挽回老公：夫妻如何进行有效吵架？

　　fenshouhoujiqiannanyoudianzanshishitanhaishifangxia，fenshouzhihoujiqiannanyoudianzanshiyizhonggerenxingwei，bujinyoukenengshishitan，yushizheduiyutadeguanhuaihenanjiedeqinggan，yeshiyoukenengshifangxia，daibiaozhexiangyaocongneixinshenchuzhufutaxingfuyuchengzhang。zheileifanzadexingweijianhanzheqidaibeizhuyihezhongxinqidongaiqingdeyongyi，youkenengshishifangchulaicongqiandeqingganfudanxiwangshuangfangzhenzhengnenggouzouchuyinying。jiujingshishitanhuoshifangxia，bixushendusikaodongjiheqingganqudongli，ermeigerendexinjingrenwugushidoushihuiquedingtamenjiqiannanyoudianzandezhenzhenghanyi。

　　fenshouzhihoujiqiannanyoudianzan：tanxunxinqingyuqingganfabingyuanyin

　　藏于的情感

　　fenshouhoujiqiannanyoudianzanshishitanhaishifangxia，fenshouzhihou，dajiaduiairendeqingganchangwufashihuai。jiqiannanyoudianzanwangwangyiweizhexinlingshenchurengrancunzaiqingyi，shituyongzheileinairenxunweidegerenxingweichuandachumouleixinxineirong，xiwangfuhexingdegailv。zheileishitanbingbushiwanquanshiweilededaodaan，gengjiashibiaoshuxinlideqidaiheweijindexiangnian。dianzanshiyizhongkexuanzexingdejiaoliufangshi，youqishiduiyuzheixieyinweifenkaiernanyizhijiebiaodaqingganderenlaijiang。

　　试探和挽留

　　jiqiannanyoudianzantongchangyushizheshitanhewanliudeyongyi。zheileixingweikenengshiyicijijizhudongdexingwei，changshixiufuguanlian、mibuguoqudeyouwuzaicijifataduizijidexingquaihao。genjudianzan，renmenxiwangzaochengqiannanyoudeguanzhu，rangtaduizijidecunyouxingchengxindesisuo。shitanzhuyaoshiweilejianceqiannanyoutaiduheaiqingqushi，weihenyoukenengfuhejieshuixingzhou。

　　放下和祝福

　　lingyifangmian，jiqiannanyoudianzanyekenengshiyizhongfangxiahezhufufanying。suiranfenkaikenenghuidailaitongkuyusunhai，danyourenxuanzetanranmiandui，meishenmezenghendizhuyuanqiannanyouweilaidefazhan。tamenhuoxuyijingzhenzhenzhengzhengshifangchucongqiandeqingganyali，yongdianzanlaibiaoxianxinliduiqiannanyouxingfukuailedezhenchengzhuyuan。zheizhongzuofashiyizhongdiaozhengxinlilichangdequanguocheng，daibiaozhejizijiheqiannanyoudakaizhanxindeshenghuozhangjie。

　　防范意识与寻找报仇

　　danshi，jiqiannanyoudianzanbingbuyidingshichuziyushitanhuofangxiademeimiaodongyin。zhenduiyixierenlaishuo，dianzankenengshiyizhongziwofangyujizhi，yanzangzhenshiqingganheyongyi。tamenyexushituyongdianzanrangqiannanyouzaiganqingfangmiancuobai，zaochengtadetongchuhuoduji。zheizhongzuofayinzangzhefuchoudechengfen，changshidianzanlaidajiqiannanyoudezizunxin，rangtaganshoudaozishenjiazhiheyouhuoli。

　　情感的多样性

　　bulunshishitan、fangxia、zhuyuanhuoshibaochou，fenshouzhihoujiqiannanyoudianzanquanshiqinggandeyizhongbiaoshu。meigerendexinjinghegushidoubuyiyang，zhijieguanxidaotamenduiyudianzandezhenzhenghanyi。zheileiduoyuanxinglaizirenjijiaowanghegetiqinggandeduoyanghua，bixuzaixingweiyiqianshendusikaobenshendongjihezhenshitiyan。

　　心里隐秘的试探

　　jiqiannanyoudianzanyexumeiyoumingquedemude，jinjinxinliyinmideyizhongshitan。zheileishitanyoushihouhanyounairenxunweidezijuexing，xiangdedaoyidianhuifuhuoguanzhu。dianzannenggoubianzhiyifennairenxunweideaimeiguanxi，jituxianzhexinlideqingyi，youhanxuxiangqiannanyouchuandiyixiexiaoxi。shitanshiduiyutamenlianxidezaicitanxun，gengshiduibenshenqinggandesikao。

　　fenshouhoujiqiannanyoudianzanshishitanhaishifangxia，bulunshishitanhuoshifangxia，jiqiannanyoudianzanquanshifuzaqieduoyuanhuadegerenxingwei。meigerendexinjinghedongyindoubuyiyang，yinlingzhetamenzuochuzheiyangdexingwei。youshihoushitanshiweilexunqiuhuifu，youshihoufangxiajiushiweileshifangchulaixinlidefannao。zongdelaishuo，zhongdianzaiyuzhenqiediyanjiuziyideqinggandongyin，mianduiziyideneixinxuqiu，bingzhangwomeiyigexingweishenhousuochanshengdejiazhiyiyibuliangyingxiang。