一个人不自信的根源是什么？

　　tamencengjingshibicizhijianshengminglibukehuoquedeyibufen，danshizuizhongxuanzelefenshou。fenshoudeliyouyexushigezhongyuanyindeleiji，kenengzhishimouyinanyibeichulideguanjianwenti。xiaoshideqingyihejianxingjianyuandeneixinjianjurangtamenzaiyewufasishou。youkenengshizhengchaohewujieduijirushan，yihuozheshigerenxinggeguanniandechabiewufadiaohe。bulunshiwaijiedeyalihuoshineixinshenchudemaodun，zheileiwufataobideshiji，zuihoushidetamenzuochulezuijiannandejueding。

　　分手的理由

　　矛盾的个性与价值观

　　youshi，dajiajiuhuifaxianbicizhijiandegexingyujiazhiguanbingbuyizhi，zheichengweilefenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。tamenyexuyongyoujiongranbutongderenshengtaidu、duishiwuguandianjiqinulidemubiao。zheigexianxiangyehuidaozhibicizhijianxiangchubiandekunnan，zaochengbubiyaozhengchaohemaodun。yifangyexuqidaipingwenpingjingdeshenghuo，erlingyifangzeqipantanxianyuciji。zheixiechayizhujianjilei，zuizhongdaozhilequedingfenshou。

　　缺乏沟通交流和信任

　　zaiyiduanguanxizhong，goutongjiaoliuherenkeshishifenzhongyaode。dangzheiliangyinsuqueshaoshi，guanlianmeifachixufazhan。quefagoutonghuizaochengwujiehezhengzhidetigao，erquefaxinlaiwangwanghuimanmanfushibicijiandeganqing。youjiazhidexinxibunengdedaogongxiang，neixinshenchudeyaoqiumeifadedaomanzu，zuizhongshidetamenwufazaijixuzaiyiqi。zheileimeifachuangjianyouxiaogoutonghebicixinrenzhijiandeguanxi，chengweiletamenfenshoudejuedingyinsu。

　　人生目标的不一致

　　meigerenyoumeigerendelixianghuayuzhuiqiu，eryoushihoulianggerenderizizongtimubiaobingbuyizhi。qizhongyigerenhenyoukenengqidaishiyechenggong，zhuiqiulixiangyudiwei，erlingyigerengengzaiyiyujiatingpingfandeshenghuo。zheileibuyizhiyehuidaozhizheixierenzaiweilaidejihuaheshenghuoxiguanshangchanshengmaodun。yifanghenyoukenengnanyilijielingyifangdezhuixun，daozhibicizhijiandejiedihemaodun。manmandi，tamenhuiyishidaolezheileibuyiyang，pobudeyizuochufenshoudejuece。

　　缺乏大力支持和共同成长

　　zaiyiduanshenxinjiankangdeguanxizhong，bicidedalizhichihegongtongchengzhangshihenzhongyaode。danshi，youshi2gerenyaofajuebicizhijianmeifajiyubixudeshiyong，huowufazaiyiqigongtongfendou。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，yigerenkenenggandaowulihebeipaiji，erlingyigerenhuijuederenwujianjuhefudanzhong。yinweiquefadalizhichihegongtongchengzhangnengli，tamenzuihouxuanzelefenshou。

　　外界因素的干扰

　　fenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinyekenengshiyinweiwaijieyinsudeganrao。jiatingyushehuiyali、shiyefazhandebianhuayijipengyouquanlideweihaideng，doukenenghuiduiliangrenguanxizaochengbuliangdeyingxiang。zhongzhongyinsuhenyoukenengpohuaitamenzhijiandeguanlianzhangqiwending，shiguanlianbiandecuiruo。dangwaijieyingxiangyuelaiyuenanyichengshoushi，tamenkenengjuedefenshoushichuliwentidebuerzhixuan。

　　汇总

　　fenshoudeliyoubujinxiangtong，danbuguanshixinggeshangdemaodun、goutongjiaoliudequeshao、renshengmubiaodebuyizhi、quefadalizhichihegongtongchengzhang，huoshiwaijieyinsudeganrao，zuihoudouhuizaochengliangrenwufajixuzaiyiqi。fenshoujinguantongchu，danshiyoushihouyeweilegenghaodejianglaihegerentisheng。meiyigewanchengquanshiyigexindekaishi，jinyoujiangguoquliuzaixindi，caikeyiyinglaigengmeihaorensheng。