挽回男友：男友出轨到底该如何应对？

　　chaojiashuofenshouzhengchangma？zheizhongqingkuangdaozhileguangfanjiaoliuheyiyi。youxierenrenwei，chaojiashiqingxubengkuizaochengjiangchufenshoudehuashizhengchangfanying，nenggouhuanjieyali，huanjiemaodun。danshi，yeyourenjuedechaojiashuofenshoubingbushizhengchangde，youyuyanyuzaochengdeshanghaihuiyanzhongyingxiangaiqingdewendingxinghefazhanqushi。buguanshinayizhongjianjie，douyaozaiqingxingdeqingkuangxiajinyibusikaoyugoutongjiaoliu，bianyuzhaodaoheshidejiejuewentifangfa。chaojiayexushirenjijiaowangzhongzaisuonanmianyibufen，danzenyangchulichaojiadedaijia，guanhuzheaiqingshifounengzhangjiu。

　　异议与思考：吵架说分手是不是可以接受？

　　chaojiashuofenshouzhengchangma，chaojiashirenjijiaowangzhongchangyongdemaodunbiaodaxingshi，dandangqizhongyifangtanjifenshoushi，zhuangkuanghaoxiangbiandeyuelaiyuefuzaerbijiaomingan。zhenduiyoumeiyouwenti，chaojiashuofenshouzheizhongzuofadejieshouchengduzaizheigeshehuijigerenlinianshangcunzaiyidingchabie。weilenenggenghaodilejiezheiyiwenti，womenyaocongyixiajizhongshijiaozhankaitaolunhesikao。

　　情绪宣泄与言语损害

　　chaojiashi，qingxubengkuijingchangzaochengyancimenglie。chaojiahuanjiezhong，yifangjiangchufenshouyexuzhishiqingxuxuanxiedeyizhongfangshi，bingfeizhenzhenzhengzhengdeyongyi。danshi，zheizhongyancihenyoukenengjubeiweihaixing，budanduibiciguanlianchanshengfumianyingxiang，yeyoukenengshangdaolingyifangdexinling。yiner，womenyinggaisikaochaojiashiyancidecuocihekangyaqiangdu，yimianzaochengwufawanhuizaochengdeshanghai。

　　交流和问题改进

　　chaojiashuofenshouyegaojiewomengoutongjiaoliupianchadecunyou。chaojiakenengyiweizhelianggerenzaichulishiqingyuyandebiaodayaoqiushifashengzuai。danshi，chaojiazhihou，biciyingdangpingjingxialai，zhongxinsikaobingshuliwentidezhenshishizhi，congerdadaochulimude。bicilingting、zunzhongyulijiejiushiweilexiububiciguanliandeguanjianyaosu，bingfeiqinglvdicaiyongfenshouzheizhongjiduanhuatiaoxuan。

　　自我调控与情感思维

　　zaichaojiazhong，ziwodeqingxuqingganrenzhinenglishizhiguanzhongyaode。qingxukongzhinengliqiangderentongchangnenggenghaodeguanliziji，zaichaojiashifangzhijiangchuweihaixingyanyu，erbijiaoganxingderenzeyoukenenghuibijiaorongyijiangchufenshouzheizhongguanjianxingyuju。duizishenlaijiang，renshidaozijiqingganshangdefeilixingjiqichaojiagerenxingweiduiguanlianchanshengdeyingxiangshihenzhongyaode，bixusikaozaijiayigaijin。

　　公布意识与文化冲突

　　zhenduichaojiashuofenshouyoumeiyouwentidesixiang，wenhuaduoyangxingheshehuishangcunzaijiaodadechabie。youyixiewenhuayishu，tebieshigerenyishiquxiangjiao strong deshehuili，gengrenshouhelijiezheigeshuofa，juedegerenyouquanlitiaoxuanzijideaiqing。danshiqitawenhuayishuhenyoukenenggengjiazhongshiyujiatingqinmiguanxidepingwen，zhenduifenshouzheiyixingweixiangduixingchuantong。zheigeguanniandechabiexuyaodajiachongzuzunzhongyulijie，yifangzhiyongzijideguifanquhengliangtarenderenzhitiaoxuan。

　　chaojiashuofenshouzhengchangma，chaojiashuofenshouzuoweiyizhongzhuangkuang，bujinshiduiguanxilichuxianwentidefanying，shirenmenqingxukongzhihegoutongdejiqiaodequeshi。jinguanchaojiashuofenshoumouxieqingkuangxianenggoubeichengzhiweiyizhongzhengchangqingxuxuanxiefangfa，danwomenyeyaosikaozheiqizhongdeyancisunhai、wentigaijin、qinggansiweihewenhuayaosudengyinsudeyingxiang。yinweichuangjianshenxinjiankangrenjijiaowangguanxi，womenyinggaigengjiashenrusikaoyuxuexipeixunruheyonggengjiachengshuheshidangdefangfajiejuechaojiashihoudeyancihemaodun，chixubuduandegaijinyuchengzhang。