和女生聊天找不到共同话题？怎样和女生找话题聊

 youguanhenvhailiaotianzheiyijianshier，yizhikunhuozhezhuduodixiong，zenyanghenvshengzhaohuatiliao？yizhiweizhaobuzhehuatitaolunbuqingchugaizenmeliaozheizhongshierbuzhidaozenmeban，youqishihenvhailiaotianzhaobuzhegongtongyuyanshi，yeshiganjueliaobuxialai，fenweinankanjiqi，neimanilejienanticongheshifashengdema？

shijishangjiaodadenanti，shiyinizhujianjiaolvbuandeqingkuangxiazhujianfashengde。gennvshengkeliaode20gehuatiyounaxie？

1、维持稳定的心理状态是重要

 dajialaibaituoyuanxiannantishedingdejiagou，xiangyigegengduofangmiandenanti：wuhuakeshuo，fashenggaliao，queshiyidinghuizaochengnankanma？

 shijishanghuidashifourende，jiuliruyuejigerenyiqichifan，laiguojiujuderendoulejie——jiusuannizainengyueju，zainenghuoyueqifen，zheiyicanzhuoshangshiyidinghuifashengjigeshijiandegaliaode。

 wodouguanchaleyixia，yibandajiazaixianliaodeqingkuangxia，15~ershifenzhongdejiaotanyihou，tongchanghuifashengyigeduanzanxingdejianmo。

 zenyanghenvshengzhaohuatiliao？suoyishuogaliaoshiyiqiezhengchangde，renyurenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliu，shiyidinghuifashengyiduanshijiandekongquede，zaizheigeshijianfanweiyineidahuoerdoushihuijuededaomeiyouhuashuo。

keshi，niyijiaolvbuan，zheiyizhuangkuangjiufeichangrongyichudashile。

 youyunixiaizheiyimeizhi，nipashuoshuocuo，pazishenzhuyaobiaoxianbutaihao，guoduzaihunvhaidexintaiyijianfankui，juebuyunxugaliaodefasheng，yidanfashengniyejiuhuizhujianniantouxiangfangshefakusimingxianghuodezhaoyixielingsuidebianyuanhualaitianbukongbai。

 keshiniyizhizaineimezuodeqingkuangxia，nantijiuzaoyifashengle，youyuxianliaozhong，20%kaodeshineirong，80%kaodeshixianliaodeqifenyunideganzhaoli，jiaruniyizhizaizheigeshihoujiujiaolvbuanle，youyudanxinjianmoerbushuohuale，nidejiaolvbuanhejiaolvqingxuhuichuansongjilingyifang——tanengcongnizhizhiwuwudeyuju，meitoujinsuodeshenqingzhizhongjuededaobutaidui，juededaonizhujianzhuyaobiaoxianyichangle。

 yinci，jiejuezheileinanti，xinlizhuangtaishifenguanjian：zhaokanbudaohualiaoshifenyiqiezhengchang，dajiayoubushituokouxiuyanyuanhuanjuhuashuoxiangshengxiaopinde，dajiadeluojisiweizaiyunxingyiduanshijianyihouzaisuonanmianfashengkongdang。gennvshengkeliaode20gehuatiyounaxie？

zheigeshihou，jieshouxianshi，kongzhuzhuyaobiaoxian，jiushinizuiguanjiandeshiqing。

2、掌握闲聊的节奏感，多去呈现自身

 xuduoqingkuangxia，xuduodixiongzaixianliaoquanguochengzhong，zongxiailiaoyouguannvhaideyixiehuatitaolun，jinguannenggougenghaodizhangwonvhaikeyinenggougenghaodijinxingxianliao，keshijiarunizuizhonglizuyubingbushizaizhanxianzishenzheiyihexinshang，neimayidannvhaibazijidezhuangkuangjiangwan，niyejiubuqingchuzenmejiehuale。

yinciyaoxiangrangxianliaobubianweiyiwenyida，jiubixudajiabahuatitaolunyanshendaozishendeshenshang，zhengqueyindaonvhaitiwen。

 gennvshengkeliaode20gehuatiyounaxie？henyoukenengyouxierenyaoshuoruguonvshengshuodehuatitaolun，zijibumingbaiyejiebulezenmebanni？jiurutongshuonvhailiaotadedezhuanyeyingwen，zishenyebumingbai，yewufajie。

 yingduizheileizhuangkuangshi，nenggouyichengxiangdaizishenbushanyu，henvshengliaozishendejuede，suihoulejienvhaidetihui，huatitaolunwonengdusai，keshimeiyijianshishenhoudejuedeshihutongde！nirenzhenxuexiyingwenzheijianshiqing，shijishanggenwoqinfenxuexibianchengshenhoudetihui，shileiside。

 liru，doubixutourufeichangdadeqinfen，douqishihengudu，douxuyaochixutiaozhanziji，jianchibuxiechulaidequanshijingshenshizhijianqiangbuquderen，zheijiushishenhoudejuedeshileiside！

 zenyanghenvshengzhaohuatiliao？jibianmeiyouhuatiliao，hainenggouliaojuede，zaiyongnidejuedequgongmingdianta，neiyangyebuchouliaobuxialaile。