搭讪大师教你搭讪手法

 dashanshishenmeyisi？xiangxinhenduorenduidashanyicibingbumosheng，henduonanrenzaishenghuozhongdouhuizhudongdashan，buguoxianzaigengduoderenxihuanjiaotaliaomei，paoniu。erguanyudashanyicideyisi，dashanjubeidetiaojianshishenme，haiyouyibuyeguanyudashandedianshiju，jiexialaijiujiandandetanyitan。

一、搭讪是什么意思

 1、congguangyishangjiang：dashanjihemoshengrenjiaotan。wenlu、wenshi、yaodianhua、xianliaodengdoushidashan。beijinghuajiao“taoci”weilegenrenjiejinhuobagangadejumianfuyanguoquerzhaohuashuo，yizuo“dashan”。weizhaoxunhuatoujieyikaishipantan。yiweiwuhuazhaohuajinxingfuyanhuohanxuan。dashanyicibingbujinjinxianyumoshengren，yekeyishishuren。

2、congxiayishangjiang：jinxienianxingqidejietoudashanxuezezhuanzhizaijietouhuogeleichangsuozhudongjieshiyixing。

二、搭讪大师教你搭讪手法

 《dashandashi》juzhaoyouwangrenjun，shishizhuyandeaiqingxiju《dashandashi》zhengshishangxiankaibo，wangrenjunshiyandegaozhishang，gaoqingshang，gaodeshangde“sangaodashi”shenshouwangyoumendexiai，qizhongtagaobigededashanshoufahenkuaizaiwangluoshangyinqilewangyoudetaolunheguanzhu。《dashandashi》jiangshuleguanxin（wangrenjunshi）hebaoshenvjizhefeifei（shishishi）tamenhehuozujianleyizhi“dashantuanhuo”，gongtongbangzhugezhongbutongleixingdeweituoren，zaigezhongqingkuangxiawanchenglejiannandedashanrenwu，zaijuzhongguanxinsuoyunyongdedashanshouduanhengkuaxintaixue、shuxue、wuli、shengwu、shenzhidilidengduogezhuanyelingyu，fangshifangfacengchubuqiong,zhidaozailianaishangyoukunnandenannvmen，zhenchengdixiangduifangshifangaidexunhao。《dashandashi》yikuazhangerxilidetaicihekourenxinxiandeqingjie，jiqiguanzhongyitanjiujingdehaoqixin。cijuyibochujiudedaoleguangdawangyoumenderepeng，zaizheigelangmandeshengdanjiezhong，jidanshenqingnianmenzuigaoduandedashanjiqiao，fenfenzhong，jiaoniruhedashan，birudashanwang，qingsonggaodingnideneigeta。

 《dashandashi》juzhaoduiyujuzhongweiraode“dashan”zhuti，nvzhujiaoshishibiaoshi“shidaibianle，nvshengmianduixihuanderen，yeyinggaiyaozhudongchuji、zhudongqudashan”，zaishishikanlai，“zheidoushishenmeniandaile，‘dashan’bingbujiandeshinanshengdezhuanlile，wojuedenvshengmenpengdaozijixihuanderen，jiuyinggaizhudongquzhanxianziji，rangxihuanderenlejieziji。”duiyunvxingguanzhongmen，shishigengshirenbuzhuxiangguanzhongtuijianzijizhuyande《dashandashi》：“henduoxunqiuaiqingdegonglvehejianyi，douzaiwomenzheibujuli，womenmeiyijidouhuijiaodajiabutongdefangshi，youweiwande、youzhijiede、youqiangshide、youbeidongde，gezhonggeyangdegonglvezaijuzhongdouhuigaosudajia，xiangxin《dashandashi》zheibujuyidingbuhuirangdajiashiwangde。”《dashandashi》bijiaotiejinxiandainianqingrenbijiaoganxingqudehuati，biaoxianxingshiyehenyoushidaigan，yongzhishigaibianmingyun，yongkexuegaodingmeizhidezhutihenshoudajiahuanying，，youwangyoubiaoshi：《dashandashi》zheigejudezhutihenhao，jidangxiadanshenqingnianchuangzuolehenduodashandejihui，birudashanwang，danshizheishiyigekanliandeshehui，zaigaozhishangzhangdebuhao，yemeiyouyong。duiciwangrenjunzebiaoshi，suishuozheishigekanliandeshehui，danshizhiyaonishenshangyoufaguangdian，ziranhuixiyinshenbianderenlaiyunidashan。

三、搭讪具备的条件

 1、yongqi：shenghuozhong，zongyouzheiyangdeqingjing，womenzaichengshidejiaoluoliyudaozhishaoshiwaimaoshangrangzijixindongdenvren。shichangranruoshidecajianerguo，haishiyonggandezoushangqianqu，xiangxinshihenduonanrendouyudaoguodewenti。shanghuobushang？shanglegaishuoshenme？shuoletahuibuhuibuliwo？zainikaolvzheixiewentideshihou，huoxuniyijingshiqulehezheigemmrenshihejiaowangdejihui。weixiaodezoushangqianqu，nihuifaxiandashanqishihenrongyi。

 2、youmo：dashanshiruguonengbiaoxianyixieyoumo，wangwanghuiyouqisihuishenghuozhejinshangtianhuadexiaoguo，danzheishikeyubukeqiude，jiduidashanzhezishenyouyidingyaoqiutongshiyeyilaiyubeidazhedexiangying。biru，baqianzhongshugenyanglijuangeyiqigujijiushibaida。

 3、tantu：renheshiqingdejieguodoukeyifenchenghaozhongchasanzhong，dashanyebuliwai。womenyudaodedashanmubiaodazhifensanlei，taidutebieyouhaode，nizenmewendoukeyi；taidutebieeliede，nizenmeshuoyemeiyong；haiyoujiushizhongjianzheibufen，yejiushidashanfanzuixuyaoquzhengqudemm。tamencongdaodeshangbingbupaichidashan，danyaoliujinidianhua，queyidingyaoyouzugoudeliyou。zheizhongqingkuangxia，nidetantujiangjuedingtaduinidepingjia。

 4、waibiao：zheigesuzhishishenglaijiuyijinggudingle，chufeinihoutianzuolezhengrongshoushuzhileide。yigeniceappearanceduidashanzhelaishuojiushiyikuaizhongyaodedeqiaomenzhuan，zheiyexujiushinvdananrongyi，nandanvnandeyuanyinzhiyiba。duiyudashanzhelaishuo，jibeidazheyigehaodediyiyinxiangshiyouweizhongyaode！ruguonixiangwoyiyangxiangmaopingping，neimekeyitongguobiedefangmianlaibuchang，birushuoyizhe、shengyin、youmogandengdeng，zheixieyiyangkeyidadaoliuxiahaodeyinxiangdemude！

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