如何和男生聊天？和中年男人聊天，多聊这几个话题，心越靠越近

 doushuonvhaidexinsiqingbiecai。youyunvhaidexinsihaoxiangyizhiqifubudingde，ruhehenanshengliaotian？tamenxiaorongdeqingkuangxiabingkanbudaodeshiqueshikaixin，tamenfahuodeqingkuangxiayekanbudaodeshiqueshifahuo，tamenbulinideqingkuangxiayekanbudaodeshiqueshiyaoxianglengdanni，tamensuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqude，youshitongchangshizhenghaoxiangfandehanyi。gennanshengkeliaode20gehuatiyounaxie？

yinci，yaoxiangzhenzhenzhengzhengdekanchuantamendezhenxinshiyiranshishifendenannengkegui。

 ershijishang，nanrenxinyebingbuyidingshinenggouyiyankanjiujingde，youqishizhenduizhongniannanxingeryan，tamenzaoyikanlelezheishijiandeshijianbaitai，jianguolerenshengdaoludeqiqiluoluo。yincitamendaliangleyisiwanshanhechenwen。

 xuduoqingkuangxia，tamenyizhikantoubushuotou，xinzhongyouqianmo，shubuzhiquemeifayiyan。zheijiucushizheixieduitamenyouhaogandenvxing，jibianfeijinxinji，queyiranwufazhaodaoyutaxianliaodetupodian。

shijishangzhongniannanxingyeshiyouruanzhu，ruguoniduoliaoxiabianzheisanzhonghuatitaolundeqingkuangxia，huiyutadexinkaodeyulaiyujin。

另一方往日的光辉

 ruhehenanshengliaotian？nanshengdezerenxinyibanshijizhongde，tamenyebazijiyiqiandezaojiukandejiqiguanjian，naizhizaitamendexinzhongzhong，ganqingzhenqingdouburugongzuozaitamenxinlidebuwei。

tamenganjuezishenrenshenglixiangdefanying，tongchangshizaigongzuocengmian。

 zheijiucushiruguonijijitidaotamenyiqianguanghuidejiushideqingkuangxia，tamenyizhiwufaheshangzishendefangbianzhimen。naizhilianduonianyiqianchenbaizhimalandaogudeshier，tamenhaikeyixushudetaotaobujue，chongzudizhanxianleyigeyanjiangjiayiyangdefengcai。

 yinci，dangyigenvrenzaixianliaoshangzhaobuzhetupodiandeqingkuangxia，neimejiuduozuogongke，zhangwozheigenanrendewangri，kantayiqianzuoleshenmegongzuozhong，huodeguonaxiezaojiu。

 ruguonijijitidaozheizhongdeqingkuangxia，nanshengbianhuiganjuezishenzaoshoulejiqidegaoduzhongshi，zishenhuodelenvxingdezunzhong，zishenpengdaoleyigezhenzhenzhengzhengyouhuoyanjinjingde、dongzishendenvxing。

yincitamenyebianfangxialezishendexinlizhuangtaitifang，jijididakaixinfeiqujieshouzheiyinvxing。

彼此之间的感情经历

 zhongniannanxingyibandoujingliguojigebuchenggongdeqinggan，zheixielijingbianchengtamenxinlideyinyinzuotong。yincitamenbingbuyuanyisuibianduirenhuitanqi。

 shubuzhi，dangyigenvrenzhudongdeyutataxiangzishendeganqingjinglideqingkuangxia，nanshengquefeichangrongyizhudongdibazijizuoweinvxingqingganzhongdelaoshi，genjuzishendeqinshenlijingqushudaonvxing，weitamenzhiyinfangxiang。

 youyuzhongniannanxingquanshiwangzizundade，tamenganjuezishendelijingshiyizhongrenshengdaoludeganshouhecaifu，xiangyaobazheizhongzuoweiyimenrenshengdaolukechengneirong。gennanshengkeliaode20gehuatiyounaxie？

 erzaizheigequanguochengzhong，liangrenzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliubianhuiyuelaiyuechangshunjiqile，yefeichangrongyishiliangrenzhongjiandeguanliangengjinyibu，qinggangengweiqinmiwujian。

自身的优点

gennanshengkeliaode20gehuatiyounaxie？meinvmenzongganjueyunanshenggongxiangzishendeyoudianshiyijianyouqiguoduzhijiedeshier。

 ershishishang，xianrujinzheiyishehuifazhanbianhuanmoce，meiguoyigenanrenmeiridoushihuipengdaobuyiyangdenvxing，youqishiyigeyoufengcaidezhongniannanxing，jibiantamenbuzhudong，yeshiyouxuduonvxinghuijijiditieguolai，zheijiucushinvxingzaiyaoxiangxianluduinanshengdehaogandudeqingkuangxia，yidingyaozhijiejianyi、zhiqiezhongyao。

 yingyongdezhuyaobiaoxianzishendeyoudian，nenggourangyigenanrenkuaisudizhangwoni，youyudajiahenyoukenengjinjinlingyifangshengmingzhongzuiyiqiezhengchangdanshideyigecongcongguoke，guoqulezheiyicunjiumeiyoulezheiyidian。

jiarunimeiyouzaidiyishijianxiangtabiaoshuzishendeyoudian，neimatahenyoukenengyizhuanyanjiujiangniwangjile。

 yincizhongniannanxingbingmeiyoubiaocengshangkanshangquneimabinglengde、butaihaotiejin，shishishangtamendexinliyeshiyoumianruandeyimian，jinjinxuduoqingkuangxianiyongbuduili，zheijiucushinijiuxiangyigewutoucangyingyibansichuluancuan，quemeifabawozhuyaodian。

zaizheigequanshijie，jihuyebuquehaodefenxiangdaren，shubuzhi，quequefahaodehuatitaolundeyinlingzhe。

 ruhehenanshengliaotian？henduorenkanshangquneixiangxing、busuihe，shishishangjinjinyouyunimeiyoutidaotayouxingqudehuatitaoluneryi。ruguoniyongzhengqueleli，yiqieyigebushanyancidenansheng，quanshiyigewoshiyanshuojia。