与女生聊天的话题？聊自身爱好？

 xuduoqingkuangxia，dajiaxiangyaohebierenshenjiao，quelaoduishenbianrenshuohuang。weihe?youyushenbianrenzhangwonideguoqu，lejieniderujin，yejiangcanjianidejianglai。ninengbennengfanyingdizaochenggongzuoyali，duinirichangshenghuolejiedeyuedaderen，yuehuishinidanxin。gaosuniyunvshengliaotiandehuati，gennvshengliaotiandehuatidaquanyouzheixie，meirenneixinmeiyoumimi，suiyihenyoukenengbianhuisaxiayixieqianyishidehuang。shenbianrenhuishinizaisawuguantongyangdexiaohuangshiyeyuelaiyueshenzhong。yinci，bubiyizhixinjingdanzhandiwendaoyixiehenchundenanti，yebubiwenyixieyunihegandeshier，youqishiqianshedaotarendegerenyinsi。biru，xinshui、jiatingchengyuanguanxidaonayibujiuliaonayibugailiaodehuatitaolun，bumingbaizhangwofencunganzongshilingrendanxinyunigoutongjiaoliu。

自信心美丽动人的身体语言

 shentiyuyannengtigaonideyuyanbiaodanengli!diyigebukeyihushideshimuguangchupeng。niyinggaizenyangheaiderenxianliao?jiarunihaipakanlingyifangdeshuangyan，nvshengbianhuiganjuenihenbudangranquefazixin。shidudehenvshengkaizhanduiwang，huirangtabuzijuedeguanxinnideliaotianneirong。gaosuniyunvshengliaotiandehuati，gennvshengliaotiandehuatidaquanyouzheixie，ruguonimingquetichuyixiejianjieshi，nenggouyunyongshoushilaizhuzhongnideguandian!

除非是必需，不用说另一方缺点

 meigerendoushiyouyoushiyulieshi，buqingchushuonaxiehao，nvshengaidabuliyebukeyiouqishuolingyifangdequexian。jiarunvshengbupeihe，tiyishiyaoshidudajide，keshidajishiyizhongfengguowuhendefangfa。nvshengqidaixunzhaodeshizanmeizishendenanhaizi，bingbushiyitiandaowankekezishende，ziranjiaruniyoudianxiangribendongmanlibiandeshuainanneibanshuai，yeshiyounvshengshinikekede。kuanvhaizideqingkuangxia，nenggoutiaoxuanxuduocengmian，lirunvshengdeqinfen，piaoliang，shuangyan，pifu、zhuangshipin、yifukuzidabandeng，buhuimeiyouyiqieyidianyoushi，keshijinjibubikuaxiongbuda，nenggouzaixinlimomodidekua，keshibuyaoshuochuqu，buranlingyifanghaowuyiwenhuirangniyibazhang，maniwulai。

敞开式的提出问题

 yaoshanyuyunyongtichuwenti。“nichilema”zheigewentiyuanbi“nichiwannaxie”caogaoxuduo。yingdui“shifou“neiyangdenanti，nvshenghenyoukenengjiuzongshihuiyingni“ng。”ertichuwenti“naxie”、“weihe”、“ruhe”、“zenyang”，nvshengbianhuiyuelaiyuesuihehenduo!

管理自己的心态

 zaihenvshengxianliaoquanguochengzhong，yaoguanlizijidexintai。jinkenengweichijijizhudongdexintai，gaosuniyunvshengliaotiandehuati，gennvshengliaotiandehuatidaquanyouzheixie，binggongxiangganshounvshengdexintai。bubiduinvshengdeguandianzishentaiguozaihu，ganshoudaotadexintaishihenzhongyaode。jiaruyikaishinvshengjiudajini，hushitatideshijinanti，yaoxunzhaotawangwangzhujiandajinidexintaigenbenyuanyin。