挽回出轨的老公切忌正面攻击第三者

　　nanpengyoushengqishuofenshoushizhendema？zaiaiqingdebodongzhong，zheizhongqingkuangjingchangkunraozhenannvdexinling。dangnanyouzaiqifendeqingxuzhongjiangchu“fenshou”liangzishi，renmenbumianhuisikao，shibushitashizhendeyouzheizhongxiangfa。caiyi、caixiangyubuanjiaozhizaiyiqi，dajiaxiwangkeyixunzhaodaodaan。danshi，fenshoushiyizhongjiduanhuadebiaoshu，changchanghuibeiqingxusuoyingxiang，buyidingyiweizhezhenshidexiangfa。yaojiechuzheiyiyituan，bixulingtingbicizhijiandezhenshitiyan，kaizhanduiwaikaifangdejiaoliu，bingfeibeiyishidenaonusuomihuo。ganqingxuyaofazhan，errenzhihekuanrongshiweichiguanxideguanjiansuozai。

　　nanyoudeqingxuqifulichuxianfenshoudeyanyu，jingchanglingrenmihuobujie。daodizhenxinhuoshiqifenyishishuocuole？xiabianjiangtaolunzaiqizhongdexiaoxijieheqibeihoudeneihan，tanxunshiwomengengqianglejiezheixiewentideanjianxiansuo。

　　1. 情绪释放出来与讲话个人行为

　　nanpengyoushengqishuofenshoushizhendema，dangwomenchuzaijiqiqingxudangzhongshi，tadeyancijingchangbukaopuqiebulizhi。qifen、xinhanhuoxiaochendouyoukenengdaozhitamenjiangchubuheshijideyanyu。yiner，nanpengyouzaiqifendeqingxushangshuofenshou，yexuzhishiyizhongqingxushifangchulaidexingshi，bingbudengyutazhendexiangwanbiguanxi。

　　2. 沟通与讲解

　　jiaoliushiguanxizhongjiweizhongyaodeyihuan。yingduinanyounaonuxuanxiezhongdeyanyu，womenyinggailizhijiejue。xunzhaozhenzhenzhengzhengxinyiheyongyi，erbuzhishipianmianxinglejietadebiaocengqingxu。genjuyongxinqingting，bingqieyonglizhikeguanxintaijinxingtantao，womenkeyigenghaodilejietazhenshitihuihebixu。

　　3. 探索难题的根源

　　nanyouqifenshuofenshou，houmianhenyoukenengyunzangzheyixierenhewenti。gezhongwentiyoukenengshiguanxilidegoutongbuchang，benrenyalihepijuan，huozheqitadeqingxukaoyan。qushencengcitansuotadeganshouyuxuqiu，bangtatanxungenggaoxiaodejiejuefangan，nengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejietadezhenzhengyongyi。

　　4. 自我反省

　　dangnanyouqifenshuofenshoushi，womenhaikeyicongzheidangzhongjiandaobenshencunzaidebuzu。shibushizaiguanxishangcunzaiyougoutongbudaowei、qingxubuwenhuozheqitagerenxingweilidequefa？genjusikaoyutishengziji，womenkeyigaijinguanxizhongcunzaidewenti，binggengjiaqingxidigoutongjiaoliu，jiangdixiangjinxianxiangdefasheng。

　　5. 寻找技术专业协助

　　jiarunanyouqingxuxingfendeyanyubianchengguanxizhongchangjiandexianxiang，huoshiduiyuzenmekandaizheileiqingxuqifukunhuobuyi，xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhushiyigezhengquedexuanze。gengzhuanyedezixunguwenhuoxinlixuezhuanjianenggoutigongzhichiyuzhichi，bangwomenchuliwenti，bingtigaoguanxidepinzhi。

　　nanpengyoushengqishuofenshoushizhendema，nanpengyoushengqishuofenshou，jinguanshiwomenjuedekunhuoyubuan，danbingbuyidingdaibiaotazhendexiangwanbiguanxi。genjugoutongjiaoliu、jiangjieheshencengcitansuonantidegenyuan，womenkeyigenghaodilejietadezhenzhengyongyi。yucitongshi，sikaobenshencunzaidebuzu，bingxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu，quanshichulizheixiewentidejijizhudonggaoxiaodelujing。zuihou，zhongdianzaiyuchuangjianxianghuxinren、shiyongyuchengzhangjiankangguanxi。