婚恋咨询：门不当户不对会引起什么问题

在老一辈的人的婚姻观念当中，很多人都看重“门当户对”。所谓门当户对，就是指男女双方在社会地位和经济能力上都相近，很适合结婚。但随着社会的飞速发展，人越来越重视情感需求，经济能力不再是决定双方家庭能否通婚的主要因素，当“穷酸女嫁富商人”的现象在现实生活中越来越多的时候，就意味着“门当户对”这一观念已经过时了。真爱虽然可以打破“门当户对”的观念隔阂，但结婚后也会随之出现很多门第不相配而产生的问题。究竟门不当户不对会引起什么问题呢？下面就由花镇的婚恋咨询师为你剖析。

1.气场不平衡

 hunlianzixunshirenwei，zaijiehunzhiqian，suiranshuangfangyecunzaimendishangdechayi，danzheizhongchayizaochengdebushiganzaiyidingchengdushanghuibeilianaidetianmigaiguo。zaijiehunyihou，zheizhongbushigancaihuimanmanfuxianchulai，qizhuyaobiaoxianweishuangfangqichangbupingheng。zai“qiongsuannvjiafushangren”delizizhong，nvfangyinweijiajingdelieshizaiqichangshanghuibinanfangruohenduo，shenzhihuizibeidirenweizijizhishizhangfudeyijian“fushupin”，ernanfangyinweijiajingshangdeyoushihuixiandegengweiduduanhezhuanheng，zaiqichangshangwanquangaiguonvfang，zheizhongqichangshangdeluochahenkenenghuiyingxiangfuqihunhoudehexie。

2.受到来自对方家庭的冷眼相待

 zaimenbudanghubuduidehunyinzhong，jiatinghemuwuyishiyigehendadewenti。biruyigenvshengjiaruhaomen，ernanfangdefumuqindouyouqiangliedemendiguanniandehua，nvfangziranhuishoudaolaizinanfangjiatingdelengyanshenzhizhize，gengyanzhongxie，nanfangdefumuqinhuiganshexiaoliangkoudeshenghuo。hunlianzixunshirenwei，fuyoudejiatingmendiguannianjiaoqiang，yinciduiyuchushenbeiliedenvrenhuiyouyizhongkangjugan，shuobailejiushibuxihuanni，keyiyuliaochushenpinhandenvrenhuizaihaomenshenghuozhongchuchushouqi。

3.很难融入对方的交际圈子

 qiongrenyouqiongrendejiaojiquan，furenyoufurendejiaojiquan，erqiongrenyaorongrufurendejiaojiquanshifeichangkunnande。dangbierendouzaiyanjiuzuanshipaochedeshihou，erniquezhihuitanlunchaimiyouyan。nidenanrenzhengtianzaiwaimiantanshengyi，daliqiye，erzainishenbianyezhaobudaoyigeyouzhegongtonghuatidehaoguimi，jiuerjiuzhi，nikenenghuiyinweizhaobudaoyigeqingsudeduixiangergandaogudu，zhujianbianwei“guizhongyuanfu”。

 henduojiaruhaomendenvshengbiaomianshangguangxianliangli，danqishinikanbudaotamenneixindetong。menbudanghubuduidehunyinduoduoshaoshaodouhuicunzaiyixiezuai，xiangyaoweixihunhoushenghuodehexiejiuyaofuchugengduodejingliheshijian。hunlianzixunshijianyi，jiranyijingxuanzeleyiduanmenbudanghubuduidehunyin，jiuyaoyonggandizouxiaqu！