相亲后的正确发展步骤，怎样礼貌拒绝相亲对象？

 xiangqinyuehui，xiangqinhoumeiganjuezenyangjujue？tashihenduorenquanshijingliguode，renzhishanglenianling，bianshigezhonggeyangbihun。xiangqinyuehuizhenduibicieryanquanshidiyicijianmian，duishuangfangdoubulejie，xiangqinyuehuizhihoujiuchedibuqingchuyaoganshenmele。zenyanglimaojujuexiangqinduixiang？

相亲约会后的恰当发展趋势流程：

１、多联络多碰面

 xiangqinyuehuishizhenduihenduoreneryan，quanshidiyicijianmian，ruguodiyiyinxiangfeichanghao，neimejiubixucunzhelingyifangdelianxidianhua。zaixiamiandelianggexingqineijiukeyiyoushihoudedatongdianhuahuoshishifaxiaoxi，yuezheyiqiquyinchahuoshishikandianshiju，yaotishengpengmiandejiyu，jinguandiyiyinxianghuiweihaiyigerenduilingbenrendeguandian，keshigenjuzhonghouqidechupeng，guandianyoukenenghuigenggai。zaipengmiandeqingkuangxia，nanhaizinenggoujinvhaitiqianzhunbeiyixiexiaolipin，zheinengdedaonvhaidehaogandu，hainengchengxianzishendelimao。

２、多呈现自身

 yicixiangqinyuehuideshijianbijiaoyouxiande，zhenduibicidexingqinghexingquaihaoquanshibuneimazhangwode，zheijiubixuduoduodechupeng，zishenquzhangwo。yaobujiucongjieshaorenneibianzhangwozhangwonvhai，nvshengxihuanfengqu，neimejiuduojiangyixiechaoxiao；xiaijianshenyundong，jiudaitaquganshouyixietanxiandezhutihuodong，chupengdeqingkuangxia，yaochongzudechengxianzishendebaohuyu，rangnvhaiduinilingyanxiangkan。

３、胆大告白

 chupengyizhouhuoshishilianggexingqiyihou，ruguoqueshimingquezaoyishixiaishangtarenle，neimejiunenggougaobaile，wulunlingyifangdehuifushizenyangde，zuishaozishenshizaoyiqinfenle，jiusuanshibeijujueleyejuebuhouhui。

４、不必有身体接触

 gangchupengdenanhaihenvhai，huoshibubiqiannvshengdeshou，huoshishiyoubiededeshentijiechu。meiyouyouqidelejiejiuzuozheizhongzishi，huihezhunvhaide，huiranglingyifangdichu。

怎样礼貌拒绝相亲对象？

１、有喜欢的人了

 diyicixiangqinzhihou，ruguoduilingyifangmeiyouganjue，jiukeyigenlingyifangshuo，zishenzaoyijianguolehenduorenle，rengzaikaolvdaozhong，keyishuolijingduini，duizaiqizhongdemouyigerenyinxianghenshenru，kaolvdaotadejilvhuijiaoweida，yinciyebuyuanxiaohaonideshinianle，qidainikeyixunzhaolingzishenyouganjuederen。xiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxiahuoshiyaobuguansanqiershiyi，ganjuebuhaobianshiganjuebuhao，biehaozhetaren。xiangqinyuehuiderenyibanshixiangqinyuehuilehaojihuile，biciquanshinenggoulejiede。

２、发信息回绝

 ruguonimingquezishentaoyanlingyifangdeqingkuangxia，youguoyibuqudangzhongshuo，neimejiunenggouxianyaolingyifangdelianxidianhua，denghuiqulezhihou，jiujilingyifangfaxinxishuo：lijingzishenjinshendekaolvdao，huoshijiuzheiyangba！faxinxizheiyeshiyizhongfangfa，fangzhiliangrendoujiaoweinankan。

３、言语要谨慎

 meigerendoutaoyanfahaorenka，yidanbeifahaorenkajiudaibiaozheyaobeijujuele。huijueyiqian，xianjiyixiafahaorenkayeshishifenfeichanghaode，biaomingzishenhuijuebingbushiyouyulingyifangbutaihao，shiyouyulianggerenzaixingqinghuoshishibiedekeguanyinsubushihe。huijuehaiyaoyoulimao，buyaoshuoyixieshangxindehua，liru：henai、buhaokan、jiazhonghenqiongdeng。zhibudingtarendouhaimeikanzhongnilei。

４、立即告知中介人

 xiangqinyuehui，yibanquanshihuiyouxierenxiangxijieshaode，diyicijianmian，fajuezhongjierenshuodezhuangkuangheshijixiangchataiduole，jiulijigaozhizhongjierendangzhongshuoqingxi，rangzhongjierenqubiaomingzhuangkuang。

５、幽会的情况下携带盆友

 ruguoxiangqinyuehuizhihou，zhujiandeqingkuangxiayoudianerjuede，jianshangshuangmianzhihouyoumeiyouganjuele，neimejiunenggouzaizhihoudeyouhuilidouxiedaipenyou，duojihui，nanshengdangranjiugaoqingchuzaiqizhongdehanyile。

６、聊没什么兴趣的话题讨论

 xiangqinyuehui，shiyaolingjulide，zuoyiqilekendingshiyaogoutongjiaoliude，neimejiunenggoutiaoxuanyixielingyifangmeishenmexingqudehuatitaolun。liruhenvshengliaoshoujiyouxi、cheliang、dianzijingjideng。

７、问另一方喜欢的类型

 ruguonitaoyanlingyifangdeqingkuangxia，nenggouwenyiwenlingyifangxihuandeleixing，danglingyifangshuodeleisideqingkuangxia，ninenglikehuihuashuo：bizhaoleyixia，wochedibushinixihuandeleixing，woshigenanyibeigenggaideren。suihoujiukeyizuochuyizhongyihandeqingkuang，shitalejienibushishihedehouxuanren。

８、時刻确立心态

 xiangqinhoumeiganjuezenyangjujue？xiangqinyuehui，zheishiyigehuxiangdequanguocheng，nitaoyanta，buyiweizhetabuxihuanni，ruguotaduiniyouganjue，jiusuanshibeijujuezhihou，tahuicaiyongquzhedezhanlve，xianbianchengpenyou，suihougesanchawuderangnitongdianhua，meirilaiyigeweixinliaotian，zishenchedijiuchenzuiyuzishendegerenxingweilibianle，wangjileyiqiannishihuijueguotade。zhenduiqueshibuaideren，jiuwubiyaozaiduquelishuominghanyi，yifangdaozhiwuhui。