怎么搭讪才正确？如何与搭讪成功的女生继续聊下去

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第一是坚持不懈塑造大家的了解度，提升相互的舒适感。

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yincizaizheiliduanqinei，niyinggaijinkenengdequjianchibuxiehetadelianxiganhejiashangshushigan。

第二点，你需要尽可能的去掌握她的其他信息。

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第三点：你需要尽可能去做"吸引"

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第四点：最终也是最重要的一点便是让她赴宴。

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