找共同语言，异性聊天冷场怎样处理！

 yuanfenlaila，yizhihuishinipengdaoneiyigedongnideren，danshiliangrenzaixiangfengdeqianqi，xuduorendequefajuexianliaofeichangganga，yizhibuqingchuliaoyixieruhedehuatitaolun，keyiranglingyifangduizishenzaochengxingquaihao。heyixingpengyouxianliaogaliaogaizenmeban？shiyidingyaoxuexipeixunde，meiyigerendoushiyoubuyiyangdexingqing，zaijiaowangquanguochengzhongyeshijubeibuyiyangdezhuyaobiaoxian。shubuzhiruguonizhenzhenzhengzhengzhujianguanxinyigerendeqingkuangxia，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，jiudianjizhekeyihuodeneirendehuanxi。xiangyixianghenvhailiaotianquanguochengzhong，ranglingyifangbudichuniliangrenmeiyougaliaodezhuangkuang，yaomingbairangnvhaiquchangkaixinfei，neiyangtacaikeyimingmuzhangdan，wujushudeyunikaizhangoutongjiaoliu，nvhaihuoshizaizheixiefangmianzhuyaobiaoxiandemeiyouneimajijizhudong。daliangqingkuangxiahuoshiyaogenjunanhaizidezhengqueyindaozheiyinanhaizihuijianghuadeyucitongshi，jiukeyituidongnvshenghetayiqishuo，neiyangcaikeyilajinliangrenzhongjiandeguanlian。

一、和异性朋友闲聊尬聊该怎么办？

 1、nanhaierbuguanzenyangqingkuangxiadouxuyaobazijidereqingyangyiguazailianbu，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，yaoxiangbugaliaojiudeyouyigeweixiaobiaoqing，wulunneiyigenvhaishifouyouyigehaodemianse，shifouyouyigehaodeqingxu。huoshiyaozuoshenmeshishizhe，danglingyifangbugaoxingdeqingkuangxiahaikeyiquhongyixialingyifang，huayanqiaoyuyeshibukehuoque。

 2、xuduonanhaizijuedenanyihenvshengdachengyipian，daliangqingkuangxiayebushimingbaironghezishendechangjingkaizhanronghuiguantong，yineryaomingbaizaibuyiyangdeziranhuanjingxiashuoyixieshidudehua。neiyangcaikeyirangzheiyinvhaijuededaonishiyigeruhederen，zhibuzhitaqugoutongjiaoliu？

二、怎样找话题聊天不尬聊

 1、yaoxiangzhaohuatiliaotiandeyucitongshi，yebixuguanxintarendeqingkuang，yikaishiqimayaojizheiyinvhaichanshenghaogandu，yinerzaijianghuadeqingkuangxiahuoshiyaoliuyifencungan。yexunvhaihuiminganduoyi，jinjinniyinggaizuoyigekeyidailaitahaoxintaideren。

 2、tiaoxuanliaotiandehuatiyidingyaoyoudiquxing，bubidaizhenaxieshuoxieshenme，neibanzongshirangzheiyinvhaijuedenishiyigeburongyitiaoxuanhuatitaolunderen。jianghuadeyucitongshihaixuyaotishengzijideqianxindu，qianwanbieyuwulunci，neibanbianhuirangliangrenhuatitaolunhenwufazaici，zheiyeshihenzhongyaodeyidian。

 yixingpengyouzhongjiankeyixianghuzhijianxiyinzhu，gaosuniyixingliaotianlengchangzenyangchuli？dapolengchangdeyoumojuziyuanlaiyouzheixie，daliangshiyouyunisuotiaoxuandehuatitaolun，rangzheiyinvhaijuededaotebieganxingqu。yinernanhaiziwulunzaishenmeshihoudouxuyaomingbaijianghua，zaigaliaodeqingkuangxiaqianwanbiejinghuang。