应该怎么和女生正确搭讪？怎么搭讪才对

 shuodaodahua，zaiyinxunshoujiuderenyanligenghaoxiangzaishuawulai，danzaidangdaishehuiqingnianyanlitashiyixiangshifenguanjiandejiaojinengli。zenmehuiyouzheierzhongbuyiyangdeyishiwuchani？neishiyouyuyouderenyitidaodahuabianhuilianluodaohemeinvyuehui，jinerluojisiweichenjidantiaodaoxiangyong、jiewendengqinmizishi。yinci dangyouxierentanqidahuadeqingkuangxia，guannianchenguiderenbianhuiyongqiaobuqidexintailaiyangaizishenxinliguanniandewuzhuo。yinggaizenmedashan？zheixiehuidahuadedashen，tongchanghuiyongyizhiyichengxiangdaidexintaizhuangtaiquyingduizishendedahuamubiao，naizhiyouxierenbadahuadangzuoyizhongdaxuewenlaikexueyanjiu。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

 shijishangzaixianrujinzhinenghuadeshehuifazhanzhong，nenghebuyiyangdeyixingpengyoudahuashiyizhongqitederenshengdaoluganshou。yinggaizenmedashan？dahuayejuebujinjinzaiyixingpengyouzhongjian，tazaoyizhujiandebianchengdajiashejiaomeitideyixiangbixuzhuanyejineng。youderendahuadashengengshiyikaochusededahuagongzuonengli，zaizhirenyuanchangheganqingzhongzhongguodeshunfengshunshui，tamenjuededahuashiyizhongyuyanyishu，henyongxindequshangxiheganshoutachanshengdekuaile。ziranbuyiyangdeshiqing，dahuadefangfayegeyoubutong，zheixiangyaonizishenjianjiandiquganshou。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？neimadajiajinriyaojiangdeshizenyanghenvshengdahua？yongnaxiedexintaizhuangtaiqukandaizheijianshiqingni？

最先搭话内接内心，外大关才。

 chukaibixudeyanjiangkoucaiyiwai，zuizhongyaodebianshiweichixinlidewending，buyinbuchenggongertaiguocankuixiaochen，doubuyinqudechenggongertaiguoxingfenxinxi。zhenduidahuazuizhongyaodeyidianbianshi，qingmianmeineimaguanjian，yaoxiangdahuaqudechenggong，jiububiguoduodekaolvdaoqingmiandenanti。jinguandahuabuchenggonghuishiwomendeqingxuzaoshouweihai，dannixuyaogaoqingchumeiyouyiqieyicidahuashi100%huiqudechenggongde，buchenggongdefengxianxingzishizhizhongcunyou，yinci womenyaozhengqueduidaizheigewenti，bayiciyouyicidebuchenggongzuoweishiqudechenggongdaoshangdebanjiaoshi，neiyangcaikeyibianchengzhenshiderenjijiaowangdashen。

次之针对搭话目标要有一定的掌握。

 shuobailezhibizhiji，fangkebai“da”wubai，xiangduixingyujiebianderenyidahua，youxumoudedahuatongguolvhaowuyiwengaoxieyixiele，qianmianyizhongjiezhudeshiyunshi，erhoumianyizhongzegengzhongshifangshi。yinggaizenmedashan？youxumoudedahuayibanchangjianyuxiaoyuannei、churuzhichangdengshejiaomeitichangdi，yinci zhenduizhangwolingyifangdexinxineirongxiangduixingbianjieyixie，nenggougenjutongxuemenhuoshipengyouzhangwobeidahuamubiaodegerenaihao，bianyudahuadeshunlikaizhan。yeyouyaoliuyidahuadejihui、dizhiheziranhuanjingjiaosedenggezhongyinsu，shitizaochongfenzhunbei。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？

在搭话时，要主观臆断，正确引导另一方讲出自身要想的回答。

 zhunbeichongfenhaoyouguandeyuju，shiyiyiwenjuweikaichangci，neiyanggengfeichangrongyihuodelingyifangdehuiying。jugefeichangjiandandeshili，nizaidiantili“qiaqiao”pengdaolebeidahuademubiao，lizaiaijindeanjianyibian，chenjiwenlingyifang：“nilaijicengloua？”lingwaimenbafangdaoanjianpang，lingyifanghuiyingniyihou，nibangtaanwanloufang，lingyifanghaihuijixuyouyunidereqingerduiniganxie，huiyingwan“shili”yihou，ninengchenjiwenyixia，tasuoquloufangdexinxineirong，huoshilingyifangqudemudi。lirutadui6ceng，ninengwen“liuloushishabangongshidizhi？”。ruguoshijiaoweidutededizhi，ruxuexiaotushuguan，niyenenggouwen“kanlaishuhuanshixuexipeixun？”huoshiyiyuanmenzhenzhuyuanchu，niyenenggouwen“laitanwangpenyouma？”zongeryanzhijiushiyicebiantantingtadexinxi、

搭话还最重要的一点便是要重视另一方，不必随便抨击她的价值观念，更不必盲目跟风的纠正另一方的本人生活方式。

 yinggaizenmedashan？dahuademudishiyibianlajinguanlian，erbushizhaolailingyifangdeyanfan，yiqifangainidahuaqudechenggongdeyaosudounenggouhulve。dahuazuihuaidejieguobianshibeijujue，ershidejieguobianshiyushangzhenqing，yinci zaidahuadeqingkuangxiawomendouyaojinjindezhangwozhudaoquan，yongxindeshensishulvcaikeyibawojiyu，zaojiurenshengdaoludejingxi。neimacongjintiankaishiqingdandadequdahuaba，qidainikeyijinzaoxunzhaoxinlizhiai，bufuyujian。