为什么国外父母催婚的很少

 jinri huazhenqinggan wangbianjiugendahuoertanyitanyigenanti，cuihundenanti，zaiwoguocuihunjuedezaoyibianweileyijianchangyongdeshier，keshiweihehaiwaifumucuihundefeichangshaoni？

一、为何海外父母催婚的非常少

1、了解何时该完婚

 weihehaiwaifumucuihundefeichangshao？zaiguowai，quanbushehuifazhan，fenbuqingnianlingceng，duiganqingdetantaochengduiwaikaifangdexintai。juedaduoshufumucongyouzhiyuanjiugangkaishijixiaohaidoukounianhuadejiyu，meirixiaxuedoushiwenxiaohai，jinriyoumuyoukanduiyandexiaohaizia。

 zhongxiaoxuegangkaishi，xiaopengyoumendeganqingyishijiugangkaishimanmanmengyaqi，wuyuanwuguxiegezhutifenggewei【jinriwohaizaitushuguanpengdaoleyigezongsetoufalanyanjingdenvhai，tamizhulewo】desuibi，fumudouhuanhuqueyueyiwangbagua。

 chuzhonggangkaishi，daigexiaonvyouhuijiale，putonggaozhongshidingzhuxiaohaiyaodaitao，zheizhonggezhong，yingguodefumudoushiganjuezishendoushiyoujingyanren，yaozaizheixingjijizhudongdezhengqueyindaoxiaohai，rangtamenzishenqutihui。

 erdaxuecengmian，zheixiemeiyiyueyicidezhutifenggewanhui，bieyiweishihuaihaiziduanliandema？lianqing，wanhunshifouzaiguowaixiaohaidedingyilijieshixuehuifangxiadewuzhi。

 erzaizhongguo，jiudanshi【xueshengtanlianai】zheiyicijiumoshaleyidamianjiba，suihoubansuizhexiaohainianjidetigao，fumuyoudouqidaiyigegecengmianbiaozhundouhenyouyiderenshoulezishenjiaxiaohai，xianyizhizaicuiyao，zhengzhongjianyoutongchangbuhanyouyiqieyongxindeganqingtaolun，yiqiejiukanqilaihenguaiguaidele，bianweilefumuhuangdanbujingdeguankonghelunlidaodedeguiding。

 zailiaole，zhongguohaizijuedaduoshuquanshifumufenpeigongzuozhong，maifang，maichezi，youxiaohailehaidepidianpidianrangnidaiwa，cuinijiegehunzenmela？erzaiguowai，laidaoleisidenianling，ernvhaiyaodagongzhuanqianzufangzile，zhangrenfumuyeshizishendeshiqing，ernvhenzaodejingjifazhandulisikaodandu，cuiwowanhun？

2、congfoxingyuanyutanribenguodewuyuzu

 jinqiwomendezhongguonianqingrentiantianfoxifoxingguazuishang，jinrijidahuoerkepuxia，zheiyilaigengshilaiyuanyuribenguo。2016nian，ribenguozhimingguanlixuejiadaqianyanyizhuzuode《dichongdongshehuifazhan》yinfawangyoureyi。

 zaizheibuxiaobiaotiwei“xiongwudazhideshiqi”deshuzhong，takaitandao：“ribenguonianqingrenmeiyouchongdong、meiyouxiwang、meiyoupinjing，ribenguoyishenxiandichongdongshehuifazhan！”

 yijuribenguoyouguanyanjiushigongbudejieguoxianshi，2017nian，40suibingweiwanhunderenkoubiliquribennanshidayuewei23.4%，zainvxingdayuewei14.1%，gengxinzheiyitongjishujudezuigaojilu。neifendiaochayanjiubaogaobacixiangzhanbijiedingwei“zhongshendanshenlv”。zheidaibiao，ribenguonanshijunzhimei4renqun·zhongzongyou1ren、nvxingjunzhimei7renqun·zhongzongyou1renzhongshendanshen。

 zaichuantongshideribenguojiazhongli，wanhun、chanzi、yangyuxiaohai、shanyanglaorenshikunfuzaiyiqide。errujin，henduoribenguonanqingnianbukenquqishengzideribenderenmenxiangyouyigerendeshenghuoyouxianzizai，bukenchengshou“hunyinshenghuoxingnang”。

 lingyifangmian，yinweiribenjingjizhangqibujingqi，haodejiuyewentijiangdi，nanshenghunhoumeibanfaxiangyiwangyiyangdandujinxingzhuanqianyangjiadezhongdan，zheijiushi“jiatingfunv”shenfendeyouhuolimanmanjiangdi。jingjiduliyizhiyufuyudenvxinggengbukenlizhijielehun。

 eryixiangdiaochatongjiziliaoxianshi，ribenguo18suidao34suideweihunzhezhong，youchaochu40%derenmeiyouxingjingyan，dadao70%decaifangnanrengweizaitanyiqiefangshidelianqing。

 yinci，zaiavzhizaoxingyezheibanbijiaofadaderibenguodouchuxianxingyudixia、wanhunjiandidezhuangkuang，benrennantizhuanhuanweishehuixianxiang，fumuzaicuihaiyoushenmeyong？

3、quanbucuihundeshenhouquanshiaizhishen

 zongdelaishuo，renmenwoguodenianqingrenyibianxiangyouzhefumushiwudaxiaodaochaojibiantaideguanai，yibianduifumudecuihunbuxieyigu，tashishifenbukexuede，jinguantongyigeshijietongyigexiwang，keshimangmugenfengde“mangmuchongbai”bushikeyongde。

 shixia，tongchangzaiwaibiangaotankuolunlingyalichidenianqingrenyingduifumudecuihun，doushitiaoxuanduobiyumengliededikang，jijianglailinguoqing，xuduoshijiegeguopiaozhedenianqingrendoujiangfanhuijiaxiang，henjiuweijianfumu，qidaidahuoeryingduifumucuihundexutaoqianwanbiefanganhexinfan，baochiyouqishizaiguojieqijianjiazhongdehexie，zuoweiernv，niyezewupangdai。