跟女生怎么聊天才不无聊？这么做可以让你成为女生眼中的男神

 zaiyouderenlaikan，xianliaonanyi，shijishangxianliaobingbuhuitainan。zenmehenvshengliaotianbulengchang？jinriwoyehedahuoereryanyixiexianliaocengmiandexiaoqiaomen，jibiannishiyigebuaishuohuade，xiusedenanhaizihaikeyicongzheierhuodefazhan,bianweiyigexianliaodashen，naizhishibianchengnianqingxiaoguniangdelingyibandezuobangyoubei。gennvshengzenmeliaotiancaibuwuliao？

dajiaduguowodewenzhangneirongyihou，xiwangjidahuoerchanshengzheizhongcengmiandezhuanbian：

1.henvhailiaotianburongyizaigaliaole。

2.henvhailiaotiandeqingkuangxiaburongyijuededaoqienuo。

3.zaixianliaodequanguochengzhong，lejieruhequxiyinzhuyixingpengyou。

大家看来一下，在闲聊的全过程中，大家碰到了什么难题？

 zenmehenvshengliaotianbulengchang？niyouyuqienuoerhaipahenvshengquxianliao，neimanidecezhongdianshizainaerni？shiyouyunizijibuganshuohuama？kendingbingbushi，youyunizaihepenyougoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，yizhiquanshikankanertan，shiyouyunizijihenneixiangxingma？jiarunihezishendezuihaodepengyouxianliao，nihenyoukenenghuitexiangjianghua，

 neimaniyuxiaoguniangxianliaobuchenggongdeyuanyinshishenmeni？shijishangyuangujiuzhiyouyige，yunvshengxianliao，liaodetaishao。ruguonizaigennvhaiziliaotiandeqingkuangxia，niyibandoushihuixiangzishenneimeshuoshihema？jiaruneimeshuo，shifouhuijinvhailiuyouyixiebutaihaodeyinxiangni，woneiyangdehuiyingchongzuyouyisima？weihewomenzaihezuihaodepengyouxianliaodeqingkuangxiakeyineimashifangyali，keshiyiyigennvhaiziliaotianbianhuijiaolvbuanqilaini，zhuyaoshirendedanaoxiangtaiduo。

大约有下列2个层面的缘故

 ruguonigennvhaiziliaotiandeqingkuangxianiyizhiyaoxiangrangxianliaodeneirongyuelaiyueyouquweixing，yidannijuedezheiyihuidajiaoweiyibandeqingkuangxia，niyejiudanxinhuibeinvshengchaoxiao，niyejiuhuijuedeshifendebugaoxing，yucitongshidanxinhuiranglingyifangganjuenizheigerenhenwuliao，nirenweijinyourangnvshengganjuexianliaoyouyisi，tamencaihuiduizishenyouhaogan，jiarunimeiyouyouyisideliaotianhuati，tamenjiuburongyikanxihuanni，nijuedewopouxideduibudui？yexuqiahaoshiyouyuniyouzheizhongcengmiandeyali，yincinicaihuiwanglezenmegennvhaiziliaotian。

 buqingchugennvhaiziliaotianyingdangshuoqixienaxie，xianeryijiannimeiyouheshengshunvshengxianliaodeyixiegongzuojingyan，neimagennvhaiziliaotiandeqingkuangxiabianhuibuqingchushuoxieshenme，youyupingchangmeiyouhenvshengliaoqitian，yincidiyijuhuajiubuqingchushuoxieshenme，tongchangzhaobudaonaxiehuatitaolun，jiusuoxingbuliaole，keshinipengdaoleshangbiandeerzhongzhuangkuang，niyirannenggoukaizhanyidingdegaishan。

wojiangzheiyixuexipeixundequanguochengdagaifenchengsangefangmian：

 zuixianzhaoyigenvhaikaizhanxianliao，suihougenjuxianliaogoujianyigeyouliangdeqifen。disanbu，genjuxianliao，rangnvshengyunibianchenghuyouhaoganderen，ruguonichixudequqinfen，jiukeyirangzishenbianchengyigehuigennvhaiziliaotianderen。

1.找一个女生出来聊天

 zheiyiguidingkanqilaibingbuhuitainan，keshizenmeyangcaikeyigennvhaiziliaotian，erranglingyifangbujuedeyanjuan，dajiahenvshengxianliaobingbushimudi，xianliaobianshiweilegenghaodizishenzuihoudemudi，weizijizhidingyigexunliandeneirong，liruyushigenvsheng，pengyou，tongxuemen，qinpenghaoyouguolurenkaizhanxianliao，ruguoninenggouliaoderendounenggoudandadequxianliao。

 xianliaodequanguochengzhong，nixuyaorangzishenneixindanchunxing，liruzhishishibanvshengshizuozishendeyigeliaoyou，xianliaodequanguochengkenengshifenqingqingsongsong，youyunimeiyouhanyouyiqiedezhenduixing，keshitongchangniyongyoumudiyihou，bianhuiyiweideyaoxiangquzaochengnvshengdeliuyi，zheiyizaishijianhuodongdequanguochengzhongshibuyunxufashengde。

 ruhegennvhaiziliaotianni？zaigennvhaiziliaotiandeqingkuangxia，nihebuzishenduojiangyidian，shaotiwenti，jidahuoerjuyixiebeimiandeshili，liruyouxierenhenyoukenenghuiwen，“piaoliangmeinv，niyoumeiyoukonga，dajialailaoyihuier。”zheizhonghuapululenidezhuiqiuwanmeidemudi，yigezhenzhenzhengzhengyaoxiangzhangwonvrendenanrenshiburongyiyikaishijiujiaofalingyifangweipiaoliangmeinvde。gennvshengzenmeliaotiancaibuwuliao？

 “nizaiganshenme？”jiarushuoniliangbingbushihenlejieneiyangdenanti，huiranglingyifangganjuehendichu，ganjuenikuishitadegerenyinsi。

 jidahuoerjuyixiejijizhudongdeshili，“worenweinihenyouhao，suoyiwoxiangniwenhou。”zheileijiaofanenggouranglingyifangmeishenmegongzuoyali，tongchangnvshengdouxiaizheileidangrandewenhaofangfa。

“kanjiannidezhaopian，worenweihenshuxi，”yingyongzheileifangfanenggoukaiqiliaotianhuati。

 nenggouhelingyifangtaolunyixiaqiwen，liru，worenweiwaibiantianqihenhao，nineibianqiwenhaome？xianliaoqideqingkuangxia，tongchangshizuidangranshifangyalide，zheigeshihoujiujindaolewuyaoqiudeqingkuang，zheiyinvshengbianshiyizhongdanchundexunlian。

2.看到女生不会再担心的情况下，那麼你也就能够进到下一阶段了。

 gennvshengzenmeliaotiancaibuwuliao？xianliaojilingyifangyigexingfudeyinxiang。zaixianliaodeqingkuangxia，yaoxuehaozhanxianzishenyouyideyimian，youdeqingkuangxianenggouhenvshengtaolunyixiazishendechulianqingren，taolunyixiazhiqiandenvyou，huoshitaolunyixiazishendeyouqing，zhanxianchuzishendeshiminggan，meiyigerendoushiyouyidingdegaoguangshike，womenkeyiyikaozheizhongshiqinglaizhanxianzishendegerenmeili，ruguonishuozishenlijingdeqingkuangxia，nvshengtongchanghuizhuiqiuwanmeiyixieguanjiandian，zheigeshihouninengjiangtanxintanhuaneirongfengfuduocaiyixia，jiarunihenvshengshuozhexieqingqingsongsongdehuatitaolun，nvshengjuedefeichanghao，yucitongshiyeduinihenyouxinxin，zheibiaomingninyouhenyoukenenghenvshengjinyibufazhanqushi，bingqieniyunvshengdexianliaoyehuiyuelaiyuegengweichangshun。tayexiangyaobianchengnideliaoyou。

3.让一个女孩爱上了你，而且大家开展情感的互动交流，彼此之间产生心理状态的依靠。

 zenmehenvshengliaotianbulengchang？tashidajiazuihoudemudi，bixudajiajinyibudequrenzhen，jinyourenzhenquzuo，caikeyiranglingyifangzhenzhenzhengzhengdiganshoudaodajiadeqingyi。richangshenghuodeguanzhuzaijiashangyidingdexiaoduice，xiaotaolu。nenggouzhunidedaonvshengdehuanxin。