关于说话之道的建议

 dangnifaxian，yiqunrenxinggaocailiedishuohua，zhiyaoniyishuohualai，dajiajiuanjingle。cishi，niyinggaiziwofanshengle。shibushizijishuohuabuhaotingni，neime，youmeiyou shuohuazhidao dejianyini？

一、六招说话之道的建议

1、shuohuazhiqian，qingyongnaozi。

 youxieshiqing，shuochuqu，jiushoubuhuilaile。yexunirenweihenku，keduifangxinlijianzhiduinibuxihuan。buhuishuohuabushicuo，danshiruguonizhidaozijibuhuishuohua，quehaibujingnaozishuohua，jiushiwukejiuyaole。

2、youxinggeshiyouzijideyuanze，erbushigaogaozaishang。

 dusheshiyizhenjianxue，erbushiduizhezijideqinpenghaoyoushuoyixienantingdehua。nantingdehuagendusheshiliangzhonggainian。duomeyouxinggedouhao，ruguozuibazongshishuonantingdehua，jiubushiyouxinggele，shikebei。douzheimedaderenle，doubunenghaohaoshuohua，keshihenkebeide。

3、ruguobushanzhangshuohua，nikeyixuehuixixinlingting。

 yekeyizuoyigexixinderen，zhishaobuhuirangrentaoyan。youzijidejianjieshihaoshi，budaibiaokeyisuiyijiantabierendejianjie。faguoqimengsixiangjiafuertaicengjingjiushuoguo，“wobutongyinishuodemeiyigezi，danwoshisihanweinishuohuadequanli。”danbuyaobabierenjidusi，duoduobirenzhendehaoma？

4、yudaozijibuganxingqudeshiqing，qingyixiaoerguo。

bizuizongshihaode，buyaozaibierenxingzhimanmandeshihou，shuochuyixiedaoweikoudehua。

5、buyaozidaisuoweideyouyuegan。

buyaogaogaozaishang，dajiadoushipingdengde，sheiyemeiyoubisheihao，dajiadezaoyudoubuyiyang，zuibakuanrongdian，gongmian。

6、kanshubenxuexishuohuazhidao

 keyikankanshuji，birucaikangyongdeshuohuazhidao，meipiandoushirangtanhuabiandeshengdongyouqu，rangniyutarenxiangchuyekaishibiandeyouqu，bingpeiyitusijihuizhidelingrenkuangxiaochahua，rutongcaikangyongdezhuchifenggeyiyangqiaopijizhi，raoyouqingqu。caikangyongdeshuohuazhidao2shishigesinian，caikangyongxinlingwudaodeshuohuazhidao，jiushi“duinihao”；yinweiwoshuoderangnikaixin，niyehuibawofangzainixinshang。yanlianshuohuajiushiyanlian“ruhehebierenxiangchu”

xiwangzheixieshuohuazhidaodejianyiduiniyoubangzhu，zaixiacidepengyouliaotianzhongkeyiyukuaidejinxing。