促进情感：异性聊天冷场怎样处理？

 henduorenyizhidanshendeyuanyinbianshiyouyuburongyiheyixingpengyouxianliaoyizhigaliao，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，neimanilejieheyixingpengyouxianliaogaliaogaizenmebanma？xiabiangensuiwowomenyiqilailejieyixiaheyixingpengyouzhangwodeqiaomenba，nanhaierbuguanzenyangqingkuangxiadouxuyaobazijidereqingyangyiguazailianbu，yaoxiangbugaliaojiudeyouyigeweixiaobiaoqing，wulunneiyigenvhaishifouyouyigehaodemianse，shifouyouyigehaodeqingxu。huoshiyaozuoshenmeshishizhe，danglingyifangbugaoxingdeqingkuangxiahaikeyiquhongyixialingyifang，huayanqiaoyuyeshibukehuoque。xuduonanhaizijuedenanyihenvshengdachengyipian，daliangqingkuangxiayebushimingbaironghezishendechangjingkaizhanronghuiguantong，yineryaomingbaizaibuyiyangdeziranhuanjingxiashuoyixieshidudehua。neiyangcaikeyirangzheiyinvhaijuededaonishiyigeruhederen，zhibuzhitaqugoutongjiaoliu？

1、不必总是没什么主题风格的闲谈

 zaiheyigeyixingpengyouganglejiedeqingkuangxia，nijiuxuyaoxuehaozhangwoxianliaodepinlv，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，bubirangtaganjueniyizhengtianhunhunee，xianxialaidengdaitagennixianliao，gengbukeyiyouyidameiyidadeliao。xianliaoyitianyicijiaoweishihe，shijianfanweizaiwanshang9diandao11dianqinei，yicigaopinzhidexianliaoshijianshizai45fenzhongshangxia。wanbiqianhainenggouweixiayicixianliaodedakailiuyouyigexuannian，neiyangnidiertianjiunengshunzhezheiyihuatitaolunliaoxialaile。

2、学好积极完毕闲聊

 tandaofenweizuigaochu、zuihapideqingkuangxiajiuwanbixianliao，bubilianlianbushe。xianliaodexintaishibolangwenbodongde，buyiyang，womenzaixintaizuidadeqingkuangxiawanbixianliao，lingyifangbianhuiganjuebushufu，xiayicihaixianggenniliao。rutongnishuajudeqingkuangxia，gushiqingjiedaogaochaodeqingkuangxiazheiyijiwanbi，shinichaosimuxiang，weidebianshimingrianshiguankan。jiaruzhujianliaolebujiufajuefenweihendi、butengbuyangneimejiugengyaolijizhaoyigetuocironghezheicicouhezhedexianliao，qianwanbiedenglingyifangyong“woquxizaole”laiwanbicicixianliao。

3、没话题的情况下就聊自身身旁的有趣的事

 jiarunizaijingshenshangbingbushihengao、jinzhanbakongdebingbushihenjishi，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，liangrenxianliaozaisuonanmianfashengmeihuatidezhuangkuang。zheigeshihouniyidingbukeyitiaoxuanquwenlingyifangdexinxineirong，“naliren”“ganshenmede”“pingchangxiaizuoshenmezheileichaxunhukoudexianliaoshizuilowde。niyinggaizaimeihuatideqingkuangxialiaoyixiezishendeshier，huoshishenpangdepenyoudeyouqudeshi，huatitaolunyaoqingsongzizai，bubikuzaofawei，ranglingyifangjinyong“ng”“e”“zheiyanga”laihuiying。