男人只是撩你的表现，不是真心爱你？

 ruheshibiezhanan？zhenzhengdeaiqingchongchizhemofade，keyirangxuduolixingderen，zhiliyishunjianjianshao。erzaiganqingzhong，shouyingxiangjiaodadeyingdanghuoshinvshi，ruguoyigenvrenyidanmituzaiganqinglibian，bianhuiyuelaiyuebuyuanzixinxinqilai。jinerbianhuisuibiantouruzishenyishengdeai，wanyizheiyiduanqingganbenghuaisanle，nvshizaoshoudesunhaiyeshibukeguliangde。yinweiaizhongchuzaiquediandeyifang，nanrenzhishiliaonidebiaoxian，yizhiwufahuodeyubenshentourusuoduidengdeai。

 neimadaodinaxiedenansheng，shibuzhinvxingweicitourudeni？dajiayougairuhequfenbian，yigenanrendaodishizhenxinaini，huoshisuibianwanwaneryidehuaxinnan？qishibushihennan，zhixukanzheisangeguanjiandian，jiunengwanquanjianbiechulingyifangdaodishiduiniyouganjue，huoshiyigeqieqieshishidedahuaxinnan。jiarumeiyigenvrendounengyijuzheisandianfenbianganqing，nanrenzhishiliaonidebiaoxian，neimajiuburongyishouneimeduodeshangle。

一、初见没多久，叫法轻浮

 buqingchuniyoumeiyouyushangguoneiyangdenanhaizi，ganglejiemeiduojiu，duinidejiaofajiulijibianchengle“shangpin”，neiyangdenanshengshiyoubajiudoubingbushiduinizhenxinshiyide。shijishangzheiyiguanjiandianshiherendegexingyouguanxide，jiaruyigerenpingchangjiujiaoweihuodadadu，neiduijiaofa“shangpin”henyoukenengbianshixinggeruci，dajiawuxuxijiu。keshijiaruyigerenhenqinglvdijiaoni“shangpin”。neitakendingbianshihuaizhewanxiadexinlizhuangtailaide。

 jiarunanshenggangrenshinibujiu，jiuneimejiaoni，zhibuguoshierzhongyuangu。yishiduinibingbingbushihenyongxin，jiuzuoweishiguojiajiayouxiyiyangwanxia。cizhibianshizaitadeneixin，bingbingbushihenzhongshini，ganglejiejiuneimeqingfu，neiyangdenanrenshibuzhixinlaide。

二、说对你有感觉，却不公布

 xuduonanshengbudanshizailianaizhongneiyang，naizhizaijielehunyihou，yehuiduiwaikaifangshengchengzishenshidanshen。neiyangdenanshengqueshishiweirencaogaowubi。youyuneiyangdenanshengbudanmeiyouduizishendehunyinshenghuokejinzhishou，bingqieduiwaibianhaichaosanmuside。

 yiduanchengzhideganqing，zhibuguoshibicizhijianguanzhekuanrong，bicixinrenchengxin。erneiyangdenansheng，meifabaozhengyixinyiyi，wulunyikaishitaduiniduomehao，doububisuibiantongyita。erzhenzhenzhengzhengainidenanren，yidanhuodelenidehuanxin，jiuhenbunengrangquanshijiedoulejie，dajia２geshixinxinxiangxideyidui。zaiqinrenqinpenghaoyou，penyoudeyanqiangongbunidecunyou，yeshiduinijiaodaderentonghezhongshi。erhuaxinnangujidetaiduole，yeyagenburongyineimezuo。

三、不主动约你，始终在忙

 zhenxinshiyixiainidenanren，burongyizaixiangyaonibangzhudeqingkuangxiacaiyueni，zhishiwushiwukeneixindouzaixiangni。jiaruyigenanren，jinyouzaixiangyaonideqingkuangxia，caixiangqilaijijiyuenidehua。neimazhuhenile，nizaoyimairubeiyongtaideduiwule。

 yigezhenzhenzhengzhengzaihunidenanren，yidingburongyijiangnigezaiyibianwulun，fandaohuishikezhaohuatiliaotianyunixianliao。zheibujinshineixinshifouyoudenanti，yeshiyuanbuyuanhuashijianshouhounidewenti。

 ruheshibiezhanan？jiaruyigenanrennaizhibuyuanyichouchulaishijianlaipeibanni，neimaniyaojuedetaduinishizhenxinshiyidema？danniquzhaotadeqingkuangxia，taqueyizhizhaogezhonggeyangtuocishuozishenzaimang，neiyangdeguanlian，yeyidingburongyilaogu。suoyishuo，bingbingbushirenherendouzhideai，danfeichangzhideaideyidingshishenzhenzhengainideren。