和异性如何找话题聊天不冷场？怎样和异性聊天才不会冷场？

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怎么判断闲聊目标对哪一个话题讨论有兴趣呢？

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？zuixian，zaixianliaodequanguochengzhizhong，duozhuyimoushiyixieguanjianzi，liruniduiyigenvshengshuo：jintiandetianqifeichanghao。nvhaihuiying：duia，zhiqianwoqushenzhenyeshizheilei，redeyaosile。dengyixialainajiayongcanba，zhiqianqushenzhenyeshichizheiyiguanggaopaide。nihuiyingshuo：keyia，wochishadoukeyi。yincinimeizhuyidaodeshi，zheiyinvhaiguannianzhizhongshihenxiangzhaojiyuyuniliaoyiliao，shiniwentashenzhenshizhixingyoushenmehaowande，huodelenaxiezheixie，taxiangbazheizhongshigongxiangrangni，zheiyibianshitadexianliaoyaoqiusuoshu，niquehushilezheiyihuatitaolun，rengzaidianjizhexiayibubuqingchugailiaoshenme？suoyini，duozhuyilingyifangdeguanjianzihenzhongyao，lirunihuita：niheshiqudeshenzhenshi？wohaimeitingnishuoguo，gaosuwoshuoshenzhenshizenmeyangwan。neiyang，jianxintaxunsubianhuijijizhudonghuifuni，gaogaoxingxingxialiaobuduan。zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？

要是没有明确提出某事或沒有关键字该怎么办？

 xuduoqingkuangxia，genyigerenxianliaoqueshizhaobuzhehuatitaolun，lirunifasongjiyigenvshengshuo：nichifanlema？nvhaihuini：chiwan。niyejiubuqingchugaizenmeliaoxialaile，zheileiqingkuangxiajiuyaonizishenquzhaohuatiliaotianle，nenggouhuita：chiwanya，wodoudianjizhejiaogunhuilaizheilichini，rujinzhiyouniyaoqukandianyingle。zheiyangyilaijiuchuquyingpianzheiyihuatitaolun，jibianmeiyouzhenzhenzhengzhengqukankanyeshiyouhuatitaolunkeliao，buhuigaliao。

 zenmeliaotiancaihaoni？zheiyijiujiangdaozhuanhuanhuatitaolunle，zhuanhuanhuatitaolunbingbingbushisuibiande，xukanlingyifangzaizheigehuatitaolunshangshifouyouyaozaicigoutongjiaoliuxialaidehanyi，yaoshimeiyou，bianshizhuanhuanhuatitaolunbuchenggong。lirunvhaixunwenni：nixiaichimiantiaoma？nihuiying：woxihuanchitusimianbao，meiweiyouhuasuan。zheiyibianshiguishuyubushidangdezhuanhuan，nixuyaohetadehuatitaolunlianzaiyiqicaisuanshidang，yaoxianzhenglianhuifuta：xiaihuoshitaoyan，houbianzaijie，woxihuanchitusimianbao，nichimiantiao？meiyouqianhuoshizale？zheiyangyilaihuatitaolunjiulaile。

 ruhezhaohuatiliaotianbulengchang？shijishanghenduorenbaohanwozishenyehuichangchangfanneiyangdenanti，bianshihuiyongwuguanjinyaodehuaquhuifutarendetichuwenti，zaochengliangrenxianliaomeiyoufenwei，tichuwentihehuiyingmeishenmeguanxi，meiyouzhenzhenzhengzhenghuifudaolingyifangdehua。zheiyibianshixianliaobuyukuaideguanjianyuangu，chediwuluntarenzaishuoxieshenme，zhishuozishenxiangshuode，bierenwennixiaichimiantiaoma？nihuiying，ruhehuranwenzheigewenti，fuyousheixiangyaochimiantiaodeng。shijishangzuihaoshibubisuibianqianyilingyifangdehuatitaolun，tajinxingyigehuatitaolunyibanshiyouyutayouxingqu，xianghenitantaozheiyihuatitaoluncaitidao，niqianyilehuatitaolun，lingyifangjiumeifaduizishenyouxingqudeshiqingbiaodayijianle。dajiaganjueni？