聊天找话题，和男朋友聊天很尴尬怎么办？

 xiangjiaopengyouyinggaizenmezuo？youxierenxingqingjiaoweichenwen，chenmoguayan，yurenxiangchudeqingkuangxiabingbushihenhuizhaohuatiliaotian，shijishangliaotiandehuatizheidongxiyeshiyouzhaoshude，youshichuduixiangyejuedehetafangfomeiyoushenmehuatitaolunliao。liaotianzhaohuati，liaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

和男友闲聊非常尴尬该怎么办

 diyigefangfabianshihuiyingxinxineirongdeqingkuangxia，nanyouliuyouchongzuduodexiangxiangshineikongjian。zhongjiuchuduixiangbuxiangtangongzuozhongyiyang，dajiabuyongxianghuibaoyiyangjiedawenti，xiangjiaopengyouyinggaizenmezuo？dajiabixujixianghuzhijianshengchanzhizaotuilamendeshineikongjian，birushuo，ruguonidenanyouwennizaiganmani?shijishangtabingbingbushiqueshixiangyaozhidaonirujinzaiganshenme，tajinjindanchunxingdexianggennishuojianghua，jianqingyixiazishendeyalihuoshishimeiyouhuashuozhaohua。liaotianzhaohuati，liaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

 jiarunizheigeshihouxunsudejiuhuiyingwohaizaikandianshiju，neijiexiaquninanyouyingdanghuiyingshuo，e，neihaoba，nizaicikandianshijuba，budaraonile。dabufenbianhuimeiyouxiamianle。qiadangdezuofayingdangjiushinijiedaoxinxiyihou，dengshiduofenzhongyihouzaihuijitamen，neiyangtabianhuicaixiangnizheishihouzaiganshenme，weishenmebuhuiwodexinxi?zaixianliaoyiqiantabianhuirangzijintourudaliangdeguanxinzainidedeshenshang。

 zheigeshihouniyejiunenggouhuiyingtanizaiganshenme，suihouliuyidianfubishitaqucaixiang，huoshipaoyigehuatitaolunjitamen。yidingbubiquelidejitamenhuiying，bixushengchanzhizaoyixiehuatitaolunhexinxiangan，suihouzhengqueyindaotazaiciqushengchanzhizaoyixiehuatitaolun，neiyangcaihuiyueliaoyuegaoxing。

 di2gefangshibianshixuanyongchangkaishidexianliao，dajiachangchangyaoshuosheibahuadouliaoqushile，shuodebianshiyixiehuatizhongjiezhe。tamendechuxiantongchangyihuierjiukeyibahuatitaolunliaosi，jiusuangentaxianliaoderenyizhizaishengchanzhizaohuatitaolun，keshitayekeyiqingqingsongsongdebahuatitaolunjieshu，yizhiwujinwuxianxunhuan，lingrenmeiyouliaoxialaidechongdong。dajiayaoxiangzishenxianliaoyuelaiyueyoufengcai，neimawomenzaifayandeqingkuangxiabubixuanyongmibishideyuju。

 liruniganggenpenyoucongwaibianyongcanhuijia，suihounanyoufaxiaoxixunwennidaojiama?jinriwanderuhe?ruguonilijihuiyinghainenggou，neimaninanyouyingdangjiumeiyouxingquaihaozaiciliaoxialaile，shuzuiduohuiyingyigee。xiangjiaopengyouyinggaizenmezuo？zheigeshihounijianghuihaihuijixuganjuezishendenanyoubuanshishi，shijishangguanjianquanshizishendegoutongfangshibutaihao。qiadangdehuiyingyinggaishiworenweiweieryibanba，jianghuijiushiwodeqidaitaigaole，danshitamenjiadecaihuanshitingyoutediande，dajiaxiayicinenggouqushiyixia，zheiyangzininanyoucaihuizaicidegenniliaoxialai，caihuichuxiangenniliaoxialaidechongdong，yeshiyouxuduo nenggouliaodehuatitaolun。

 ziranwomenzaixianliaodeqingkuangxia，bubizuoyigelingyalichideren，yidingyaorangnanyouganjuegennixianliaohenshufu，yaoburanliaotianliaotianbianhuifeichangnankan，jibiandajialiaodeleyigenimeilejiedehuatitaolun，niyenenggouxuanyongchangkaishidehuiying，zhengqueyindaotafabuzishendeguandian，liruninengneiyangshuo，woxiangtingtingnideniantou，huoshihaikeyishuowobuhuitaizhangwo，keshitingqilaifangfohenyouqu。neiyangtarenbianhuihenyoumanzugan，huichuxianfeichangdadechongdonggenniliaoxialai。

 disangefangshidisangefangshibianshijishizhisun，bawohuatitaolundewanbiquan，shitaganjuemeiyicigennixianliaodoufeichangyouqu，doushiyouhuiweiwuqiongdejuede，youyunanshengtaoyanyizhihuaizheshoujiliaotian，tamenliaoyibanjianghuijiuxianglaizuoqitashierle，liruwanyouxi，kanbisaizheileide，yizhigennixianliao，jianghuitashenmeshiqingdouzuobulaile，zhangciyiwangbianhuijianshaoyunixianliaodepinci。yincidajiahaiyaoxianghuweichibicidesimikongjian，rangdajiadoububiganshoudaogongzuoyali，womenkeyixiantizaojieshuzheiyihuatitaolun。zhishangbianshiwangbianjidahuoerxiangxijieshaoqinglvzhijianxianliaoshiyingyongdesangexiaofangfa，ruguonikeyizaixianliaozhongyingyongdegouhaodehua，niyejiuhuifajuexianliaohaikeyineimequwei。liaotianzhaohuati，liaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

防止尬聊难堪的小窍门

 zaigennanpengyoujiaowangdeqingkuangxia，yixienvshengyouyuzishenbingbushihenshanyurenjijiaowang，yihuoshibuzenmehuijianghua，yincijianghuihuichuxianbatianliaosidezhuangkuang，zheigeshihoufenweihuiyoudianernankan。henduowangminliuyilaidaozheiyizhuangkuang，yincibianjidahuoerchushileyixiefangzhihenanpengyouxianliaogaliaodexiaoqiaomen。zuixian，youwangminqiangdiao，yaoxiangfangzhihenanpengyouxianliaogaliao，zuixiannixuyaoduoduodelejieyixianinanyouxihuandedongxi。liru，jiarunidenanpengyouxihuanlanqiusai，niyejiuduoduodekanlanqiujiemu，jiangninanpengyouxihuandelanqiuyundongyuanjinqidebisaiebuyixia，neiyangniyuninanyoujiuhuiyouhuatitaolunle。bingqie，jiarunipengdaonaxiebumingbaidenanti，haikeyiwenqi，neiyangdajia2gedehuatitaolunbianhuiyuanyuanbujuele。

 cizhi，jiaruzishenqueshibushanyuxianliaoyemeishier，jirangaliaole，neimejiurangnidenanyourenrang，bianshuo“gaizenmeban，woyoubatianliaosile”。zheigeshihou，nidenanyouneixinjianghuihuiganjuenijiaoweitaorenxihuan，daoburongyizeguainishiduoshao。shijishangliangrenzaiyiqi，ruguoshizhenxinshiyienaidehua，xiangduixingliangmoranyebuhuiganjuewuqu，youshinigannide，woganwode，yaoshilingyifangzaishenbian，bianhuiganjuejiqishuxin。yincizhuweinvhaiwuxutaidanyou。jiarunidenanyoushizhendexihuannidehua，yibandoushiqianjiunibuhuiliaotiandewenti，jinerburongyitaizeguaini。ruguonijuedexiangduixingliangmoranjiaoweinankandehua，neimejiuduoquliuyiyixianinanpengyouxihuandexingyezhongdeyixiezhuanyezhishi，neiyangniyekeyihetaduoduodetantao，buhuimeiyouhuashuo。

情侣如何找话题聊天

方法一：聊一些他会很感兴趣的事

 yibaneryan，dajiataoluntamenzijihuoshizishenxihuandedongxideqingkuangxia，huiganjuegengzideyixie。zenmehuishi?youyudajiaduizheizhonghuatitaolungengzhangwo，erqiezaoyisisuoguozheizhonghuatitaolunle。xialiejiuchushiyixiehenanyouliaotianhuatiyijingongcankao：tajinriguodezenyang，tayiwangdeqinshenjingli(biruershiqinshenjingli，xiaiganshenme，tadejiazhongzhong，sheiduitaeryanyiyifeifan)，tadexihao，tazuiaidejianshenyundong，tazuixihuandeshu、yingpian，huoshigequ

方法二：持续充实自己，扩展自身的眼界

 jiaruninengxunzhaoshijiankankanxinwenwang，duyidubaokanzazhi，nidenaohaizhonglibianhuiyoudaliangdehuatitaolunkeliao。yaorangzishenjinsuishishiredian，liuyiyouqudexijupianshipinduanpian，huoshihulianwangshangshixingdegaoxiaoduanzideng。ruguoniganjueliangrendehuihuagangkaishiyuelaiyuekuzaodeqingkuangxia，nenggouwenyiwennidenanyoutajinqiyoumuyoududaohuoshijiandaonaxieyouqudedongxi。ruguoyou，dajianenggoutaolunyixianishiruhekanzheijianshiqingde。yaoshimeiyou，neimazheijiushiduitashuonijinqisuojiansuowendejijiajihuile。

方法三：讨论一些假定的情景

 nenggouwenqi，jiaruwubitiaoxuanyiyang，shiganjuesangshishijuexiaoguogengnengjiena，huanshisangshitingjuexitong?shiningyuanyibeizizhichibocaini，huanshiyibeizimeiriwubitingbagezhongtoudeshengdange?jinkenengxiangdaoyouyisidejuziti，qingjingnenggouhenquwei，haikeyihenfanza，suihouxunwennidenanyou，taxiangyaotiaoxuannayizhong。tadechuhuiyingzhihou，zaishitabiaomingtadeyuanyin。nenggouyouyihetaduizhegan。wulunnidenanpengyoushuoxieshenme，doumingquetichufanguolaijianyi，neiyangtajiupobudeyishenzhongkaolvtadejianyile。danshishuoqiqingxi，nineimezuojinjinxiangrangjiaotanyuelaiyuegengyouqu，erbushiqueshiyaoxianghetachangfandiao。yeyoudaliangdecuojueleinantikewen：“naxiedeshijianghuihuijinicheyeshuibuzhejueni?”“jiaruninengzaicihuoyici，ninengzuochuruhebuyiyangdetiaoxuan?”“nijuedeniderichangshenghuobuguanzenyangbunengquefadeshisha?”(huoshi，haikeyiwen“jiarunizhiyouliushijianwupin，ninengtiaoxuanzheixieni?”

方法四：使他对你说一些你永远不知道的物品

 nenggoushiyouguantazijide，haikeyishiniyongyuanbuzhidaodeyixieshierhuoshilengmenzhishi。wulunshinaxie，nidoushixuedeyixiexinwupinde。erjiarunixiangyaozuodegengshijiyixie，nenggoushitaduinishuoyixieniyongyuanbuzhidaodexihao。fuguzaizheileizhuangkuangxiayeshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。tanianshudediyitian，tadediyigexiaowanju，takeyijiqilaidediyigeshengrihui。genjuzheileifangfa，nenggoufeichanghaodizhangwodangtahuanshigexiaohaideqingkuangxiaxihuanshenme，naxieduitaeryanhenzhongyao。

方法五：问起一些古怪的难题

 zailiangrendouqingxufeichanghaodeqingkuangxia，neimezuonenggouyinchulaiyixieshifenyouqu，rangliangrendouhenkaixindehuatitaolun。nenggouwenxiangjinneiyangdenanti：“niyaojianxinyoushengdanlaoyeyema?”“jiaruwubizaidianshijihehulianwangzhongjiantiaoxuan，ninengfangqinayigeni?”jiqi“yaoshimeiyoushizhong，nijuederichangshenghuohuibianweishenmeyangzi?”weichihuihuadeqingqingsongsongquwei，bingqienaxiehuidadoumeicuo。jitamenjianghaowandexiaohua，suihouhetayiqixiao(qiantitiaojianshitadeyoumofengqufeichanghao)。

方法六：说些好听话

 duitashuonishiduomedexiaimouyiciyouhui，bingduitashuoweihenixiaineiyiciyouhui。liru，ninengshuo，“woainidaiwoyiqiqucanyindianchiwancandeneiyiciyouhui，najiacanyindianhenmei，rangworenweizishenshifenfeichang。”

方法七：探讨将来

 nenggoutaolunyixianiyaozaiweilaimouyitianzuodeshi——huoxuniyaoxiangyaoquxilalvxing，yaoxiangyanyichuwutaiju，xiangxieyibenxiaoshuo，huoshixiangzaichuanlirichangshenghuo。wenyiwentadouyounaxielixiang。zheiliyouyixietiyi：nixianglainageyuanxiaonianshu?niyaoshenmezhuanye?niyaozainaerrichangshenghuo?niyaodaonaqulvyou?tajianghuiyoudegerenaihao。nixiangzuoshenmeyangdegongzuozhong?

方法八：一起玩游戏

 nenggouyiqiwanzhuoyouyouxi，haikeyiyiqiwanwangluoyouxi，huoshidawangluoyouxi。jiarudajiazaiyouxilimianshijingzhengguanxi，ninengzaiwandeqingkuangxiayudiaoshaoxianbujing，youyicijixingta。erjiarudajiashitongyiduidelaozhanyou，neimadajiajiukeyitantaoshoujiyouxifangfayouxineirong。nenggoushiyixiazheizhongjingdiandeyouxi：xiangqi、tiaoqi、pinziyouxi、pukeyouxi，ruqiaopaihespeed、zhuoyouyouxi

方法九：用心聆听

 hebierenjiaotandezaoxingyishubaohanlingting，lingtingnenggoujililingyifangshuodedaliang。yaojinidenanyoujiandaonishiqueshigaosutadehuahenganxingqu，tajianghuadeqingkuangxiajiuxuyaohaohaoditing，zaitafayandeqingkuangxiayonghaowuyiwendejuziheshentiyuyanduitaduinishuodewupinzuochuxiaojie，neiyangtajiulejieniqueshishizaiyongxintingtafayan。jiarudajiashibujiutanlianai，jiuzaoyiyouhenduojianmodeqingkuangxia，neimayikaishijiujinkenengbubirangdajiadehuihuachaochuyixiaoshi。shuodeguoduohuirangxinshengerganqingkuaisuyuelaiyuekuzaofawei。shitalejienimeiyouzhuyilibujizhong。xiantanbianweijianmoyeshihenyiqiezhengchangde。

跟男朋友相处要把握两个标准

 1、zongyourenshuo，zhenzhengdeaiqingyoubaocunqide，yiguobaocunqi，tajinideaihuixiaosan，jianjiandidebiandemeiyouhuashuo。qishibushi，shenpangyouxiangchujigeyuejiutichufenshoudelianren，yeshiyouxiangchuliangnianwanhundeqinglv。buchenggongdeganqing，yuangugebuxiangtong。qudechenggongdeganqing，renzhenguancha，changchangjiandaoguilvxing。

 2、tiaoxuanleta，jiuxuyaojianxinta，bubiminganduoyi。liaotianzhaohuati，liaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？meiyigerenquanshiputongren，nanshengbubinvxingqiangjing。meiyigerendefazhanquanshiyibubutanqiuzhe，buduijiugaishan，jianjiandidebianchengyigeqiangjingderen。