为男友结束两年异地恋，却遭父母强烈的反对！

 liangrentongzhuyigechengshishijieshu yidilian debijingguocheng。yibianshibaohanqinqing、youqingdeshuxichengshi，lingyibianshichongmanwujinsiniandenanyoufazhandifang，womengairuhezuochumingzhidexuanzeni？

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冷大哥哥您好！一直默默关注您，偶尔有过发言。现在我遇到了一个小问题，希望有幸能被抽中解答。我 21 ，大四，男友 25 ，已工作，两人恋爱两年多，一直异地，但感情好，现在男友提出让我去他的城市实习，  tayexiangwochengnuodinghunmaifangzhilei，qishiwoshihenyuanyijieshuzheiliangniandeyidiliande。danshiwofumuzheibianjuedewohainianqing，meibiyaozhejiququedingzhengshiguanxi，pingshiwozaimuqinmianqianshuonanyouhaohuahuozhehetatantanwozuijinhenanyoudeqingkuang，tadouhuiguyichakaihuozhechongerbuwen，wohaishixiwangnengdedaofumutongyi，suoyixianzaiyouxiejiujie，lengdakebukeyijiwoxiejianyini？

冷爱老师回复：

 ninhao！duiyunizheizhongyidiliandeqingkuang，shinanyoukeyiguolai。keshiruguotazaineibianyougudingdegongzuo，bufangbianguolai，nibanguoquyeshiyigequanyizhiji。

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