejuezheixiewentibixushenrufenxinanrendeaiqinghedongyin，yeyaobicigongtongfendouxiufuhunyinderenkehewengujichu。

　　waiyunanrenxinlizhuangtaijiemi：aihepanbianjiaozhideqingxumian

　　失去的爱与没有尽到的职责

　　chuguidenanrenhaihuiaizijidelaopoma，chuguitongchangjihunyinchanshengshenchenzaochengdeshanghai，zaochengairenzaochengyihuo：waiyudenanrenshibushihaihuiaizijidelaopo？yihuozheshiwaiyuqibeihoudegenbenyuanyinrangnanrenxingchenglebukekongdeaihenjiuge？mouxieqingkuangxia，waiyunenggoubeishiweiyizhongweifanhunyindandanghedaodehefalvgerenxingwei，danyeyouhenduonanrenbeiwaizaiyinsusuoyingxiang，meifajiangudaoqingganshangdebiaoshu。tamenyexujuedeaidexukong，erwaiyuzechengweiyizhongtuolixianshi、zhuiqiucijihekuanweidexingshi。

　　市场需求的达到与自身的不足

　　yigenanrenwaiyubingbudengyutabuzaiaizijideqizi，zhishiyinweizaihunyinzhongtabunengmanzuzijiyixieyaoqiu。zheigexuqiujiangbaokuojingshencengmiandeyikao、xingyuwangdedadao、zizunxindetigaodeng。yixienanrenchuguishiyouyuzishenchuziyumeiyouanquanganerzhuixunziwoshiyongjiazhideshijiantansuo。tamenxiangyaozaiwaimiantanxunshiqudedongxizixinheguanxin，danshibingbudaibiaotamenbuzaiaiqizi，fanguolai，tamenqipanyongzheizhongfangshilaimibuneixindekumen，zaicizuohuiziji。

　　沟通交流断块和情感疏远

　　hunyinlidegoutongyuqingxushuyuantongchangshizaochengwaiyudezhuyaoyuanyin。dangnanrenjuedenanyibeiqizilejiehuoguanxinshi，tamenyexuxunzhaobierendelingtingyuguanhuai。qianquegoutongjiaoliuyulijiekenenghuishinanrenjuedebeihulveyutongku，congershitamensichuxunzhaoanweimanzufangshi。zaizheigeguochengzhong，takenenghuixianruwaiyudezhaoze，danshibudaibiaotamenbuhuizaiduiqizihaiyouganqing，jinjinsouxunlelingyizhongqingxuweijiedexingshi。

　　自我认知与生活的压力

　　shenghuoyali、zhiyeyihuo、shenfenrentongdemangrandengdoukenenghuichengweinanrenwaiyudejinshucuihuaji。tamenyexugenjuwaiyulaixunqiuyizhongbuyiyangdeshenghuozhuangtai，xunzhaoxinlingshenchuxiangwangdewupin。ziworenzhibingbudengyutamenbuzaiaiqizi，fanguolai，zheiyiguochengzhuyaoshiweilexunzhaoneixindepinghenghezhenzheng，congergenghaodizhongxinhuidaohunyinrichangshenghuo。

　　爱情的多元性与信任的改造

　　chuguirangqiziganjuedaodetongkuyupanbianbukexiaoqu。danzaijuedingshifoukuanronghezaicihunyindeqiantixia，bixulejieaiqingdeduoyuanxing。nanrenwaiyubingbuyiweizhetamenbuzaiaiqizi，ershiyizhongbiededeyingxiangyinsucujinlehaizidexingwei。zaijiejuewentidehuanjiezhong，zhongjianxinrenhezaicidianranaidehuoyanyouweizhongyao。genjuhudongjiaoliu、gongtongfendoujixinlingshenchudezhiyu，lianggerenkeyiyiqibaituotongchu，fujianhunyindezhongyaoqianti。

　　chuguidenanrenhaihuiaizijidelaopoma，zongeryanzhi，waiyudenanrenjinguanzaixingdongshangweibeilehunyindechengnuo，danzheibingbuyiweizhetamenbuhuizaiaizijideqizi。tamenkenenghuiyinweigezhongxingzhuangdexinlingxuqiuyugongzuoyalixuanzecuoledefazhanfangxiang，danshibingbudaibiaotamenshiquleduihunyindeqing。hunyinlidekunhuoheshuyuanyeshixuyaobicigongtongfendouyulijiede，weiyoutongguoxianghujiaoliu、zhongjianxinrenheaidechengnuo，caikeyirangfufuzaicihuidaoxianghuzhichiheshouweixinlingdegangwan。