挽回老公：夫妻分房睡的尽头是离婚吗？

　　zheishiyigekunhuohenduorendenanti：fenshouzhihoushibushiyoujihuifuhe？xuyaojiejuezheigewenti，dajiayaojinxingyixiangmingjiao“fenshouhouhaihuifuhedeceshiti”kaocha。zheiyiceshitizhiliyupingdingshuangfangganqingdezhenshili，tongshitongguopouxigezhonggeyangzhuyaoyinsulaipanduanshifouyoufuhedekenengxing。tongguozheixieceshiti，womenkeyilejiedaoletamenzhijianhaiyoumeiyougongtongmubiaohesixiang、yuanbuyuanyikuanrongbierendequedian、shifounenggoujianliqigengchengshulaogudeganqingdejichu。yiner，zheiyiceshitijiangchengweiyigeqiangyoulidecanzhao，bangwomengenghaodelejiefuhedekenengxing。

　　fenshouhouhaihuifuhedeceshiti

　　fubiaoti：pingdingaiqingcanyuyufuhekenengxing

　　yi、huishouguoqu（both in the relationship）

　　huidazheigeceshitidediyibushihuishouguoqudeganqingzhuangkuang。zheigebushifugu，fanershiyaozhidaobicishibushibaoliuzhezhenzhideaiqing。genjuzhuiyizuichudemeihaoshishikekehejiliezhengchaodechangjing，womenkeyifenbianzheifenganqinghaiyoumeiyoufuhedekenengxing。

　　副标题：回望美好与争执

　　er、gongtongjiazhiguan（common values）

　　zaiceshitizhong，shouxianyaokanbicishifoujubeixiangjindejiazhiguan。zhuyaobaokuoduijiating、gongzuo、renshengguihuajiqixianghufuchidexintai。liangrenshifounenggongtongzhuiqiubingkeshoutongyangdeguannian，zhijiejuedingletashifounenggouzaicizoudaoyiqi。

　　副标题：共同价值观的切合

　　san、qingxucanyu（emotional residue）

　　aiqingcanyushidiaochafuhekenengxingdezhongyaoyinsuzhiyi。womenyinggailingtingxinlideshengxiang，baozhengfenshouzhihouaiqingbingmeiyouwanquanlikai。zhuyishibushirengduilingyibanxiangyouqingxu，shibushiqidainenggouzhongxinxiufubicizhijiandeguanxi，jianghuiduifuhedefazhanqianjingzaochengjuedingxingdeyingxiang。

　　副标题：情绪残余的必要性

　　si、chengzhangyugaibian（personal growth）

　　meigerendousuizheshijiandehegushidebianhuaerchengzhangziwogaibian。zaiceshitizhong，shouxianyaokanbicishibushiyijingzaifenshouzhihouyousuochengzhang，bingqienengrenkebicizhijiandefazhan。jiarushuangfangkeyijieshouduifangdegaibianbingqieyuanyiyiqichengzhang，neiyangfuhedekenengxingjianghuigengda。

　　副标题：成长与改变的重新了解

　　wu、fuwuchengnuohexinren（commitment and trust）

　　chengnuohezunzhongshichuangjianshenxinjiankangguanliandezhongyaoqianti。zaiceshitizhong，womenyinggaipingdingbicishibushiyiranxiangyaobicizhijianchengnuo，erqiexiangxinduifangkeyishixianzheizhongfuwuchengnuo。ruguolianggerennenggouzhongxingoujianqifuwuchengnuoherenke，neiyangfuhedekenengxingjianghuizengjiahenduo。

　　副标题：复建服务承诺和信任的关键所在

　　liu、jiaoliuhejiejuemaodun（communication and conflict resolution）

　　hezuoshiguanxilizhiguanzhongyaodeyihuan，erjiejuemaodunnaishigongchudejibensuyang。zaiceshitizhong，womenyinggaifenbianbicishifounengtanchengxiangjiandigoutongjiaoliu，bingqiejubeijiejuemaodunnengli。ruguolianggerennenggouzhongxingoujianqijiankangdeshenghuogoutongyuchongtuchulifangshi，fuhedefazhanqianjinghuigengjiaguanghui。

　　副标题：交流和冲突处理的必要性

　　qi、weilaidejihua（future plans）

　　zuihouyigeceshitidezhongdianzaiyubicirenshengguihua。womenyaolejiebicishifounengzaidugongtongshangdingzongtimubiao，bingyuanyifuzhunuliquwancheng。ruguolianggerennenggouzhongxingoujianqirenshengguihuaheqiyeyuanjing，neiyangfenshouzhihoufuhedekenengxinghuigengjiajutixingdetong。

　　副标题：重新调整一同未来的发展

　　结语：

　　“fenshouhouhaihuifuhedeceshiti”bujinshiyizhongduiyuganqingjinxingpingjiadexingshi，yeshiyigetansuofuhekenengxingdexinlizhuangtai。tongguozheixieceshiti，womenkeyigengjiakeguandirenshizijigenduifangzhijianshifoucunzaifuhedekenengxing。danshi，zheiyiceshitizhinengtigongyizhongcanzhao，zuihoudequedinghaixuyouliangrengongtongzuochu。buguanjieguoruhe，qidaimeiyigerendounengcongguoqudefenkaizhonghuodezhenguidejingyanjiaoxun，weizijiderenshenghunyinshenghuozhujiugengjiameihaodelumian。