如何提高情商 教你四个方法

ruhetigaoqingshang?renmenpubianrenwei，yigerendechenggong=1%dezhishang+99%deqingshang。renmenliaotianshuipingbutongdeyuanyinshiqingshang。gaoqingshangdeliugexiguanhuishaoweigaibiannideshenghuo。ruhetigaoqingshang?rangwomenlaikankanzheisizhongfangfa。

一、智商高的人，善于倾听

qingtingbujinshiyizhongyishu，shiyizhongdaode，yeshiyizhongzhihuihezhihuidebiaoda。shenmeshishanyuqingting?shanyuqingtingjiushidengdaibierenshuowan。qingganzhishanggaoderenshuodeshixianqingtingbierendexinsheng，biantingbianxiang，ranhouzhanzaiduifangdejiaodu。

suoyitamendehuagengrongyishoudaodajiadehuanying。zai《shiji》zhongshuo：“yanketing，daokejin”hebierendexuyaoxiangbi，renmenxuyaobeiqingting。

yinci，ruguonixiangdedaobierendeai，nibixuxuehuiyongzijideerduozuoyigezhidaoruheqingtingderen。tingleboyadegaoshanheliushuihou，tayoulezhiji;sanmaoduihesaideshenhouganqingshiliunianlimingshifendechanhui。

jiashinichengweiyigezhongshidetingzhong，tayidinghuijuedenihenyoujiazhi，suoyitahenxihuanni，yuanyihenijiaowang。

二、智商高的人，能控制自己的情绪

yigewufakongzhizijiqingxuderen，qishinenglizaidayemeiyong。budannenglichaoqiang，zhangfeiyenengzhengzhan。

raner，zhangfeidesishijishangshifeichanglingrenjusangde。tameiyoukangkaidisizaizhanchangshang，ershibeizijideganqingshasile。tingdaotadehaoxiongdiguanyubeishadexiaoxihou，tashouxianrenzhulebeishang，liuzhexueheyanlei。

houlai，tamenyongzuijiudebianzioudashibing，yaoqiutamenriyezhizaowuqi，bingyaoqiutamenlijiweixiongdibaochou。zuihou，fanqianghezhangdashoubule，suoyitamenbudebuzaizhangfeihezuihouzaijunyinglianshata。

meigerendouhuiyougezhonggeyangdeqingxu，danqingshanggaodecongmingrenkeyigenghaodikongzhibuliangqingxu，qiaomiaodizhuanyibuliangqingxu，erbushichengweiqingxudenuli。qingxurongyibodong、kuailehefennuderenquefaneizaitiyan，erbushitanlv。

wulunheshihedi，nidoukeyibaochilengjing，xingweilixing，yizhiqingxuchongdong，yizhikewang，shizhongbaochilianghaodetaidu，xinqingyukuai，xinxiongkaikuo，zheishigaoqingshangdebiaoxian。

三、有智慧的人，拿起，放下

shenghuoconglaidoubushiyitiaopingtandedaolu。womenjiangshouhuoxianhuahezhangsheng，jinglicuozhehetongku。qingshanggaoderenbujinyouyongqihezerengan，erqieyoukuanrong、tounaohezhihui。

youyigejiaomengminderen，zaihandaidelushangdaizheyigedataoping。chuhuyiliaodeshi，pingzidiaozailedishang，danmengminjixuxiangqianzou，meiyouhuitou。lurenwentazenmekan，mengminshuo：“taoziyijingpole，zaikanyoushenmeyong?”zhuazhushengcun，fangxiashengcun;zhuazhurencai，fangxiarencai，fangxiarencai。

fanlixiezhugoujianchenggongfuguohou，qiguancongshang，guiyinyurenjian，yuxizizaixihushangyoudang;wenzibutingquangao，zuizhongdedao“tusigoupeng”zainan。wulunshiganqinghaishixuming，doukeyifangxia，yekeyifangxia，yejiushiguanxinbieren，fangxia，jiushiwanshanziji，zheishigaoqingshangrendexiuyang。

四、智商高的人，做事要谨慎

zhouguopingcengshuo：“suoyoudejiaoliudouyouzuihouyitiaobukeyuyuedejiexian。suiranzheilianggerenzhijiandejiexianbuqingchu，danzheishikendingde。suoyoudekunnanhemaodundoushiyouwuyizhongshitutupojiexianzaochengde。”nengshuodehua，nengshuodechengdu，ruherangduifanggandaoshushi，bawozheixiewenti，tixianyigerendeqingshang。

zhenzhengdegaoqingshangshishandaitaren，youdixian。youyitian，zaicengguofanshengrineitian，baochaojiangjunlaidaoanqingqingzhutadeshengri。tashigeculuderen。tadejunduishuotakeyizhandouheqiangjie，suoyitayeshiyigefuren。

ruhetigaoqingshang？chidushiyibachizi:zuorenmeiyouchidu，guoqinjiushishu，guorejiushileng。zaidajiamianqian，nibuhuikeyirangbierennankan，dongderuhehebierenxiangchudehao，nihuizhangwogaoqingshangdechidu。