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 xihuanyigenvsheng，bianhuidianjizheyizhidaizaitadeshenpang，hetaxianliao，changshigenjuxianliaozhuyaobiaoxianzishen，yingdemeizhihaogandu，danxuduodixiongtongchangjiubianchengleyigehuatizhongjiezhe，fenweiyidubingliang，liangrenbicizhijianena，oodebuqingchushuoxieshenme，zhendeshifeichanggangaa，xiabianzheizhongliaotiandejiqiaokanleyingdangduininyouxiezhu。henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？neinvshengzaiyiqishinanhaiziyaozenmezhaohuatiliaocaihaoni？nanshengyaozhudongliaotianshuoshacaishiduide？

1、挑选适合的机会

 jiarunvshengfaguoweixinpengyouquan，yijingwaibianxiuxianyule，zheigeshihoujiubuyaoliaole，youyutadehuiyingshishiduanshixude，zhaohuatihenfeili，haibibushangbuliao，jiaruxianghetahudongjiaoliu，zaipengyouquanpinglunyixiajiukeyile。

 jiarunvshenggangtichufenshou，zuihaoshiyebiejijikuanwei，nilaikuanwei，youyuzheigeshihousuichuquanshikeng。nijuedetaqianrenruheruhebutaihaoba，huoxutaneixinhaimeiyouxuehuifangxia，duiqianrenyeyouqinggan，tahuigennisipolianpi。jiarunijuedetaqianrenruheruhehao，fenshouyihan，neimenibingbushiweizijitianmafanma？nidaodishibangzishenjianghua，huoshibangtaqianrenjianghua？jiarutajijiyueni，niyewuxuquliaotadejiuqinggan，hetaliaoqitaqingqingsongsongdehuatitaolun，tajijiliao，niyejiugaozhita，nimeixingquliaotaheqianrendeshier，jiaruninengliaojiuzhaotaren。

 henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？neinvshengzaiyiqishinanhaiziyaozenmezhaohuatiliaocaihaoni？nanshengyaozhudongliaotianshuoshacaishiduide？jiarunigennvhaiziliaotian，tahuiyingbijiaoman，bingqiehenfengbishi，xizirujin，liru：ng，haode，duia。neimeniyingdangshixiangyidian，jinzaoche，youyutameiyouyuniliaodexingqu，niyingliaodehua，nvshenghuihenxinfan。

2、聊什么？

zheiyikebukeyimangmugenfeng，bixuzuoxieqingbaogongzuo，xianzhangwotashishazhongleideren。

jiarunvshengchangchangweixinpengyouquangongxiangtesemeishi，ninenghetaliaochide。

例如：

nichiwanyidunfeichanghaodecanyindian，jitafaletu，bushangyiju，zheigeniubafeichanghao。

 huoshiniyijingchiyexiaodeqingkuangxia，shenyefangdu，jitafatu，buyiju，yidingeleba，jinimenyiyan，jiejiechan，jiayigehuaixiaodebiaoqing。

 jiarunvshengxiaizhuimeijuhuoshiribendongman，neimeninenggouxianbeishuyixielianxuju，zaihetachuangongchuangong，xuduomeiguodianshijudoutingyoupinweide。youyixiemeiguodianshijuhuoshiribendongmanquanshimouyifuwupingtaishoubode，ninengwenyiwentashifouyouviphuiyuan。

 jiaruyigenvhaibutaiweixinfapengyouquan，jiujiaoweijiannanyidian，zhiyougenjubijiaoyouxiandexinxineirongzhongzhaoxunhuatitaolunle，lirutashiquyiyuangongzuozhong，ninengxiujiatarentimouyiweizhiyanzhengle，yingdangquyongshenmekangbingdudeyao。ruguoshiyinxingzhiyuande，ninengwentajinrongjigoulimianzheixiegoumaibaoxianhetouzilicaichanpindejiujingkaobukaopu。

 liaotianhuati，shijianjiandizengjiade，yikaishihaibutaishu，richangshenghuoxiangjiaoshao，nenggouwuxumeitianlianluo，jianjiandidedajiagongtongyuyanduoqilaile，meiyicixianliaotakeyijijizhudongdehuifu，ninengweichimeitianlianluo。

 juedaduoshurendoubingbushigaoshuaifu，butaikenengrangnvxingyijianzhongqing，jianjiandiyuelaiyuelejiedequanguocheng，henyoukenengbixuyigeduoyuenaizhigengjiu，yidingyaoxixin。

 congwobenrendegongzuojingyankanlai，youyixieqianrennvyouliaojirijiuxiangfenghenwan，youyixieyaobixuliaohaoduogelibai，youyixiehaoduogeyuecaizhujianyourichangshenghuoxiangjiao。wohexifuyeshiyibosanzhe，lejieyihoudabannianneicailiaoqiliangsanci，youshihouweixinpengyouquanhuichuxianjihuihudongjiaoliu，dabannianhouchunshuouranxunzhaoxuduoxiangtongdian，caizhujianyuliaoqilai。shuyunide，burongyicuoguole，shuzuiduojinjinwandao。

xuduonanshengtongchangbingbushibuzuhaoerbanvxinghetui，zhishiyouyutaijibukenairangnvxingganjuenanshoucaihetuibierende。

youyidianwubiliuyi，bieziyiweishiquliaozishenhenbushanyudeshier，zhuangbfeichangrongyileipi。

3、如何开局？

 jiarudajiahaibutaishu，jiuhuatitaolunkaiju，liruxunqiubangzhutayidiannanti，huoshigongxiangyixietahenyoukenengyouxingqudewupin。

 jiarunijiandaotaweixinfapengyouquanshuoqunaliwanle，ninengwentayixienitinghaoqixindenanti，lirutalaidaobeijingshi，ninengwentabeijingshizheiyishijieyouwumaitianqima？jiarutajiangmeiyou，ninengrangtafazhanbeijingshidetianshangrangnishangxiyixia。

jiaruhenshutou，yong“zaiganma”zheileiwuqudekaijunantidoubingbuda。

4、闲聊互动交流的方法

 nvrenhenanrendeluojisiweichedibuyiyang，nanxingsiweidezongtimubiaoluojisiwei，zongdianjizhejiejuekunnan，nvxingsiweijiaoweilixing，hudongjiaoliudeqingkuangxiatongchangbingbushiweilegenghaodichulishenmewenti，zhishigongxiangzishendeqingkuanghedangjindetihui。

 xianliaodeqingkuangxia，buyaozhejibiaoshuniduoqiangdaduoshuhuigan，zhishizhuyaobiaoxianchuxizhilixingdeyimian，lirutajiangtajiabanjiadianfeichanglei，nikeyibieduitapiping，gaozhitalixianghuahenfengyuxianshihencankuyaohaohaodiqinfencaikeyiguohaorizidexiashuo。

 dangnvxingbiaoshukunaohetihuideqingkuangxia，niziranyaokuanwei，dankuanweibingbushijiejuekunnan，zhishijianqingtadexintai，jiujingruhejiejuekunnan，tazishenyelejie。

 nixuyaozuode，bianshibiaoshuniduizheijianshiqingdetihui，liruyinweiwotaoyanjiabanjiadian，wodeshangsiyehenkehen，meiyiciquanshizaodianhuilaideqingkuangxiajiaodajiahuibaogongzuo，meiyicihuibaogongzuoneixindoushiyoujiwanzhixiaoyangtuozaifeiben。

 jiarunijuededebitacan，tahuixiang，nibiwodoucan，woneixinshufuduole，youjuhuashineiyangshuode，kuaileshichuangjianzaitarendetongchuyishangde，heihei。jishimeitacan，tayexunzhaoyigekeyishenyoutihuideren，nenggouzaochengxintaigongmingdian，ganjuenitongqingdali，lejietadejingyuhebiequ。

 nvshengsushuodeqingkuangxiabangnvshengshutongxintai，zheishiyigexianghuzhijianlajinxinlijulidejiyu。danshijiaruyizhinvxingjinjingennigongxiangshangxindeshier，erbugongxianggaoxingkaixindeshier，neimenijiuxuyaoxiaoxinyidianle，tahenyoukenengjiangnizuoweixintailajixiang。

haiyouyigefangfanenggouchuangjianhaogandu，neibianshibiaoshushangxi。

biaoshuduitadeshangxi，yeshigongxiangtihuidefangfa。

 henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？biaoshushangxi，jinkenengbiexushuzheixiemingyandoulejiedekeguanshishi，lirutakanqilaihenmei，nilaishuotahenpiaoliang，tashuzuiduojiushishengganxie，bingbuhuiyounaxieyouqidejuede。

 jiarunizanyangtayixiebuzixinanyifajuedeyoushi，liruchuanyidapeideguanjiandian，qichang，hanyi，dandu、zaoxingyishupinwei、tatouruqinfencaizaochengdejieguozheixie，huikanqilainihenzixibingqiehenyouqi，bingbuxiangbiedebeiyongtaiyiyang，jinyongxiabanshensikaozhidingzhutadexiangmaoheshenxing。

5、及时止损

shoujiweixin、qqshangdexianliaomeiyoulingjulidehudongjiaoliugaoxiaolv，yaomingbaijishizhisun。

 henvshengweixinliaotian，jinkenengzaihudongjiaoliufenweijianjiandijianshaoyiqianwanbi，yejiushibietandaobuqingchuliaoshenmedeshihoucaipobudeyiwanbi，neiyangjiaojinvshengdexiwangganbianhuihendi。meiyouqidaigan，nimeiyoubanfarangtabuduandesinianni。

 zhudongliaotianshuosha？wanbihuatitaolunbingbuhuitainan，ninengshuo，youyigepenyouyuewoyongcan，zaishuo。huanjuhuashuo，woyihuiqudalanqiu，gairiliao。zongeryanzhibianshigaoshiyongjiazhidechechu，rangtalejienibushiyigehunhuneederen。