怎么提升恋爱聊天技巧？聊天攻略都有哪些

 shijishangtanlianailiaotiandejiqiaoyeshinenggou genjuqinfenlaitigaode，ruhetigaoyunvshengliaotianfangfani?zenyangchulirenjiguanxi？yexuninengshizhezhegenggaishuohuafangshi。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zenyangdashan？jianjiandigenggailejianghuadefangfa，neimaerrumurandangzhong，nideyunvshengliaotianfangfayekeyihuodetigao!

如何提高与女生聊天方法

1、应对“陌生人”和“亲戚朋友”，备好两个聊天室

 zenyangchulirenjiguanxi？dangzheierzhongrendouchuxianzaiyigecanzhuoshangdeqingkuangxia，duiqinqipengyouyaogengshoulianxing，duiyaorenyaoduoxunwen，jinyoubawolebixudejichusucaitupiannicaikeyifenbianzheigerenshiyigeyansurenzhenderen，huanshiyigeaizengfenmingderen，bawoxianduhuigengjingque。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

bukeyiyouyuyouqinqipengyoudaochangzhuyaobiaoxiandehaowuguji，zuihoutongchangshidiulepenyoudeqingmian，yediulezishende。

2、不做闭环控制回应，把话头丢回来

 juedaduoshurendaotichuwentideqingkuangxia，doushixuanzishenjiaoweishanyudeyibufen，batawendenantipaojitamen，lingyifanghenkaixin，niyeledeyouxian。zhengzhongjiannizhibixujiayixie，“shibushi?”“a?”“zhihouzenmeyangle?”zheiyihuatitaolunjiugusuanhuiliaohaozhangshijian。

 bumingbaimeishier，meishenmebigaozhiyigebumingbai，quezhuyaobiaoxiandehenyouxingquaihaoderenjiangnishanyudeshi，lingrengaoxingdele。

3、“很抱歉我说话较为立即”，是最不尽人意的表述

renheshikedoubieqidainishuolelijidehuazhihou，yong“henbaoqianwoshuohuajiaoweiliji”jiukeyibasunhaijianshaodaozuishao。

 dajiazongshijizhunidesunhai。yinci ruguonizhunbeishuozhonghuaranglingyifangjingjue，yongjianduandoushibizheiwanjiugengyouyong。shuoqijiubiehaipasipolianpi，yaoganjuezhongjiubuyaoshuo。

delehuasuanyeyaomaiguai，jiangguozhonghuahaiqidailingyifangmashangkuanrongni，zheiquanshibutaikenengde。

4、每一个人都喜爱被赞美，可是尽可能别超出三句

kuazanduolebingbushikanqilaijia，bianshihuikanqilaishengfen。kuazanyaofazifeifu，danyaozhuzhongfangfa。

 zenyangchulirenjiguanxi？youshi“nijintianmiansetebiehao”huibi“nichuanzheiyijianyifukuzizhenpiaoliang”yaohaoyong，youyunongbuhaoniyebujidetashifouzuorichuanleyiyangyijianyifu。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zenyangdashan？

duinvhaieryan，lijiguoduodekuazanhuiyishihuodehaogandu，yihouhuiluogeyouqianghuadiaodeyinxiang。

5、假如不愿回应，反诘是是的回应

 douhuiyouyixiefanshehujiaomanderenlaiwenyixiejininankanhuoshijiushinibufangbianhuiyingdenanti，zheigeshihouninenglijiyongyuanhuatitaolunfanjieta，shizheqianyiyixiazhuanzhuliyeshiduilingyifangdeyizhongtishi。

jiarulingyifangbianshixiangdaposhaguowendaodi，neijiarunibuyuanhuiying，yejiuwuxuzailiuyudi。

6、闲聊的“浅谈论话题”，来自于每日的残片阅读文章

zheiyifeichangheshineileitongshiguanxi，xiawuzaiyiqichifan，zhongwuzaicanqupengdao，youshihouxiantanyiliangjuxiaomonankan。

 xiangbiliaopengyoudetaosexinwen、laozongdebagua，haibibushangmeitianhuafeishifenzhongfangwenyixiameiridexinwenbaodao、remenhuati，tamendounenggoubianchengzuijichudetanlunhuati。

7、塑造一两个小喜好，让它变成你话题讨论的一部分

baxiaoshiniguishuyugongzuozhong，baxiaoshizhiwainiguishuyuzishen，zenyangfengfuduocaizishenshinengfouhaohaodixianliaodegangkaishi。

 yueduwenzhang、gequ，zheizhongwupinyoushitiaoqunti，bingbingbushimeigerendounengshangxiheyougongmingdiande。zuoshitimoxing，soujibiaobencaijiyeshifeichangxiaozhonglengmen，gusuanyejinyoutongaihaocaikeyigongxiang。keshitesemeishi、yingpian，zheizhongjuedaduoshurendoushishezuhenengfabuzishendeguandian。

 shizhexuanyiliangxiangjiaoweidajiadeshiquzuo，huifeichangrongyishinizaiquntilihuodedaliangganenhuikuidexiangsheng。xiangbianweiyigefayangouweideren，qingxiancongfengfuduocaizishenderichangshenghuogangkaishi。

8、在话题讨论的末尾，把话题讨论抛给下一个人

ruguonidejianghuaguozhangshi，qingshizhezaihuatitaolundemoweibahuatitaolunpaojixiayigeren。

 nizaisuonanmianpengdaoyigenijiaoweishanyudehuatitaolun，huoshinilejiedebijiaoduodehuatitaolun，bianchenghuatitaolundeguanlizhongxinyemeiyoushenmebutaihao，keshijiaruxinlishiyigejiaoweipianneixiangxinghaixiuderen，zongganjuehuatitaolunshuozheshuozhejiujiangwanle，buqingchuruhejiegewei。neimejiushizhebahuatitaolunpaojitarenqumowei。

 liruwufanyouxierentidaomouyidapaimingxing，danniqiahaojinqizaiguanxinta，nixinggaocailiedijiangwanyoutaoyanzheiyihuatitaolunjieshuzaizishenzheili，bibushanghoubianjiayiju，danshinishizenmegangkaishixiaitade?huoshishi，tajinqibingbushihaiyanleyigeshenmedianshijulaizheme?nijuederuhea?

9、用正确了是“风趣”，用不对还比不上“缄默”

 fengquzheigedongxishiyushengjulaide，zheibushibeihuileduanzihuoshigaoxiaoduanzijiunengyanchude。yinci jiarunihuanshigechuxuezhe，wojianyinixianzaiquanzizhaoyigenijuedefengqudemubiao，suihoubatadegaoxiaoduanzihegengbeishu，zaiciwaiyigeqitajuhuihuodongshangxiaoyongyixiashiyishi，ruguoyoufanyingbianshitaibangle，yaoshimeiyoufanyingjiudangshizheyixia，yemeiyoushenmebutaihao。

qianwanbiesijiyingbeideyingchuchang，neishihoushanglezizunxinshisuoshi，liuyouheiyinggengbubian。

10、别害怕尬聊，这不是你需要填的坑

 shiwoyiduanshijianyouneiyangdeqiangposiwei，henpachuxianhuatitaolunkongdang，juedejigerenlingjuliganzuoxialaifeichangganga，neimejiushuoshuohua，kedouhuizailiaoleyigehuanjieyihouchuxiankongchang，cikewodouhuiganjuezishenfeichangyouzerenqumibuzheiyi“kongchang”，jieguoyuefaxiangshuo，yuexiangbafenweichaoreyuenankan。

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？shijishangyaoshidandingcongrongdijuqishuibeihekoushui，jiuyaogaliaotingzaineihao，douhuiyouxierenzaizhangkoujianghuade。