谈恋爱时如何找话题聊天？教你几个实用的聊天小技巧

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如何谈恋爱找话题聊天

处对象找话题聊天的方法：

方法一：问一些TA会很感兴趣的事

yibaneryan，dajiataoluntamenzijihuoshizishenxihuandedongxideqingkuangxia，huiganjuegengzideyixie。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？zenmehuishi?youyudajiaduizheizhonghuatitaolungengzhangwo，erqiezaoyisisuoguozheizhonghuatitaolunle。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？xialieyixiehenanyouhuozhenvyouliaotianhuatiyigongzhuweicanzhao：

*TA今日过得怎样

*tayiwangdeqinshenjingli(biruershiqinshenjingli，xiaiganshenme，tadejiazhongzhong，sheiduitaeryanyiyifeifan

*TA的喜好

*tazuiaidejianshenyundong

*tazuixihuandeshu、yingpian，huoshigequ

方法二：共享精神实质

zixiaodajiajiubeiwenhuajiaoyu，haochanpinyaohejiarenpenyougongxiang。ziranjiarunimeiyoushoudaoneiyangdewenhuajiaoyu，worenweiyexushicaogaodeshier。zheixiexiangyaobaxiaowanju、lingshigongxiangjiqitaxiaohaizideren，yibanyougengqiangderenmaiguanxi。zaichengnianrenshehuifazhanyeshizheiban。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？liaotianxiaojiqiaoyounaxie？

dabufenrenlaoshidianjizhehuodehaoduohaoduodeai、haoduohaoduodekuaile、haoduohaoduodeguanai;shaoshurengongxiangrangwomenhaoduohaoduodeai、haoduohaoduodekuaile、haoduohaoduodeguanai。suihouqianmianyizhonglaoshikunhuoyu”weishawufadedaoni”，pinlemingdeyaoxiangjiejuezheiyiqingkuang，dantamenfeichangshaoyishidaobuzhengquedecezhongdiancaisuanshiguanjiannanti。zenyangchulihaorenjiguanxi？

方法三：碰到事儿要和另一方述说

wulunnipengdaoshenmeshiqing，biequde，nanguode，haipade，zheizhongnidounenggounachulaihelingyifangshuo，shitafentannidejiaolv，yeshitagongxiangnideyuyue。bubifengbiziji，ranglingyifangganjuezishenbukeyijiniganshenme，yinererganjuezishenmeiyouyong，yebieranglingyifangganjuenibuxinrenta，xuduoshieryebuduitashuo。

方法四：讨论一些假定的情景

nenggou wenqi，jiaruwubitiaoxuanyiyang，shiganjuesangshishijuexiaoguogengnengjiena，huanshisangshitingjuexitong?shiningyuanyibeizizhichibocaini，huanshiyibeizimeiriwubitingbagezhongtoudeshengdange?jinkenengxiangdaoyouyisidejuziti，qingjingnenggou henquwei，haikeyihenfanza，suihouxunwennidemubiao，taxiangyaotiaoxuannayizhong。tadechuhuiyingzhihou，zaishitabiaomingtadeyuanyin。

方法五：用心聆听

hebierenjiaotandezaoxingyishubaohanlingting，lingtingnenggou jililingyifangshuodedaliang。ruhezhaohuatiliaotian？yaojinidenanyoujiandaonishiqueshigaosutadehuahenganxingqu，tajianghuadeqingkuangxiajiuxuyaohaohaoditing，zaitafayandeqingkuangxiayonghaowuyiwendejuziheshentiyuyanduitaduinishuodewupinzuochuxiaojie，neiyangtajiulejieniqueshishizaiyongxintingtafayan。