学好这几个搭讪技巧，脱单指日可待

 dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？henduorendougaobudong，weihezaiwangluoshangchangchangnengjiandaohenduorenmaiyuanzishenzhaobuzhelingyiban，yeyouwangminwanxiao：“zaixiandengnvyou，tingjide。guidinghenshao，nvde，huodejiukeyile”，guidingfangfozaoyilaidaozuishao，kehuanshiyouhenduorenzhaobuzhezishendongxindelingyiban。qianbujiu“weiherujindenanhaiziyebuzhuiqiuwanmeinvshengle”yezaishejiaowangluopingtaishangbeidingbuleresoubang。ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

 shijishang，bingbushirujinderenyuelaiyuefeichangnanzhui，zhishihenduorenbawobutaihaozhuiqiuwanmeiaiderendefangshi。changchangnenggoujiandaoyouxierenzaishejiaowangluopingtaishangtiechulaiqiaoyuderendezhaopian，qidaiwangminmennengbangzhuxunzhao。dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？yeshiyouxuduorentichuzhiyi，shuonineishihoumeiqugenbierenyaolianxidianhua，nirujinyaowangminmenruhebangnizhao？qianbujiuyeshiyoufensisiliaowangbian，shuoyoushizishenpengdaoaideren，danshibuqingchuyaozenmegenlingyifangdahua。ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？jinriwangbianjiugendahuoerpouxiyixia，qiaoyudaozishendongxinderendeqingkuangxia，yaozenmegenlingyifangdahua。

1、给予帮助开展搭话

 zaipengdaoaiderendeqingkuangxiayikaojiyubangzhudefangfayulingyifangkaizhandahua，zheizaoyibianchengrujinzuipubiandedahuafangfazhiyi。ruguonizouzailushangpengdaodongxinderendeqingkuangxia，meiyoubanfamingquelingyifangyaoganshenme，buqingchuyaocongnaligenlingyifangdashandeqingkuangxia，hebushiyixiaxianglingyifangjiyubangzhu。ziran，nizhaode“bubian”yeshiyaoliuyiguigede，yaozailingyifangdegongzuonenglifanchouyinei，erqieburongyiganjueyanjuanhuoshiduinizaochengjingxingdefanchouyinei。

 liruwenxiaxianzaijidianle，huoshigaozhilingyifangnideshoujimeidian，yikaolingyifangdeshoujishangdagedianhua。neiyangbudankezhigenlingyifangyongyoujianghuadejiyu，hainenglejielingyifangdelianxidianhua，naizhihainenggougenjulianxidianhuajiashanglingyifangdeshoujiweixin。ruhegoutong？zenyangyurenxiangchuzhidao？

2、顺水推舟开展搭话

 youshitaiguodushengyingdedahua，shuoyixielingyifangbingmeishenmexingqudehuatitaolunshihuiranglingyifangganjuedichude。dahuayeshiyaoshunshuituizhou，lejielingyifangdeaihaode。dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？zaijianshenhuisuoyudaoaideren，dangranjiuxuyaoyongjianshenyundongdengkaiqiliaotianhuati，zaitushudianyudaodongxinderendangranyeshiyaoyongshubenzhuanyezhishilaigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。zaijianshenhuisuoninengwenxialingyifangjianshenqixiedeyingyongfangfa，wenqiyundongjianshendeganshouhuoshiyundongjianshenguocheng，zaichengzanlingyifangyiliangju，shuozishenpenyoudoutaoyanyundongjianshen，zishenyigerenlaiyixiegudu，yaotadeweixinhaomayuezheyiqilaiyundongjianshen。

3、巧遇知心开展搭话

 ganjinrongyidedao，zhiyinnanqiu。rujinhenduorenshenpangjinguanyouhenduopenyou，guanlianyedoufeichanghao，danyibandouhaidabushangzhixindeshuizhun。rendexihaobuyiyang，nenggentayouyiyangxihaohuoshicongyuantoushanglejietaderenshijishangbingbushihenduo。yinci ，cikenengpengdaoyige“zhongshenbanlv”jiukanqilaihenbaoguile。

 dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？niruguozaitushudianjiandaodongxindemubiao，qianwanbiejichongchongdepaoyiwangjiudashan，zhishiyaoxianpingjingxialai，kanlingyifangzaikanshenmeshu，dayuefenbianyixialingyifangxiaideshudeleixing，zaikanlingyifangdexingweijuzhi，rongheyixiadayuejiunenglejielingyifangdexingqingle。suihouyiwangdahuadeqingkuangxia，xiangshengyidingyaoxiao，zaitushudianzheileidiqugaoshengjianghuaderenshihenrerendichude。huoshijiezhangdeqingkuangxiasuibiandedaliangsanjuyeshihenfeichanghaodetiaoxuan。