怎么避免尬聊？聊天攻略哪些好

zaijibenshangquanbutushudiandechangxiaoshujipaimingbangshang，zongmianbulejibenshuyouguanrenjijiaowanghuoshixianliaodeshouce。jinriwangbianjidahuoergongxiangruhefangzhiganliao，baozhengkankanertan。liaotiangonglveyounaxie？zongeryanzhi，xianliao，zaiyigejuhuihuodong、dujialvyounaizhiyouhuixiangqinyuehuishimeigerendouditoukanjianzishenerguangdadexiaoxianshipingshiqi，zaoyiwanranbianchengyimendaxuewen。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？kuailaihewangbianyiqixuexibaituoganliaodefangshiba!

如何防止尴聊

1.刚开始一场交谈

 liaotiangonglveyounaxie？dajiazairichangshenghuozhongyoushihouhuiyouyubuqingchugaizenyangzhangkouercuoguoyixieguanjiandejiyu，suirandajiahuichangshizhezaigangkaishijiaotanqianzaiyipangmomodiyanxizhe“jizhide”kaichangci。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？

danyouyanjiubiaominggangkaishiyichangjiaotanshinijuededeneirongbingbingbushineimaguanjian。ruguonidekaichangcineirongdanshiyuxiaochen，pingpingchangchangdeyanyujiuzuyi。

guanjiandeshinixuyaobawozhugoutongjiaoliudejiyu，rangxianghunengliaodaoxialai。jiarulingyifangyeraoyouxingzhi，tahuichushiyixiesuiyixinxineirong，rangnimenliangnengxunzhaoxiangtongdian，baguanlianladegengjin。

shijishangxiangkaichangcifeichangjiandan，wufeisangehuatitaolun：qingjing、lingyifanghezishen。xianghaohuatitaolunyihouniyejiunenggou gangkaishidajiadegoutongjiaoliule，keyiyong“tichuwenti”、“biaodayijian”he“chanshukeguanshishi”zheisanzhongfangfagangkaishijiaotan。

2.用提出问题推动沟通交流

meiyigerendoutiwenti，danfeichangshaoyouxierenlejieruhetiwencaikeyihelidituidonggoutongjiaoliu。

ruguonidetichuwentiwufadedaoyiqiehuiyingshi，nantishijishangbuqujueyunidejiaotanmubiaoshibushiyoushan，taduinichangshuodehuatitaolunshibushihenganxingqu，huoshiqingjingshibushishihe，erqujueyunitidenantizishenhuonideyongyushibushishidang。

yibanzhuangkuangxianinengtierzhongnanti：fengbishiwentihekaifangshiwenti。

fengbishiwentiyibanshifenbianzhengwuhuoduozhongtiaoxuanzhongleide，yibanzhibixujianjiemingledehuiying。liru：

“nixihuanxilanhuama?”

fengbishiwentiyouliyubierenxiangnizhanxianhenduoniyaozhangwodeguanjiandian，liruxihuanxilanhua。

liaotiangonglveyounaxie？dangdahuoerderenwujiaosezhizefengonghenquelishi，jinjinlejiefengbishiwentikenengshihuihuayuelaiyuekuzaofawei，bingzaochengrangrennankandejianmo。liaotianmeihuatizenmeban？yinggaizenmedashan？

yizhihuiyingfengbishiwenti，xunsubianhuilingrenganjuezishenhaoxiangzaibeishenwenyiyang。

jiaruniyaoranggoutongjiaoliukaizhanxialai，erqieraoyouquwei，pojushenceng，nixuyaogengtiyingyongfengbishiwentihekaifangshiwenti。fangzhiganliao

3.积极主动聆听，感受另一方的体会

shejiaogoutongjiaoliuqiyuanyuxinlisuoxiang。bierenxinyousuoxiang，caihuibixuxiangniqingtu。

jijizhudonglingtingnengjilibierenzaicishuoxialai，yekeyibaozhengnilejielingyifangchangshuo，congzheiyishijiaoeryan，tashiyizhongbutongfanxiangdedafufangfa。

weiheliyingyongcifangfa，nizuixianyaogaoqingchuzaihuihuaquanguochengshangdoufashenglexienaxie。

geshitaxintaizhiliaofangfadechuangbanrenfulici•bosiboershuo：“quanqiudetuxiangbingbushiquanzidongjindaodajiaderendedanao，zhishiyouyidingdetiaoxuande。dajiabingbushizaikan，zhishizaizhaoxun、jiansuo、sikao。dajiabingbushitingdaoshijieshangquanbudexiangsheng，womendoushizailingting。”

4.明白称赞和赏析

xintaixuezhuanjiazhanmushichangshuo：“rendebenxingzuishenchuquanshiqipanbeishangxide。”jijidichengzanbierenbujinnengjilitamenzaicidechangsuoyuandiyanchuzuoshi，bingqiehaigengyoukenengrangtamenduiniyongyouhaogandu。

youzhijiezhengjushuoming，danglingyifangfajuenixiangtamenqingtuganqingshi，tamengenghuixiangnilakaixiongjin。

neiyang，zhixuyaoshaoshaoqinfen，niyejiunengyubierenchuangjianqifanmiandegoutongjiaoliu，jiniderenjijiaowanggenghemugengqinmiwujian。

liaotiangonglveyounaxie？jijizhudongchengzanbierenzuizhongyaodeyidianbianshinenggoujianyizhongduiwaikaifanghubanghuzhudeqifen，nengjinizhoubianderencongzheidangzhongfazhanbingwanchengzishendeqianli。