聊天没话题怎么办？该如何和相亲对象找话题？

 shiyiguoqinglaidao，jianxinxuduo dalingdanshennanrennvrenyidinghuibeijiazhonganpaishanglexiangqinyuehui。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？jinrijiulaijutizhidaoyixiadahuoerruhexuanzenvhaixiangqindizhijiqigaizenyanghenanpengyouzhaoxunhuatitaolun。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？

该怎样和男朋友找话题聊天

 1.liaoyiliaogongzuoqingkuang，liaotiangonglveyounaxie？jiarunibiyelezaoyigongzuozhongyiduanshijianle，tangongzuozhongyinggaishiyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolun(ziranyouhuiqiannixuyaoxiandagaizhangwoxialingyifangdeqingkuang，lirubierenhaimeiyougongzuozhongni?)，suiranlingtingshiyizhonghaodegerenxingwei，danshinihuanshiyaoliuyizhangwohaofencungan，bierangtabuduandexutaorichangshenghuoshenmenaoxindesuosui，neiyangtahuiyueshuoyuebugaoxing，niyetingdefan。hekuangdajiashilaiyouhuide，bingbushilaifalaosaode，zheizhongsuosuihuanshicunzhejinhoujianjiandiliaoba。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？

 2.liaoyiliaotashenpangdepenyou，jinguannijianghuiburenshi，keshinizenyangxianggengqiangdezhangwota，neimejiuwubizhangwotadepenyou，youyucongtaxiangchudepenyouzhongninenggengqiangdezhangwota。ziran，duinieryankenenshigehenwuliaodehuatitaolun，jianghuiduitaeryanqueshifeichangzhideyiliaodehuatitaolun。ruguoshini，shifouyexiaishuodianqitalaijianqingxiafenweini，liaopenyoubianshishidehuatitaolunle，jinengjianjiexingdezhangwolingyifangyounenghuoyueqifen，nenggou feichanghaodelajinbicizhijiandejianju。

 3.liaoyiliaotadexingquaihao，genjupenyouzheiguan，jianxintaleisiyejiangnidangpenyoule，neiyangzailiaoxieguanyutadehuatitaolunyefeichangrongyiduole，neimaxingquaihaobianshibukehuoquedehuatitaolunle，zheiyejuecezhedajiashibushiyougongtonghuati，dangdajiayongyoutongyangdexihaoshi，huatitaolunjiushunlichengzhangdelaila。xianggechang、wudao、guangjiegouwu、jianshenyundongzheixiedounenggouwen，ziranzheishihouyejilingyifangyigezhanxiandejiyu，henduorendouqidaihuodetarenderentongde，tayingdangdoubuliewai，nijuedeni?

 4.xiaidetesemeishi，tashigerangrenkaixindehuatitaolun。jiarudajiayouhuizaiyedianhuoshicanguan，neimatesemeishiyehuishibukehuoquedehuatitaolun，liaoyiliaogezhonggeyangxiaidetesemeishi，budannenggou zhangwolingyifangdekougan，yexuhainenggouxunzhaoxiangtongdian，neiyanghuatitaolunbujiuyouyongyou。

未碰面相亲约会微信闲聊

1.谈一谈各有的性情

 lejiebicidexingqinghenzhongyao，weizhihoudexiangchuzuozhunbei（jiaruniduinixiangqinyuehuideta/tahenganxingqudehua）bingqiexiangqinyuehuiquanshibenzhewanhundemudequde，zhaoyigexingqingtouyuandecaisuanshizhongyao。

2.工作中的状况

 nenggou tantaogongzuozhong，lejieta/tashizuoshenmedejiukeyile，bubiwenjibie，yebubiwenshouyi，jiarubicijuedehao，zheizhongnantidanengcunzhezhihouzaiwen，lejiegongzuozhongzuishaoyouyigedi，nizhidaota/tadegongzuozhong，ta/tadeshouyiyouduoshaoniyecaichulailaila。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？

3.喜爱如何的幽会

 jiarubicijuedehaodehua，yejiaohuanleshoujishang，xianliaoyehenhemu，jiukeyitizaozaiyouhuiwanbideqingkuangxiayueta/taxiayicichulaiwan，wenyixiata/taxiaidaonaqu，shita/tajuededaonidetiexin、zixiyuzhouquan。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？

情商高相亲聊天方法

1、回应女生难题：不必讲真话，也不必讲谎话。

lirunvshengwen：“nichangchangzaijieshangneiyangdahualejienvshengma？”

讲真话：“是的。”

jianghuanghua：“conglaimeiyouguo。”

buzhenbujiadehua：“jingli，danshizheiyicizuiyouganjue。”

2、回应女生难题：鉴别假难题，绕开不回应。

bingbushiquanbudenantidoubixuhuidade，youshijinjintayishihaoqixinwenyiwenbale，bingbushihaoxianglejie。

lirunvshengxunwenni：“nixiaixiaopengyouma？”feichangjiandandechulifangfa，zhuangzuomeitingjian。

3、回应女生难题：夸大其词认错。

nvshengqiangdiaonidequexianqingkuangxia，bubibianbo，bubishuohuang，bubilaizhang。renketa，erqiekuadaqicita。

 lirunvshengwen：“shibushinichangchangneiyangdahualejienvsheng？”nihuiying：“duia，nishiwoxinzhongjinridahuadediyibaige。”

4、回应女生难题：先认可，后否定。

 heshangbiandekuadaqicirenkefafanguolai。xianzhuangzuorenkenvshengdekonggao，suihouyouyinchulaixinbiaoshu，rangnvshengchajuezijihenyumei。

nvshengwen：“shibushinizailiaomeia？”

nihuiying：“duia，wohaizaipaoxuduoniuer……wozhengzaiyouyongguanlipaozhe，zheierxuduoniuer。”

 nvshengwen：“shibushinixiangzhuiwo？”nihuiying：“duia。wojinqilianchongcizhunbeibaomingcanjiaxiajiaoyunhuini，zhengquegepeilianjiaolian。”

5、回应女生难题：唠叨的回答。

shuoqilaihengaoxiao，laotaodehuidahuijinikanqilaibutongxunchang。

rutongdahuashouyoulimiandeneiyiduanbiaobai：“yiqianyouyiduanchengzhideganqingbaifangzaiwodeyanqian……”

lirunvshengxunwenni：“nineigeshihouweihehuilaidahuawo？”

 jianyidehuidashi：“wodiyiyanjiandaoniyejiuhenyouganjue。”huoshitucaoyidiande：“yinweiwozaihouhuimojineiyitiandeyuwang。”

 danjiarulaotaoyidian，nigangkaishijiangcunshangchunshudebaifenzhiyibaixiaonvhaixiaoshuo，cuirenleixia、lanman、luolilaotao……shuowanzhihouzhangqidesisuo，yebiekannvshengshuangyan。dengzhenizainiutou，shuranfajue，nvshengzaoyileiwangwangle。

相亲约会取得成功的10个话题讨论

1、能够 赞扬另一方

 xiangqinyuehuishi2gelurendiyicijianmian，zuixianjinshouyandidebianshilingyifangdexiangmao、yizhedaban，bingqienvhaizaixiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxiadoushiyongxindaban，jiusuantadaxinyanzhongbuyuanyibaomingcanjiaxiangqinyuehui，tayeburongyiyouyufuzhuangeryishizishendeqingmian，yinerkeyiyongqiadangdezanyanglaijianqingpengmiannankan。

举例说明：

jiarulingyifangshencaigaotiaojiukeyizanyanglingyifangyouqizhi；

jiarulingyifangyandajiukeyikuatayanjinghuishuohua；

jiarulingyifangxiangshengroumeijiukuatawenrou。

2、能够 共享自身现阶段的工作中

 liaogongzuozhongzhuyaoshiyibianchengxianzishendenanrenmeiliheshiyongjiazhi，yaolejieqianxingongzuozhongdenanrenzainvxingyanzhongzuiyoufengcai，genjuliaogongzuozhongzhanxianzishenboxueduocai、wanshankekao，rangnvhailejieninengdailaitameihaodeshenghuo。

 keshiqianwanbiejianggongzuozhongliaochengyewuqiatan，yebubixiangnvhaichuansonggongzuozhongzhizhongdefumianqingxu，yaoshikeqiejiniyutaxiangqinyuehuishibenzhetanlianaiqude。zaizhanxianzishendelingwaibiewangjiguanzhuyixianvhaidegongzuozhong，rangnvhainenggou canjiadaoyunideliaotianduihuazhizhong。

3、能够 聊一聊个人爱好

 gerenaihaoyiweizheyigerendejiaojiquanhepinwei，bingqiezheiyihuatitaolunfeichangrongyilajinliangrenzhongjiandejianju，xunzhaogongtongyuyanyejiuchuangjianqilelianluogan。lirunenggou neiyangliao：“jinqiganggongyingdexxyingpiannikankanlemei？”suihounenggou jiuzheyingpianzheiyihuatitaolunkuozhantuokuan。

4、能够 聊一聊闲暇之余喜爱干什么

 yijunvhaipingshideyulehuodong，nenggou dagaifenbianchulingyifangdegerenaihao、xinggetezheng，suihounenggou yanzhelingyifangdeaihaoliaoxialai，zhendui2gelurenfeichangrongyikaiqifangbianzhimen。bingqieliaozheiyihuatitaolunrutong2gehenjiumojiandelaoyou，qifenbianqingqingsongsonglelingyifangdangranyejiujuedezide。

5、能够 聊一聊最爱或是最反感吃啥

 “chi”shidajiameiridoushiguazaizuishangdeyigehuatitaolun，bingqiezhendui2gelurendiyicixiangyu，chishishifenanquanxingdedisanfanghuatitaolun，yilainenggou zhangwolingyifangxihuanchishenmekougandeshicai，erlainenggou fangzhizaidiandandeqingkuangxiadaozhinankan，liaodehaohainenggouweiyihouyouhuizuopudian。

6、能够 聊一聊相互较大 的理想和心愿是啥

 meiyigerendouyoulixianghexinyuan，youdelixianghuoxinyuanjianghuizaoyijinxing，youderengzaizaicizhuiqiuwanmeidedaoshang，liaolixianghexinyuannenggou zhanxianzishendezongtimubiaohejiazhiguannian，nvxingzhenduiyoujinquxindenanshengmeiyoudikangnengli。bingqietingyitingnvhaidexinyuanhuolixiang，yexuniyaonenggou bangdeshangmang，weiyihoujinyibuchupengshengchanzhizaojiyu。

7、能够 聊一聊最不可以承受的事儿是啥

 suhuashuodehao“qingrenyanlichuxishi”，liangrenzaigongshengqingyideqingkuangxia，yagenkanbudaolingyifangdequexianhewenti，keshidengrelianguoduodaopingdanqiyihou，2gerenderuodianhewentibianhuimanmanzhanxianchulai，cikeliangrenjianghuibianhuizaoyulengbaolihezhengzhi，yinci liaozheizhongnenggou weiyihoujiaowangfangzhipengdaojinqu。

8、能够 聊一聊最想来哪些地方度假旅游

 wujuwushudedujialvyoumeigerendouchongjing，bingqiemeiyigerendexinlidoushiyouzishenqingxindediqu，kenengshiyigeguojia、yigedachengshi、yijiafandian……wulunlingyifangrangnidedaanshishenme，nidounenggouzaicijianghuatitaoluntuokuanxialai，jiarudajiayoudoulaiguodediquhuoleisidesuojiansuowen，zheijiushitigaoguanliandedahaojihui。

9、能够 聊一聊难忘的回忆

 lirutaolunzishenershidejiyilihuonianshudezhuiyi，neiyangnenggou youhenduodegongtongyuyanquliao，youyuershihenianshuzaimeiyigerenxinliquanshizuixingfu、zuifeichangzhidezhuiyide，lingwaizaitaolunhegongxiangdequanguochengzhong，niyenenggou zhangwodaotashiyigeshenmeyangderen。

10、能够 聊一聊眼底下能见到的物品

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？jibiannitiqianzhunbeizaiduohuatitaolun，yejianghuizaixiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxianaoqiaohurankazhu，queshibuqingchuliaoshenmejiukeyiliaoyiliaoyanxiadewupin，liruyouhuidezheigecanguanzhuangxiushejifengge、caipin、fuwuzhiliangzheixie，huoxumouyiyishunjiannidefangbianzhimenjiuhurandakaile。