挽回男友：男友小我几岁不想结婚，我该挽回爱情吗？

　　chaojiashuofenshouzhengchangma，dangwomenzaizhengchaozhongsangshilizhishi，chaojiashuofenshouyexuhuibianweixintaidexuanxiefangshi。danshi，yebingbudaibiaochaojiashuofenshoushiyizhongzhengchanggerenxingwei。chaojiahenyoukenenghuisunhaiguanlian，zaochengshanghaichongdongqueding。lianrenhuofuqizhijiandezhengchaozaiganqinglishizhengchang，danzuizhongyaodeshiyaodongderuheyongchengshuhelizhidefangshijiejuemaodun，erbuzhishijiezhuyanciqujiejuewenti。yiner，dajianyouxiaodegoutonghewentijiejuenenglicaisuanshibaochijiankangguanliandeguanjiansuozai。chaojiayexushizuichangjiande，danzhengchangbudaibiaoshijianshexing，yineryingdangxunzhaogengjiahaodefangshiqujiejuemaodunhechongtu。

　　chaojiashuofenshouyoushenmeyuanyou？

　　心态恶化造成不理智

　　chaojiashuofenshouzhengchangma，zaizhengchaozhong，bicixintaitongchangdouhuigengxin，yuelaiyuenaonu、wufakongzhi，zheishihouchaojiashuofenshoutongchangjinjinxintaideyishixuanxie。zaoshoubulizhiposhiderenkendingbingmeiyouwanquankaolvdaofenshoudedaijia，zhishibafenshoudangzuoyizhongtaolizhuangkuangdefangshi。

　　沟通不到位造成误会

　　chaojiayibandaibiaozhebicimeifalizhidibiaodazijijianjiehetihui。goutongbudaoweizaochengxianghuzhijianwuhui，tongchanghuiyinqigenggaodefenqi。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，chaojiashuofenshouchengleyizhongduobigoutongjiaoliudefangshi，bingfeijiejuewentifangshi。

　　长期性库存积压强烈不满

　　chaojiashuofenshoukenengshiyinweiyizhiyilaiyizhidebuliangqingxujidianchengde。dangshucizhengchaohemaodunmeifajishijiejueshi，bicikenengjuedebenkui，xuanzeyifenshoulaifaxiezishenqiangliebumanfennu。

　　chaojiashuofenshouyoumeiyouwenti？

　　正常的的情绪波动

　　chaojiahezhengchaoshilianrenhuofuqizhijiandepubianzhuangkuang，zhengchangdedeqingxubodongnanyibimian。dajiahuiyinyixiexiaoshibaofazhengchao，binglinshizaochengfenshoudeniantou。danshi，bingbuyiweizhechaojiashuofenshouzishenshizhengchang。

　　不益于关联发展趋势

　　suiranchaojiashirenjijiaowanglidechangtaihuazhiyi，danjingchangerqiepianjidechaojiashuofenshouzhenduilianxidechixufazhanshifenbuhao。zheileixiaojidegoutongjiaoliufangshihuisunhaixinlai、jiazhongsunhai，bingjinyibuehuabicizhijiandeguanlian。

　　必须寻找全局性处理方式