如何挖墙角

 waqiangjiao zheigecicengjinghuoguoyiduanshishijian，zaiwomendeqingganjinglili，shifouyoubeiwaqiangjiao，huoshiwabierenqiangjiaodejinglima?ruguoxiangwaqiangjiao，womenyougairuhewaqiangjiaoni？

一、挖墙角的原因

1、封建残余

 nvhaiziyidanchengweisheisheidenvpengyou。renshenyijixintaijiuyouleduizheigenanrendezhongchengdu。juedezijibianchenglenanpengyousichan。dulidesixiangyishizhujianmohu。duiqitananrenyoutianrandepaichigan。

2、社交评价

 neigenvhaizineixindoubuyuanyibeidangchengzhaofengyindiedefunv。zaixuanzelenanpengyouhouhaihebierenbaochiaimeiguanxi，zheixianranhuibeishehuizuochudishejiaojiazhidepingjia。

3、攀比心态

 henduonvhaizijuedezijiyougenanpengyouzaishenbianshouzhe，zijicaiyoumeili，dangzaishehuihuoshizaixuexiao，juedezijiruguomeiyounanpengyoudehuahuibeirenkanbuqi。juedehenshiluo。suoyihenduoshaoweiyouxiezisedeshenbiandouyounanpengyou。

4、资源稀缺

 youyushehuidefeiduoyuanhuadejiazhiguan，shiwomenduinvrendepingjiaqutongyuyizhi。erfuhezheigejiazhiguandenvrenbingbushihenduo。yejiushishuoyinweipingjiabiaozhundedanyidaozhiwomenyanlidemeinvjihumeiyoujigeleixing，erzijishenbiannenggouzhaodaodejiugengjiadeweihuqiwei。suoyidangwomenshenbianchuxianlemeinvdeshihou，yijingminghuayouzhu。>> fuchuzheimeduoweihetaruciwuqing?qingganzhenduannengbunengwanhui

二、如何挖墙角

1、时间牵制

 ruhewaqiangjiao？wuluncaiyongshenmeyangdeliyou，biruzuzhihuodong，biruchuwaijiaoyou，biruyiqixueleifeng，jinkenengduodezengjiahenvhaizidejiechushijian。zhiyouwomenzhangshijiandehemubiaonvhaizijiechule，cainengzhanshiwomendeguanli，womendexiongxinglingxiucelve，caiyouwomenshizhan depingtaihejihui。mubiaonvhaizihenishijianjiechule，cainengjianshaohetananpengyoudejiechushijian，caiyoudanhuatamenguanxidejihui。

2、精神赋格

 buduandeqiangdiaonvrendeduliyishi。niyingdangzuoniziji。zheishiwajienvhaiziduinanpengyouzhongchengdude，hexinjiqiao。yinweinvhaizinaozizhongdefengjiancanyubazijidangchengnanrendezichan，chengweilenanrenshenghuodeyibufen。zheigeshihouwomenyaobuduandejingshenfuge。“ng，niheninanpengyouguanxibucuo，wohenxianmu，danshinineixinlishiyigedulidenvxing，niyingdangyoushuyuzijidekongjianhepengyou。”“nishiqulezijideshenghuodedulixing，nanpengyoubushinideshenghuodequanbu，ershiyibufen，niyaoyouzijideshenghuo。”“duliyouzijishiyedenvrencaishizuimeide”。buduandezheiyangdejingshenfuge，tajiuhuibazijiqianyishilidecongshuyunanpengyousichandeyishizhujianxiaochu，jianshaohenijiaowangdeqianyishidefuzuigan。neimewomengairuhewaqiangjiao，gaibugaiwaqiangjiaoni，zheijiuyaozijisikaoyixia。yinweinikeyiwaqiangjiao，tongyangyehuiyoubeiwaqiangjiaodekeneng。

3、安全正当

 nimenlianggejuyouzhengdangde，keyirangsuoyourengongkaijiandudeliyoulaiwangzhe。zheiyangnvhaizijiuyoujiekoumianduihenijiaowangdejiekou，yejiubuhuiyinqitamenpabeishejiaopingjiajiangdieryinfafanfunvdexintai。jishiyihoufashengguanxishi，yeyaojitamenyigejueduifengbideanquandewuhouguzhiyoudekongjian。bunengyinweihenidejiaowangshangliyoubuzhengdanghuozhetdshibeirenfajue，jiangdishehuipingjia。zhiyouzheiyang。nvhaizizaiyoushejiaoanquangandexintaixiacainengheyukuaideheniwanglai。

4、制造误会