学好这几个搭讪技巧，想要脱单其实很简单

 henduorendougaobudong，weihezaiwangluoshangchangchangnengjiandaohenduorenmaiyuanzishenzhaobuzhelingyiban，yeyouwangminwanxiao：“zaixiandengnvyou，tingjide。guidinghenshao，nvde，huodejiukeyile”，guidingfangfozaoyilaidaozuishao，kehuanshiyouhenduorenzhaobuzhezishendongxindelingyiban。liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaopengyou？qianbujiu“weiherujindenanhaiziyebuzhuiqiuwanmeinvshengle”yezaishejiaowangluopingtaishangbeidingbuleresoubang。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

 liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaopengyou？shijishang，bingbushirujinderenyuelaiyuefeichangnanzhui，zhishihenduorenbawobutaihaozhuiqiuwanmeiaiderendefangshi 。changchangnenggoujiandaoyouxierenzaishejiaowangluopingtaishangtiechulaiqiaoyuderendezhaopian，qidaiwangminmennengbangzhuxunzhao。yeshiyouxuduorentichuzhiyi，shuonineishihoumeiqugenbierenyaolianxidianhua，nirujinyaowangminmenruhebangnizhao？qianbujiuyeshiyoufensisiliaowangbian，shuoyoushizishenpengdaoaideren，danshibuqingchuyaozenmegenlingyifangdahua。jinriwangbianjiugendahuoerpouxiyixia，qiaoyudaozishendongxinderendeqingkuangxia，yaozenmegenlingyifangdahua。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

1、给予帮助开展搭话

 zaipengdaoaiderendeqingkuangxiayikaojiyubangzhudefangfayulingyifangkaizhandahua，zheizaoyibianchengrujinzuipubiandedahuafangfazhiyi。ruguonizouzailushangpengdaodongxinderendeqingkuangxia，meiyoubanfamingquelingyifangyaoganshenme，buqingchuyaocongnaligenlingyifangdashandeqingkuangxia，liaotianzhaohuati，zhaoshenmehuaticainengjiaodaopengyou？hebushiyixiaxianglingyifangjiyubangzhu。ziran，nizhaode“bubian”yeshiyaoliuyiguigede，yaozailingyifangdegongzuonenglifanchouyinei，erqieburongyiganjueyanjuanhuoshiduinizaochengjingxingdefanchouyinei。liruwenxiaxianzaijidianle，huoshigaozhilingyifangnideshoujimeidian，yikaolingyifangdeshoujishangdagedianhua。neiyangbudankezhigenlingyifangyongyoujianghuadejiyu，hainenglejielingyifangdelianxidianhua，naizhihainenggougenjulianxidianhuajiashanglingyifangdeshoujiweixin。ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？

2、顺水推舟开展搭话

 youshitaiguodushengyingdedahua，shuoyixielingyifangbingmeishenmexingqudehuatitaolunshihuiranglingyifangganjuedichude。dahuayeshiyaoshunshuituizhou，lejielingyifangdeaihaode。zaijianshenhuisuoyudaoaideren，dangranjiuxuyaoyongjianshenyundongdengkaiqiliaotianhuati，zaitushudianyudaodongxinderendangranyeshiyaoyongshubenzhuanyezhishilaigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。zaijianshenhuisuoninengwenxialingyifangjianshenqixiedeyingyongfangfa，wenqiyundongjianshendeganshouhuoshiyundongjianshenguocheng，zaichengzanlingyifangyiliangju，shuozishenpenyoudoutaoyanyundongjianshen，zishenyigerenlaiyixiegudu，yaotadeweixinhaomayuezheyiqilaiyundongjianshen。

3、巧遇知心开展搭话

 ganjinrongyidedao，zhiyinnanqiu。rujinhenduorenshenpangjinguanyouhenduopenyou，guanlianyedoufeichanghao，danyibandouhaidabushangzhixindeshuizhun。rendexihaobuyiyang，nenggentayouyiyangxihaohuoshicongyuantoushanglejietaderenshijishangbingbushihenduo。yinci，cikenengpengdaoyige“zhongshenbanlv”jiukanqilaihenbaoguile。

 ruhejiaopengyou？dashanjiqiaoyounaxie？niruguozaitushudianjiandaodongxindemubiao，qianwanbiejichongchongdepaoyiwangjiudashan，zhishiyaoxianpingjingxialai，kanlingyifangzaikanshenmeshu，dayuefenbianyixialingyifangxiaideshudeleixing，zaikanlingyifangdexingweijuzhi，rongheyixiadayuejiunenglejielingyifangdexingqingle。suihouyiwangdahuadeqingkuangxia，xiangshengyidingyaoxiao，zaitushudianzheileidiqugaoshengjianghuaderenshihenrerendichude。huoshijiezhangdeqingkuangxiasuibiandedaliangsanjuyeshihenfeichanghaodetiaoxuan。