跟女生聊天经常冷场？和女孩子聊天怎么找话题

 richangshenghuoyouxuduodenanhaizizaiheyixingpengyouxianliaodeqingkuangxia，henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？changchanghuigaliao，yibufenyuangushizheizhongnanhaizibuaishuohua，bushanyurenjijiaowang；lingyibufenyuanguzeshitamendeshuohuafangshicunzaidewenti，liaotianliaotianlingyifangjiumeiyouzaiciliaoxialaideyixiang。zhudongliaotianshuosha？

 dajiabieming“ganliao”，duibiyubuaishuohua，bushanyancidenanhaizihuoshiyoufeichangdadejiyuqugenggai，ruguonibawoqiadangdeshuohuafangshi，nvshenghuijijiyuenixianliao。

1、解决查询户口式闲聊

 bushanyancidenanhaizi，kaichangcitongchangquanshihenfawei，lirunilaizinali？nijinnianduodale？nishiganshenmegongzuode？dajiabingbushijingyuan，xianliaoyebushichaxunhukou，yinciyidingyaojiejuechaxunhukoushideliaotianhuati。

liruniyaolejielingyifangshinaliren，nenggouneiyangwen：nikanqilaibingbuxiangbeifangdiqudenvsheng，nishinanfangdiqudeba？

女孩会问：为何？

ninenghuiying：beifangdiqudenvshengfeichangshaoyouhenijifuneimehaode，jianghuadeyudiaoyemeinineimewenwan。

 henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？bakeguandechaxunhukoubianchenglixingdetiaodou，xiamianniyejiunenggouranghuatitaolunyuelaiyuegengjiayouyisi。

2、学好从关键点上赞扬女孩

 meiyounayigenvhaishitaoyanbeibierenzanyangde，juedaduoshunanhaiziyebushikoumenzhenduinvhaidezanyang，keshishijixiaoguoquegeyoubutong。jiarunikualeyigenvsheng，tadefanyingquehencha，neizhiyouyigeyuangu，neiyangmeichuangyidezanyangtazaoyitingdetaiduole。

 shangbianzheiyiduanhuihuabianshiyibannanhaizikuanvshengdefengge，zongshiyongdaerkongdeciyu，neiyangweihewulunyong？youyuniqianbian1000+gegouyintadenanhaiziyeneimekua，“haokan”“piaoliang”zheileidezanyang，zainvhailaikandaliangdehaoxiangyizhongfuyanleshi，yincinidezanmei，bixuyouchengxin，haixuyaozaijiayidianyishuchuangyi。

 yiyangshizaizanyangnvhai，zhixuhuadiansixucongguanjiandianxiashou，jiunengrangnvhaitihuidaozhenzhenzhengzhengbeishangxideyuyue，tabianhuizhongxindeyaoxianggennizaiciliaoxialai。

3、学好敞开式闲聊

 jiaruyigerenduimoujianwupinyouxingqu，suihounijiangzheiyijianwupinquzou，ruguonizaidujitazheiyijianwupindeqingkuangxiahuiyinqitagenggaodexingquaihao，changkaishixianjingyoucierlai。zhudongliaotianshuosha？

changkaishixianjingzhideshi：zaihenvshengdegoutongjiaoliuzhong，nimeiyoulijidixushuxiangxideniantou、xiaogushi、xintaihuoshitihui。

 buzhengquedeliaotianhuatirutongneiyang，nidehuiyingbujilingyifangyiqiechongfenfahuideshineikongjianhekongjian，neiyangdexianliaojiunanyikaizhanxialaile。zaixianliaodequanguochengzhongwomenyaoduoyingyongyixiekaifangshidecijukaizhangoutongjiaoliu，lirunilejielingyifangdegongzuozhonghuoshirichangshenghuodizhiyihou，gaozhita：“xxdiqu，woyiqianchangchangyiwangliuda。”

 zheiyihuatitaolunzhong，guanjianziyoudizhi、liuda，jianjiexingdezhaodaodajiazhongjiandexiangjiao，yeyougeyanzangdegongxiao，youfanvshenglaizhangwonipingchangderichangshenghuohuichanshengxienaxieyouyisideshi。

4、维持闲聊和互动交流的均衡

 zhudongliaotianshuosha？xuduonanhaizizaipengdaoxinaide“jipinnvshen”shi，xianliaodequanguochengzhongfeichangrongyizhuyaobiaoxianchuguitiannandezishi，taiduodipululezishendexuqiugan，nvhaihuijuede：niduiyuwoshiyouyidingdeqitude，jinerzhujianshengshuni。

 weichizaixianliaohehudongjiaoliudejunheng，jiushinixiyinzhudaonvhaideyigeyouweizhongyaodedian。pinghengshudeyigeguanjianzichengwei“tongping”，tongpindeyisishi：henvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，bixuhetaweichitongyangdepinlv，jianyieryanbianshi：tahuiyingkuai，nihuiyingkuai；tahuiyinghenvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxia，bixuhetaweichitongyangdepinlv，jianyieryanbianshi：tahuiyingkuai，nihuiyingkuai；tahuiyingman，nihuiyingman；tahuiyingpianfuduo，niyexiangduiyingdihuiyingjijizhudongyixie。

 henvhaiziliaotianzenmezhaohuati？pinghengshudelingyigeguanjianzichengwei“haoqixin”，yihaoqixindefangfazaochengnvhaiduinijinxingtichuwenti，jinerzhujianrangnvshengbaoluxuqiugan。lingyifangyidanpululezishenzhenduidajiadeyaoqiu，zhishaohuicongdajiazhuiqiulingyifangbianweibicigongpinghuihua。